I just need some help. Someone. Anyone!!!!!

fairydustandpixies · 15/12/2020 10:21

You may have been pregnant with twins but sadly one miscarried?

luxxlisbon · 15/12/2020 10:29

If you are ten weeks pregnant now then the 17th of May wouldn't be right, your due date would be in July.

tobeornottobe1 · 15/12/2020 10:29

Contact the hospital and tell them your still having positive pregnancy tests? They will be able to scan and advise.

TheFoz · 15/12/2020 10:31

Just take a test and ask for your bloods to be repeated.

KellyMarieTunstall2 · 15/12/2020 10:33

After a miscarriage you can have retained tissue and this can cause positive pregnancy tests. Even after an erpc you can have positive tests for a few weeks. Obviously you need to contact the early pregnancy unit and be checked. I'm sorry you are going through this. Take care

JustLikeStitch · 15/12/2020 10:34

This is the most bizarre post I’ve read so far this month....

Missyox · 15/12/2020 10:37

@JustLikeStitch I have to agree....I wouldn’t rely on a oujia To indicate if you are pregnant or not OP😂😂😂😂

DearTeddyRobinson · 15/12/2020 10:38

You will most likely need an internal ultrasound to check for an early pregnancy or retained pregnancy if you've had a miscarriage.
The ouija board is irrelevant so ignore that and go see a medical professional.

Worriedandabitscared · 15/12/2020 10:39

That was a wild ride, hope you get the outcome you want op

nimbuscloud · 15/12/2020 10:40

Hope it all works out ok for you

MsHedgehog · 15/12/2020 10:47

I'm not a spiritual person per se, but I do believe in the existence of spirits, so whilst I'm not sure on the legitimacy of ouija boards, I would never do them because I'd be too scared! I say that because I don't immediately pour scorn on you believing you saw your uncle and grandmother.

But sometimes, when we want something so badly, our minds play tricks on us. You've been through a lot of pain and stress over the past few months so it's not impossible that you're convincing yourself the doctors are wrong. To be due on 17 May, you would be around 18 weeks pregnant now, which doesn't tally with getting pregnant in October.

It's not impossible to get positives after a miscarriage - you would still have hormones in your body that give you that positive test. Do another test in a few days to see what that says.

It's also not impossible for doctors to be wrong. Try and get another blood test as that would be most reliable, and that should give you the answer you need.

cat709 · 15/12/2020 10:48

@Senbrulee
10 weeks pregnant wouldn't place you as a May date.... very bizarre post!! Go with medical science rather than witchcraft...!

TeaBanditTeej · 15/12/2020 10:48

@Senbrulee

Okay so I need some thoughts. or something.. anything.

Okay so I found out I was pregnant October this year.. I was booked in for my midwife appointment but because I was so so sick I physically couldn’t get myself out of my bed to even get to my appointment. So it got moved to a later date which I wasn’t happy about as I had a miscarriage earlier this summer which was one of the worst things I’ve ever been through. I just wanted to get seen to ASAP, Any how, it gets to the weekend & I started spotting on the Saturday then it got heavier, then I passed like a weird pink / sack kinda thing.. god knows what it was it looked so bizarre. Then a few hours later I passed a pretty big clot looking thing! My heart just sank. I rang 111 straight away and they booked me in Monday morning so all Sunday I was just left thinking what the hell is going on! But I never felt like I did the time I had my miscarriage a few months Prior! Even the morning I went to the scan back in July I knew something was up I knew I was gonna get told bad news I felt it in my gut, but this time nothing.

So this is when it gets weird. So I go to my appointment Monday morning.. a 2 hour wait may I add 🤦🏻‍♀️ I go for my scan and she looks puzzled and asked me if I could be earlier then I thought so I said of course ( I have random periods ) so she said I can definitely see pregnancy there ( I did bring up the clot & the things I’d passed but that didn’t seem to bother her ) but I can’t see anything as of yet, then asked to do an internal but I refused as I was still bleeding a little & was just super uncomfortable as I got my cervix ruptured by a doctor once when I had my son a couple years ago. So they took my bloods and wanted to do a repeat in 2 days time! In them 2 days the bleeding calmed down! ( when I had my miscarriage I bled A LOT for almost 2 week it was that bad I was genuinely wearing women nappies! ( comfy as hell may I add ) so again left feeling lost & just numb from the absolute rollercoaster ride I’m being taken on. I go for my repeat bloods, she calls later that afternoon & says she’s very sorry but my bloods have dropped ( I can’t remember the number now as I instantly felt crushed ) she said to take a test in 2 weeks time. So I did and I just got a faint positive. I’ve had 3 faint positives now but I didn’t think it was worth telling them as it was dropping surely that means my pregnancy isn’t progressing right ?

