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Gender disappointment! Please help!

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Sammy234567 · 04/10/2020 20:34

I dont know why i’m feeling so emotional as i learnt that my second child we are expecting will be a girl as we already have a girl.

I was desperately hoping for a boy! I always thought we have one of each we can be over and done with as i will never think what it would be like to have a boy or a girl.

Yesterday I found myself so upset and crying over this and i understand if people are judgemental and think it’s not the end of the world. I will come to terms with it eventually and wish I didnt feel like this.

I’ve been trying not to talk to my husband about this as he’s happy we are having another girl and I don’t want him to think i’m ungrateful.

Growing up I was one of many sisters and never had a brother and always wanted a son. I just don’t think i can go for a third child after this in the hope for a boy.

Has anybody else been through a similar feeling? Please advise x

LouMumsnet · 04/10/2020 21:36

Evening, @Sammy234567 - we're just bobbing on here to let you know that we've moved your thread over to Pregnancy as we don't think that AIBU is quite the right topic. We hope you get some useful advice here. Flowers

HopeMumsnet · 06/10/2020 10:53

Hi everyone,
We know we can't really control what happens on an MN thread (tho lord knows we do try) but it might be a good thing to focus on the OP here rather than the earlier posts from when it was in AIBU?

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