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9 weeks heavy bleeding no pain

28 replies

scaredtobehappymommy · 26/09/2015 19:47

hi everyone im 27 and have two beautiful daughters i had a mc in april this year and im now so scared its going to happen again i never had bleeding or any problems with my girls exept my second daughter was born by c-section. it all started with bleeding then contractions when i lost my baby at 13 weeks earlier this year, im now nine weeks and this time it was just light and only when i wiped but yesterday i was like a tap dark red blood everywhere but no pain and im still bleeding now, the thing is i only went for a scan five days ago because of the light bleeding and they said the baby was ok but i have a bulky antreverted uterus .... if anyone can shed some light it would be greatly appreciated im worried out of my mind

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daisydalrymple · 26/09/2015 19:50

Have you got an out of hours midwife number or delivery suite number on your notes? It might be worth a call, as it sounds like it would be a good idea to be checked over?

I'm sorry for your worry and hope you can have some reassurance soon.

Dollyemi · 26/09/2015 19:55

Ring epu at your hospital, you should get checked out and scanned if the bleeding is that heavy. Sorry to hear about your mc in April Flowers

Shivz12345 · 26/09/2015 19:56

Definately call out of hours hun, fingers crossed everything's okay Flowers xx

scaredtobehappymommy · 26/09/2015 19:58

iv called the out of hours doctor and they said they would call me back in half an hour that was about an hour or so ago :/ i get so stressed out in hospital so try to stay away unless its absolutely necessary as when i had my mc i was in and out for weeks and the stress didnt help, i said i will go if it doesnt stop but im just so scared to find out iv lost this baby its heartbeat was strong when i was in on tuesday but there was no mention of why im bleeding and i dont know how this amount of blood cant have been seen :(

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scaredtobehappymommy · 26/09/2015 19:58

thank you for messaging me im so on edge xx

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scaredtobehappymommy · 26/09/2015 20:03

iv rang the hospital and they said to come in so my mum said to all the out of hours doctor so i can be put strait through without waiting for 6 plus hours as usual .... thank you all for your messages you are very kind im just dreading loosing another little one :( some of the success stories give me strength but then i close my eyes and see all the bad that could be happening

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daisydalrymple · 26/09/2015 20:23

Thinking of you and hoping for a positive outcome x

Twolefttoes · 26/09/2015 20:26

Thinking of you, I hope you get seen quickly and that its good news. Flowers

scaredtobehappymommy · 26/09/2015 20:30

thank you daisydairymple iv just had a call from the out of hours they said to come in if it gets worse again and have booked me another scan for wednesday fingers crossed things go well x

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scaredtobehappymommy · 26/09/2015 20:35

thank you twolefttoes im hoping things go well and the bleeding calms down the support is very appreciated x

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daisydalrymple · 26/09/2015 21:47

Oh just seen your last message, hope youre able to rest at home then, if you're not going in to be seen tonight. Do let us know how you get on.

scaredtobehappymommy · 26/09/2015 22:05

the nurse said theres no point if its goin to cause me more stress but to go in if it gets any worse i think having to wait until wednesday is a bit much tho but if theres nothing sooner i guess theres nothing i can do or say just wait and try not to worry (not gunna happen but il try) ... il let you know how things go and thank you x

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daisydalrymple · 26/09/2015 22:34

Well, I know it's easy to say, but try and rest and not do anything too strenuous, take care x

scaredtobehappymommy · 28/09/2015 22:56

the bleeding has stopped so far fingers crossed for wednesday and thank you agen x

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Twolefttoes · 29/09/2015 13:38

Only another day to wait scared,thinking of you, let us know how you get on tomorrow Flowers

daisydalrymple · 29/09/2015 21:41

Best of luck tomorrow xx

scaredtobehappymommy · 29/09/2015 22:01

thank you both so so much your support has really lifted me up :) im glad i found this site as i felt unable to talk to anyone around me .... Flowers Brew Biscuit xx

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scaredtobehappymommy · 01/10/2015 22:23

hi ladies sorry for not getting back to you yesterday but i had alot to take in ... basically i went into the scan and the baby was ok and moving around the lady said there was NAD i was so happy until i went upstairs and gave the nurse my notes from the scan she went away to look at them and came back and told me there was slight seperation in the sac from my uterus and to prepare myself for a miscarriage :( im beside myself she said to take it easy and do no heavy lifting (normal for a pregnant woman anyway) i dont know what to think im more scared now than i was before am i going to loose my second baby this year? can the baby survive? iv so many questions i dont know where to start they placed me at ten weeks which is slightly ahead of what they placed me at from my last scan ....

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daisydalrymple · 01/10/2015 22:34

Oh no! I'm so sorry you've had no definite reassurance xx I haven't heard of anything like this before, so really don't know about outcomes. Are you able to book in with your midwife ASAP and discuss with her? Do rest as much as you are able and take it easy xx

scaredtobehappymommy · 01/10/2015 22:49

im tryin to be strong but i feel helpless i rang the midwife but she wernt there the lady on the phone said shes fully booked until the 8th and has booked me in for then i have another scan booked for the 14th but i cant get the nurses words out of my head i just broke down crying when she told me i wish there was something i could do but i cant :( ... im trying to rest but its hard my partner isnt much help either i dont feel able to talk to him as it seems he has written this baby off something i cant comprehend doing xx

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daisydalrymple · 01/10/2015 23:03

I don't want to give you false hope, as I say I know nothing about this, but if you search early placental abruption, there are varying accounts. Some end negatively, some say it can reattach and heal itself.

Probably best to stay away from Dr Google for now, as there are no answers for you there right now. Everybody's case is individual, and you would probably only worry more. It looks like only time will tell. So please do take it easy, rest as much as you can, no lifting etc.

scaredtobehappymommy · 01/10/2015 23:10

thank you il try my best all i can do is hope that my little fighter will be ok xx

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Twolefttoes · 02/10/2015 07:05

So sorry you got this news, for now just take each day at a time. If your partner is unable to offer support, find a friend or family.

Rest well and I am hoping so much that this doesn't happen for you.

Flowers
Maurice169 · 02/10/2015 16:42

I had a heavy bleed at 9 weeks, lasted about 3 days, lots of big clots etc (sorry tmi), no pain though.
I thought for sure I'd lost it, was so upset. So went for scan when bleeding stopped and was shocked to see baby doing fine. I'm now 19 weeks. Don't give up hope just yet?!. Good luck

scaredtobehappymommy · 14/10/2015 13:13

hi everyone i just wanted to update you all on how things have gone as you have all been a great support :) i havnt had anymore bleeding since iv been resting most of the time i went for a scan today and they told me everything seems to have healed back up and the baby is looking good :D im soooo happy they have now placed me at 12 weeks 2 days iv gotta pic i want looking at for nub theory as it is showing well but i cant decide if its a boy or girl seems to be right down the middle haha thank you all for your words of support they have kept me going xxx

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