Right NOW this is when it gets spooky. So (also I get people don’t like messing with this type of stuff, but I did. I hold my hands up I did it. ) So my sister, mum & I did a Ouija board a couple weeks ago, I’ve never ever done one before so I was super intrigued. So we did it all properly did a meditation before hand got all my crystals out got all Zen. Anyway my uncle who passed when I was really young came through & kept saying 17th of May over and over then he went on to say the doctors have got it wrong, he told me im 8 weeks pregnant then he went. Then my nan came through ( I was actually surprised to get spirits that know me come through ) so my Nan kept saying pregnant, little girl born 17th of May 2021. Now I swear I worked out dates and it would be about right. She kept saying the doctors got it wrong! My mind at this point was blown. We left it be I threw it to the back of my mind and went about my day to day life.! I have a 2 year old so my days full of constantly trying to entertain him so I’m constantly busy, now the last few days I’ve been feeling like a flicking sensation from the inside around my left side, I feel a lot of movement that I know isn’t a fart ( TMI I know! ) now I’m starting to question everything! Is there a way I could be pregnant and they got it wrong...

SO.. we did another Ouija board and a spirit unknown to us came through and kept getting angry saying take a test take a test pregnant. Then kept repeating infant. NOW this morning I went on my insta and I just put a # and it randomly said “#10weekspregnant” WHY WOULD IT SAY THAT!!!!! Why!! I’m a big believer in signs and things but from the time my uncle said 8 weeks it’s been 2 weeks since. So id be around that time, Sooo at this point I wanna Burry my head in a pile of sand and scream. I don’t know what to do I feel strange. Does anyone have any advice or just anything 🤦🏻‍♀️🤯

I understand the concern for an intel scan but this is important - set aside the worries - they won't hurt you.

I hope you get the outcome you want
Good luck

Santaisironingwrappingpaper · 15/12/2020 10:50

Yabu to be messing with that shit...

Missyox · 15/12/2020 10:54

@Santaisironingwrappingpaper

Yabu to be messing with that shit...

Honestly I wouldn’t dare touch one messing with the unknown cause you think you are pregnant 😂😂😂

justanotherneighinparadise · 15/12/2020 10:54

Yeah it’s normally the accuracy of the clear blue indicator test not a ouiji board that’s questioned 🤭

Take another test OP. Fingers crossed for you xx

lucywho123 · 15/12/2020 10:57

@JustLikeStitch

Its definitely up there

Hopefully the positive tests mean you are still pregnant OP but pls be cautious as that may just be as a result of the MC. Wishing you the best, hopefully you can get a scan ASAP to know either way

Original poster

Senbrulee · 15/12/2020 10:58

The Ouija side of its irrelevant I just find that bizarre! But it’s crazy how I’m feeling these little twinges & I didn’t seem to bleed for long like I did with my first miscarriage, I’m gonna do another pregnancy test today to give myself peace of mind , & I don’t know how far I am the doctors never said anything so as for the 17th of May that’s irrelevant also! I’m just puzzled on the whole thing

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BigBadVoodooHat · 15/12/2020 11:03

So we did it all properly did a meditation before hand got all my crystals out got all Zen.

I'm glad to hear that you adhered to the official Ouija board guidelines.

boymum88 · 15/12/2020 11:07

Do a test, if positive ring ur local epu or if u have the funds maybe go for a private scan , I hope u get the answers ur looking for

Namechanger0800 · 15/12/2020 11:09

I'd be very cross at either your mum or sister getting your hopes up like this - it's very cruel

UnshakenNeedsStirring · 15/12/2020 11:11

So bizarre, ask the doctors for another test or get an internal done instead of relying on spirits

ShalomToYouJackie · 15/12/2020 11:11

If you were due in the middle of May you'd be about 19/18 weeks pregnant. I'm due on the 5th May and 20 weeks pregnant tomorrow so something would definitely have been seen on a scan.

If your HCG levels were dropping then I really doubt you're pregnant. If you're still getting a faint positive you really need to contact the hospital like they advise you to as it could mean you have some retained product that can cause an infection.

A oujja board is not an indication of whether you're pregnant or not.

Postmysecret · 15/12/2020 11:13

You need to seek medical advice. My sister had a miscarriage was having positive tests, lots of early pregnancy symptoms as the sac had retained so her body still thought she was pregnant she had to have it surgically removed.

Missyox · 15/12/2020 11:13

@UnshakenNeedsStirring

So bizarre, ask the doctors for another test or get an internal done instead of relying on spirits

That’s what I thought, OP you shouldn’t have done the ouija bored in the first place that was stupid. Push the doctors if you are anxious