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My husbands a knob!

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Ilovechocolate111 · 04/07/2018 08:43

I'm pregnant after having 6 mc!
My daughter and husband is evil!
My daughter is 5 and is a complete daddy's girl!
This morning I told my daughter to go back into the living room to eat her breakfast before shes late for school! She starts screaming! Husband ran in and daughters holding her neck! (bear in mind that I didn't touch her!! ) she's told him I pushed her in the neck!!
So me and hubby just had a argument over it because what ever she says it true! Even my 6 year old told him I didn't touch her! But he still believes her 😔 so we rowed and he turns around and says to me you best go to the docs and get rid, cuz if this is your attitude!! I can't stop crying! After so many heart breaks he says that! This isn't the first time she has said stuff like that to her dad and also the school. Even at school she fell over and said my mum pushed me! I wasn't even there! 😔
I've just been offered a house for the family for a fresh start. He says Im not into him anymore! Even tho I don't want sex as it might cause me to lose again!
I relly can't stand my daughter anymore! Nd my husband is being a dick! How the fuck can I prove to him that she keeps making stuff up!
If I sat next to him on the sofa she will cry and hit the other kids or give me dirty looks. Husband keeps saying it because I jealous!..... Of what!......... I'm so fef up!

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Ilovechocolate111 · 04/07/2018 19:18

I have been contacting the family's GP. Daughters consultants also the school and I am waiting for a call back from social services. I have also mentioned to the gp about councilling and he said he will ring the office tomorrow to see if I can get in or if there's a waiting list.
Thank you to all the nice people on here who didn't call me a bad parent . I have had a stressful day anyway as all 3 kids got sun stoke and been sick! Charming lol x

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Htaylor182 · 04/07/2018 21:14

We all have bad days, dont beat yourself up your doing the best you can. Motherhood is just the worst with judemental parents or parents that think they are perfection and look down on others. Hope it all gets sorted x

Ilovechocolate111 · 04/07/2018 21:22

Well at least I can say I'm trying my bloody hardest to get my family back to normal! I hate judgemental people who think they no best. I hate it even more when people who haven't got kids judge! At the end of the day I am doing my best as a mum with no help and no support no family no friends! I have asked for help several times.! Thanks again for all the Nice messages xx

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charis · 05/07/2018 00:13

Hope you're okay OP. Sounds even tougher with the sun stroke! You have far too much to cope with, bloody hell..

Ilovechocolate111 · 05/07/2018 07:09

Yes I'm OK thank you. Kids OK now. At the end of the day I wanted kids so it is my responsibility to look after them.
How r u charis

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charis · 07/07/2018 10:02

Well my support workers took one look at me, backed away and told me to get back to hospital and my BF has broken up with me but I'm okay! Glad things are better for you. I'd PM but I can't seem to on the app. You have a lot to cope with. Be kind to yourself. Sending good wishes.

Relaxdontdoit · 07/07/2018 19:32

Thank you. Since having a good hard talk with my oh he seems to be more stricked on dd. Instead of sitting on daddy sit next to me. We're getting there lol. I think I needed a good rant and someone to talk to when I posted this thread. And I'm still waiting for phone calls from everyone. And I'm also petrified cuz I have a scan on Wednesday and shitting myself. I never seem to switch off from everything. And I just want to apologise to everyone for saying my dd is evil. It was an horrid word to use. I should of said difficult 😁. I have also told oh if he doesn't stand by me Nd help me then he can pack his bags but so far that threat has worked wonders. Thanks too everyone who gave me kind words and fantastic advice. I just still cant believe that I got called All sorts for asking to help and advice. Yes I did work it all wrong but my head was in the shed and had a very stressful day.
Thank you charis glad to hear I'm not alone and wasn't the only one to get judged xxx

charis · 08/07/2018 09:31

Sorry I didn't see this, relationship break up on top of everything else! I'm glad things are seeming better. Me and XH used to sing a song about DS being beautiful and evil, don't worry, some people will see it as light-hearted. How are you doing now?

charis · 08/07/2018 09:39

And please do update on your scan. I want to know things are okay and you're not scared! And if it's not there is support here for you x

NEW2THIS2018 · 24/07/2018 11:49

I agree your husband sounds like an absolute C-O-N-T (feel free to change the O to a U Grin ) I couldn't have anyone speak to me like that, you can do far better than him! He's defo holding you down in life!

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