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Pink or blue fun guesses please

55 replies

Lexyness · 27/03/2019 07:21

I would love some fun guesses as I am aware the nub isn’t noticeable from my dating scan! I have my anomaly scan tomorrow so really hoping to find out! Pink or blue?

Pink or blue fun guesses please
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VforVloodyHell · 27/03/2019 07:23

Looks more black/grey to me.

RoseAndRose · 27/03/2019 07:27

Agree, the pic you have posted is in black and white.

(colour coding is the insidious start of gender and sex stereotypes, even, or perhaps especially, when done in 'jest')

insancerre · 27/03/2019 07:31

Pink or blue?
What does that even mean?

shopaholics · 27/03/2019 07:34

Wow some people really can't just let others have a bit of fun 🙄
I think boy 😊

yellowpen · 27/03/2019 07:38

Some people need to just let other people have fun!

I'd go pink OP!

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 27/03/2019 07:41

I really hate to be a killjoy but... Pink or blue? Really?

Why not just boy or girl?

Heratnumber7 · 27/03/2019 07:45

A sort of purpley colour?

shopaholics · 27/03/2019 07:48

@BarbieJellyBabyBrain maybe because it's just a bit of fun? Everyone knows what it means, it doesn't actually affect anything. I'm sure it doesn't mean the OP is gonna dress the baby entirely in pink or entirely in blue every day for the rest of its life. Or only give trucks or dolls to the baby, or only encourage the baby to be a fire fighter or a teacher depending on the gender. It's lighthearted fun for an expectant mum who finds out tomorrow anyway if she's having a boy or girl.
Yes the OP could have said boy or girl but she didn't, and surprise surprise the world didn't end 😱

Morgan12 · 27/03/2019 07:53

Clicked on this to see the absolutely ridiculous responses. Certainly not disappointed 😂

I'd say blue OP. Because it looks like it my DS scan!

Mikewazowskismrs · 27/03/2019 07:55

Wow some people really need to lighten up!

I say blue too Smile

Morgan12 · 27/03/2019 07:56

Also I dressed my baby boy in mostly light blue and my baby girl in mostly baby pink. 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

My son likes superheroes and my daughter likes dolls 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

My son's room is painted blue and my girls is painted pink. 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

Lighten up ffs.

MoreSlidingDoors · 27/03/2019 07:59

Everyone knows what it means, it doesn't actually affect anything.

Except evidence shows it absolutely does. And not in a good way.

MoreSlidingDoors · 27/03/2019 08:00

My son's room is painted blue and my girls is painted pink. 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

And in 20 years time your daughter will probably be earning significantly less than your son. If you’re okay with that, crack on.

EmpressLesbianInChair · 27/03/2019 08:04

Or only give trucks or dolls to the baby, or only encourage the baby to be a fire fighter or a teacher depending on the gender.

Except that’s exactly what gender’s all about. Sex-role stereotypes, caring pink & strong blue.

Curlywurly3 · 27/03/2019 08:06

Oh god you all need to lighten up! Yes she will earn less because her room is pink. Get a grip. I like pink and I earn considerably more than my peers.

OP you continue to have your fun and guess whether your little one is 💖 or 💙 (girl or boy for those who don’t know what OP meant)

EmpressLesbianInChair · 27/03/2019 08:10

Congratulations on your baby, OP, whatever their sex.

shopaholics · 27/03/2019 08:52

@EmpressLesbianInChair yes and of course teaching those stereotypes will affect the baby. However nothing the op has said has suggested that besides using colours instead of boy and girl.
No matter what the gender outside influences will affect the child.
People really do like to jump on everything that mentions gender and turn it into a big debate about these stereotypes when everyone is fully aware of them and doesn't need to be attacked because of their choice of words that in the long run don't really mean much.
I'm having a girl and yes my baby has lots of pink clothes, but she also has dinosaur stuff. And she'll play with whatever she wants to and she'll be encouraged to persue whatever career she wants. And I'm sure the op will be the same because that's all any parent wants for their child - the best.
Some people have clearly just got out the wrong side of bed and feel nasty today.
And yes the words pink or blue don't mean anything so don't even try to twist my words @MoreSlidingDoors because I'm sure you knew exactly what I meant in context of my post.

