Fed up with husband

[mum2bemay22]

Feeling incredibly fed up and frustrated constantly with my husband. I’m in my third trimester now so I know my hormones are probably in full swing again but I can’t seem to hold a conversation with him without getting annoyed. He doesn’t seem to want sex with me either so there hasn’t been any intimacy! This morning I thought he would have mentioned it being Mother’s Day and obviously I know that I’m not ‘officially’ a mum but I think of myself as somebodies mum, just that he is inside me for a few more weeks but some acknowledgement towards this day would have really cheered me up but no!!! Sorry, I had to come on to have a rant and I don’t want this to make me seem ungrateful because I’m not, I’m just fed up!! Anyone else feel like this sometimes?

Lots of people are asking you: does he KNOW that you consider yourself a mum already and wanted acknowledgement? He’s not psychic and many people don’t expect to ‘celebrate’ Mother’s Day when pregnant, so he may not have thought of it.

Nobody is tearing anyone down, nobody is being unpleasant, you are definitely coming across as slightly hormonal.

(Oh, and in response to your earlier PA question about why mums are posting on here instead of celebrating...I’m on here having a break from housework, making lunch, washing and ironing uniforms, helping with homework...’mothering’ doesn’t stop for a celebration just because the calendar says it should. It’s that sort of stuff that my kids have said thank you to me for today...)

I considered myself a mother from the moment I fell pregnant with my first child. I understand what you are saying OP. Hope you have a good day.