I'm pregnant and only been with partner for 2months!

[Kittyear]

Hi all, I'm in need of some advice, any contributions are welcome please 😊
I am 25years old, renting my own place, and in a job that I love with good pay, my partner is 27, in a really good job, and is the most selfless man I have ever met!
I have just found out that I'm pregnant, I am really early on, and had been feeling out of sorts, so did a pregnancy test which was positive, he was lied in bed and I just came walking out the bathroom and said, I'm pregnant, he said "ok, that's fine" and has been so calm about it all, we've talked lots yday(when I found out) and I asked him honestly what we would want, he said he would rather an abortion because we haven't known each other long at all, I completely understand this mentality, I don't know what to choose, I've always wanted children, and I really do see a future with him, I get excited thinking about it, then I think "oh my god, what have we done". He's said it's completely up to me, and he will support me ether way, and if I keep it then he will be there 100%. Can I have some opinions please, as I'm not ready to talk to anyone I know about it yet! Thanks! X

I became pregnant after 3 months with a boyfriend. He initially suggested I abort, but being the survivor of a failed abortion in the 60s, I have strong personal feelings about abortion (I don't judge others).

We did marry, and were together for 4 years, but we were just too different in outlook to make it work. We have an amicable relationship, which I feel we would have had anyway without the emotional pain of marriage and divorce.

My son will be 30 this week and I have never regretted my decision to keep him. I do regret getting married though.

Been there, done that, married him when I was 27 weeks.
Best decision ever.

There's no right and wrong answer here but no one would judge you for having an abortion in your circs. If you go ahead then best of luck to all of you but consider seriously the impact on your life if the lovely boyfriend turned out not to be as lovely as all that and you were a single parent trying to juggle everything. Thinking back to my relationship with my husband, things were very rosy 8 weeks after we met but it's a completely different scenario actually living with a man, i.e. Actually being in each other's pockets all the time and dealing with real life once the "dating" phase is over.
You've conceived easily which means if he turns out to be the right man you have every chance of being able to have a family with him in the future.

Best of luck with the decision, it's definitely a tough one.