Lolly34h · 27/03/2019 09:11

I think girl but being a momma to 2 girls and a boy they are all equally as fantastic as each other x x x

fanfan18 · 27/03/2019 09:15

*My son's room is painted blue and my girls is painted pink. 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

And in 20 years time your daughter will probably be earning significantly less than your son. If you’re okay with that, crack on.*

Seriously? Just when I thought MN couldn't get any more ridiculous.

NannyPear · 27/03/2019 09:30

Oh God. I never realised that by painting my baby boy's room blue I was perpetuating the gender pay gap :o better get the lemon Dulux out.

Hmm
BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 27/03/2019 09:50

Lol, knew I'd get flamed.

The thing is, people say 'oh well girls are just naturally drawn to pink, sparkly, princessy, dolly stuff, boys are naturally drawn more to trucks, cars, mechanical stuff' which then in turn leads to 'oh well women are more naturally caring and interested in making themselves look decorative and men are more naturally interested in the important stuff like making and fixing things' which then leads to men doing the important stuff and getting well paid for it, and women being decorative or doing the more shitty menial stuff and getting paid less for it.

But girls and boys aren't naturally drawn to this stuff. Because even before they have come out of the frigging womb they are being placed in 'pink' or 'blue' boxes. Yes on its own calling a baby pink or blue is fairly harmless. And yes, I suppose it's possible that someone who casually categorises their kid by arbitrary colours before the baby has even seen the light of day, may go on to not put them in any other boxes at all Hmm.....None of these things on their own are harmful but it's the drip drip drip effect that kids are given.

So yes, pink is just a colour. I like pink, it's a nice colour. But if we associate pink with being a girl. Well, what else is associated with pink? Princesses, glitter, sparkles. And suddenly it's 'oh my daughter always loved pink glittery princess stuff, it's just how she is'. And then from there the road goes on.

I'm really not a 'gender neutral mum' type who dresses her boy in fairy stuff and insists her girl plays with trucks. But really, pink or blue before a baby is even born is just bullshit.

And if colours 'doesn't mean anything' then why use them at all? Why not just use boy/girl? And how many of the 'chill out it's just a colour' brigade would find out they are having a boy and then paint their nursery pink? I mean, if it's just a colour, why do you have to adhere to pink for a girl and blue for a boy?

PhoebeBear · 27/03/2019 09:52

Congrats OP on baby however I can't seem to see the nub, I'm currently team BLUE!

And other users on Mumsnet that can't just let other people have a bit of fun then why comment on the thread ffs?!
Absolute morons with nothing better to do. Trying to act like they know it all 'gEndEr AnD sEX iS a DifFreNt tHing' 🥴
Get a bloody life man, op is just trying to see if anyone can see the genitals of her baby.
She's obviously not going to think 'okay I see a willy but better not presume my baby is going to be born as a boy as he could identify as a frying pan later on in life' 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

BarbieJellyBabyBrain · 27/03/2019 09:56

Get a bloody life man, op is just trying to see if anyone can see the genitals of her baby.
She's obviously not going to think 'okay I see a willy but better not presume my baby is going to be born as a boy as he could identify as a frying pan later on in life'

Well yes, exactly. Which is why I think asking if people think its a boy or a girl would be better than asking if it's 'pink' or 'blue'. I mean, what does pink or blue even mean?

PhoebeBear · 27/03/2019 10:02

@BarbieJellyBabyBrain if I answer that question I know exactly the response I'm going to hear.. 'why should girls like things all pink and pretty and boys like things blue'..

I commented on this thread because when I had my first scan I asked the same question on mumsnet and was HOUNDED by people saying the exact same to me. 'You can't just presume the gender.. a little girl could turn out transsexual in the future' 'there are 70 different genders..'
I'm sorry but years ago you would never hear this crap, it would be a boy or a girl you would get to hear if you could see the genitals on a scan. I think it's ridiculous that people can be so mean to each other over the internet about someone asking a simple question about their lovely baby.
So yes if I have to answer that question, blue is for boys and pink for girls.

OldBrownShoe · 27/03/2019 10:02

Get a bloody life man, op is just trying to see if anyone can see the genitals of her baby

Unless it’s a smurf, it’s not going to have pink or blue genitals.