@FlashesOfRage yes it’s a big nightmare! Never felt so out of control of anything in my life! Im doing all I can I hope to not cause any further risk.
Wow twins, congratulations! But I can imagine the worry you had/have with the weight of carrying two on your cervix! IVF is stressful enough and then having to worry about your cervix.... you must have been so worried.
If you don’t mind me asking how far along are you now? I hope is going well?
Thank you so much for putting my information in to QUIPP! The odds are not looking too bad for me...... but it is hard to rely on an app if you know what I mean. But if consultants are using the same then there’s got to be some truth in it. I will get the app and also talk about it with my consultant on Monday.
I feel like an idiot now for using the pessaries...... it was me who demanded them. I’m putting in the pessaries vaginally so am worried I could have done more damages than good now! I asked if I could take them rectally and the consultant said no and that they had to touch my cervix to work 😫 maybe I should stop them all together?
Sex is certainly off the table and in terms of my bowels, they have recently gone from being constipated to loose.... so have been a little bit worried. I ate a whole punnet of tomatoes last night (roasted with my dinner) I’m sure it won’t help my bowels 😫. Literally am worried about everything I’m doing!
@TenThousandSpoons0 thank you again- I think they have tested for presence of FFN in my swab last week, I will double check on Monday with my consultant.
Thank you so much for the info on monitoring up to 24 weeks.... it’s very interesting! I just thought it had something to with being out of a danger area ie if all ok up to then likely to carry to nearer 30 weeks or that the elective stitch can only be put in up to 24 weeks. Naive me. But yes can see why monitoring stops as it can cause panic and reliance on scans that won’t really help later in pregnancy.
I didn’t really know that infection was the cause of premature labour, I knew it was a cause but I didn’t know that’s the main concern when having a short cervix.... why didn’t my consultant tell me this? I just thought your cervix can shorten for a few reasons but that it was purely the cervix getting shorter and causing PPROM/labour. I didn’t realise the key factor was infection as such. The consultant said I have a nice closed cervix so hoping all is ok to date. They did an infection test last week, and I think I will have another at 23 weeks. Maybe I should stop the pessaries? Freaking out once again here.
Thank you so much for your support and reassurance, I hope i’m worrying over nothing I really do and I hope I reach past 30 weeks 🤞🏻I always think the worst and what if I’m one of the unfortunate ones. My consultant must hate all my questions and lack of trust 😆