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Loss of symptoms at 8 weeks pregnant

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danielasummer · 14/10/2019 09:42

Hi, I think I'm just looking for some reassurance as my midwife has given me none.

I'm now 9 weeks pregnant but last week, literally overnight, I lost all of my pregnancy symptoms - sore breasts, frequent urination, feeling queasy, constipation, cervical fluid. I thought they would come back but they haven't and it's been almost a week. I'm worried sick. My midwife said unless there is bleeding, she won't refer me for a scan.

I'm 27, normal BMI, had an internal scan at 7+2 weeks and saw baby's heartbeat. Am I worrying for nothing? Has this happened to anyone before? What would you do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated xxx

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ejmay90 · 23/10/2019 11:37

@danielasummer I am so so sorry to hear that :( that did make me cry a little reading that.
I know how it feels to have a miscarriage and please do take all the time you need to grieve and don't let anyone tell you any different.
Things will look up and you will get your rainbow baby!
If you need to talk about anything, please don't hesitate to message! x

didslysquiddlydoo · 23/10/2019 15:20

@danielasummer I'm so sorry to hear that sad news.

Your experience was very similar to mine and I was really hoping it was a more positive outcome for you :-(

I'll be thinking of you over the next few weeks - I hope you are not left in limbo too long and that you take the time you need to process it all and grieve xx

RolytheRhino · 23/10/2019 19:42

Oh, sorry to hear that, OP. Flowers

RolytheRhino · 24/10/2019 10:22

Sorry to hear that, OP. Flowers

whatdayisit7 · 24/10/2019 22:01

@danielasummer very sorry to read that - I was hoping you'd have a different outcome. It's a very tricky time Thanks

danielasummer · 25/10/2019 17:01

@ejmay90 @didslysquiddlydoo @RolytheRhino @whatdayisit7

Thank you everyone for your kind words. Only brown discharge at the moment.. may have to resort to medication to get things going.

Thank you for keeping me in your thoughts. You will all be in mine, and I wish you all the best x

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didslysquiddlydoo · 31/10/2019 11:37

How are you doing @danielasummer ? Been thinking of you and hope you're ok x

danielasummer · 06/11/2019 08:11

@didslysquiddlydoo Bless you, thank you.. coming towards the end of the miscarriage now (had to have medical management) so just hopeful for the future. I hope you're doing ok. So lovely of you to ask how I am Flowers

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Chance2020 · 18/09/2020 13:55

@danielasummer
Hey there
I've just read through this thread, a similar thing happened to me. I hope you're ok and have been able to get through it!
I hope you don't mind me asking but have you tried again for another?

danielasummer · 18/09/2020 14:28

@Chance2020 hi, I'm sorry to hear the same thing happened to you. I was able to get through it and fell pregnant a few months later. Now 28+2 with our rainbow baby so there is definitely hope and light at the end of what seems an extremely long and dark tunnel! Wishing you lots of luck x

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Chance2020 · 18/09/2020 14:53

That's amazing to here!
I know there's so many stories, but each of us are going through our own journey. I guess we have to listen to our own bodies.
I'm pregnant again now, I fell pregnant 6 months after the mmc. Hoping & positive vibes this goes well. I'm 7weeks so far, & debating a private scan around 8-9 weeks, I will see how I feel around that time!
Good luck with your pregnancy hope you feel well.

danielasummer · 18/09/2020 21:06

@Chance2020 ahh congratulations! I had a private scan at around 9 weeks and another at 10+6 (my partner couldn't come to the 12 week NHS scan so we decided to have a few private ones that he could come to). The likelihood of 2 MMC in a row is unlikely.

Sending you loads of luck. Do come back to the thread further down the line and let me know how you're getting on, if you like. I think it's nice to see some positives on these MMC threads as it feels like the worst thing in the world at the time (which it really is to be honest) but there is hope for future pregnancies. x

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