I'm almost 33 weeks'. Since the outbreak my antenatal care has been poor. What on earth is the point of a telephone consultation?!
My last f2f appt was by my home birth mw at week 28 before their team was suspended in my Trust. I had a telephone appt at 31 weeks' which tbh I found pointless. The only thing they can ask is about baby's movements and I would obviously seek help if the pattern changed anyway.
No fundal height measurements, no BP readings, no listening in to baby, no urine tests until 36 weeks which they told me I'd need to go into hospital for (which I am not prepared to do).
I've since booked an Independent Midwife as it's the only way of honouring the home birth that I'd planned from the start and ensuring (as much as possible) that my partner is going to be there for the birth of his first and last baby. Futhermore, as someone with a long history of significant anxiety due to past trauma, I feel that an advocate (in this case my partner) is extremely important for all of us.
IM will also take over all of my antenatal and postnatal care with f2f appts every two weeks' up until birth and also do baby's postnatal checks.
I honestly feel that I've had to pay a lot of money to ultimately keep my baby as safe as possible (I'm fortunate in that I have some savings) but mentally I feel so much better knowing we will be getting the support we need.
I fully appreciate that we are all in the middle of a pandemic and things are so incredibly tough for everyone. But I am concerned the rights of pregnant women are really being challenged here and that these significant reductions in antenatal care could be potentially very dangerous.
To add, a number of Independent Midwives have offered their services to the NHS on bank contracts. This would mean that more women could be kept away from busy labour wards and take some of the pressure away from hospitals. Should ladies so wish, they could birth from home with medically qualified support but not have to incur costs for the 'privilege' of doing so. Most Trusts have declined this offer - I have no idea why.
We are now in a situation where many ladies are choosing to free birth which, whilst perfectly legal, is clearly not without risk. But I fully understand why these ladies have made this decision - they might not be in a position to afford private care but, as every mum in the world strives for, they still want the best outcome for their babies.