I'm only 22 weeks but am also 42 with rapidly worsening gestational diabetes. All my growth scans bar 36 weeks have been cancelled, most of my consultant appointments will be remote, and my community midwife has cancelled everything except 28 week bloods.
I'm also missing any birth choices meetings which were put in place after a bad experience 18 months ago. Not essential to stop me dying, but a pretty big deal for mental health I can promise.
I spoke to my diabetic midwife this morning. I know her pretty well now and she is distraught by the new guidelines. GD is risky, ongoing scans ARE very important, and women with high risk levels are being neglected, like it or not. Yes there has to be balance, but as someone who has seen how badly this can go, it's no wonder she's horrified.
It's not just low risk women who are having their care compromised.
Personally I'm fairly laid back but it is scary, women who haven't done this before are going to be understandably terrified for their babies and there will be losses. That's not scaremongering, it's fact. Poo pooing those fears doesn't help at what is already a vulnerable time for mental health. I don't have an easy answer, but comparing me to Shamima Begum is unhelpful in the extreme.