Pregnant not sure of the father...

[elsielake]

In desperate need of help. Split with cheating ex on May 25th, that was the last time we had sex. As I didn't know he was a cheat at the time we weren't using anything as we wanted another baby. Fast forward to June 2nd I was really stupid and got really drunk and slept with a friend (never ever have one night stands so this is unlike me) Yesterday found out I'm pregnant with a fairly strong but totally confused as to who's it is and don't want to tell either of them. What are the chances of it being the friend if we slept together on the 2nd and I got a digital positive on the 11th? Help.

@Bluerussian aren't you just lovely

I was in a similar situation. I did a prenatal paternity test at 12 weeks pregnant with one of the potential fathers without telling the other one.

The only thing is it’s expensive. It cost £960. If you wait until the baby is born, it’s about £100.

I got pregnant on day 17. A friend of mine tested her baby against her other child, when the test came back half rather than full siblings she had her answer.

Personally I would ask the friend to do a prenatal dna test.

Ok thank you all so much for your help. Where do you even get a prenatal test?

I did it with AlphaBiolabs

www.alphabiolabs.co.uk/public-testing-services/prenatal-dna-testing/

I’d say it’s your ex’s.

For it to be your friend’s I really don’t think you’d get a digital positive just 9 days later. A squinter possibly, but not a digital.

Hi OP, how are you getting on? X

Hi! I miscarried the following week before managing to have a scan or any kind of test and had only told my ex so far. He helped me through it and though it was really sad probably wasn't meant to be. Didn't end up telling the friend as it didn't seem necessary to put him through it. Thanks for checking in! X

Only way to know for sure is to have a dna test. I’m in the same situation and the dating scan points to person a however I slept with person b 6 days after, I was told by the midwife that it could be either depending on when ovulation occurred. That dna testing company is £80 for a test I found it hard trying to find one that is reputable so I’ve made it easy for you! Best of luck x

Oh just read your last post! So sorry to hear

Oh OP I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you are doing ok and that everything has worked out ok x

So sorry to hear that OP, glad your ex was supportive x

How reliable are Alphabio labs? Thank you

We’re Alphabiolabs correct after birth?

@Abm2

We’re Alphabiolabs correct after birth?

@Abm2 Go read the thread.

I did

Abm2 the original poster miscarried so never had the lab test

I am really sorry I didn’t see this 💕

@Abm2

I am really sorry I didn’t see this 💕

Sorry @Abm2 thats what I meant, I thought you had missed it, I should have been specific.

@Abm2

We’re Alphabiolabs correct after birth?

Yes, they were for me

Thanks for confirmation do you know others that have used and had the same outcome? Freaking out

@Abm2 you should create your own thread rather than post on this one. Not only is it a zombie, but it may be painful for OP to get updates from this thread.