My DD is 30 weeks pregnant, she is very healthy. Her DH works away all week and sometimes for weeks at a time. I never had any help when I was pregnant or a new mum, so I am asking all of you younger people, what would be the most useful way I can help her for the next 10 weeks and as a new mum. I don't mind cleaning her house or shopping for her/with her anything really, but I am mindful of not making her think I don't think she can cope. She has ADHD so struggles with organisation anyway, but I like to take a backseat as much as I can as her DH is very capable. I just want to do something, so asking what would you lot prefer someone to come in and do for you.