its so distressing hearing it @rainer22, I’ve felt so hopeless when I heard it at 20 week scan. I know how you feel!
That was our case too, not in family, no idea how it happened. They did a follow up scan a few weeks later to make sure everything else is in order, and it was. They confirmed unilateral talipes again.
We connected with Ponseti clinic and had intro chat with physio at about 30 weeks. I still had my hopes up it’s positional, but physio told us that when it’s spotted that early in pregnancy it’s usually structural.
When my little baba was born doctors actually couldn’t determine if it’s positional or structural for a few weeks. They suggested starting exercises as it’s positional, but after three weeks of no progress they decided it’s best to start the treatment as if it was structural, not to loose time. We finally got to see specialist at about one month and she confirmed it’s structural. We went through casting, tenotomy and brace for 23 hours for 3 months. After that it’s brace for 12 hours a day until 4, if everything goes ok 🙏🏼
I won’t lie, it was very hard and I cried a lot. However, it gets easier with time, specially when you see they are doing well and as time with the brace reduces. Now at 21 month he is the most active boy I’ve seen - walks and runs literally the whole day! ❤️ We joke we should get him steps tracker cos he never stops 😂 And at this stage we don’t really notice the brace anymore, it’s just a routine.
Kids are very resilient, it’s probably harder on us parents. I understand it’s hard, but try to remember that in grand scheme of things it’s minor and can be corrected 🙏🏼
if you need and advice or just want a chat, feel free to dm me. I know I felt very lonely and lost in it all at the time. I would suggest do some research on clothes you would be need to get if it’s structural (eg no footed pjs - next is great for that), high chair to get (one that doesn’t require taking the brace off to sit in and has support for legs so brace doesn’t dangle around) etc.
stay strong mama! 💪🏼