Father of child has blocked me on everything. Feeling really low

[Gabby289]

Hi guys.

So I'm 10 weeks now and I'm considering going through a termination. I was meant to have one weeks ago but kept skipping appointments.

The father of the child at first was ready to support me during the termination until I started having second thoughts and grew more attached/worried.

The day I was meant to get a termination my phone stopped working. He tried contacting me though social media but I wasn't in the mood or right frame of mind so ignored me.

I had a scan done at the abortion clinic so they could see how far I am and I sent it to him and he said "don't show me that shit. You blocked me when you were meant to have a termination fuck off" and before I could respond he blocked me off everything.

I'm absolutely furious how young men think they can just absolve themselves of responsibility and just act like everything's okay and get on with their lives.

I feel like contacting his employers on LinkedIn and blasting him on my Twitter and making up some really horrible lie or allegation just so he can feel what I'm going through.

I'm absolutely furious and miserable

Neither of you sound mature enough to be parents. Have a termination, use condoms and grow up first. For your and any future child's sake.

I read your first thread and when you had decided on termination thought thank fuck for that.

You are far too immature to have a child.
I'm also guessing you have absolutely no way of supporting yourself with this child.

I had a friend that used to sleep with lots of men like you. Her dad was an arsehole, parents divorced young and she was desperate for male attention. Were you expecting this (1 of 3) guy to suddenly decide to want to stay with you and play happy families? Why the fuck else would you send him the scan pic!?

If you had self respect you wouldn't have put yourself in this position in the first place. Accidents may happen but purposely having unprotected sex with 3 men so close together is just fucking stupid no matter how old you are.

All the wanting to put stuff on social media/call his boss shows just exactly how immature you are. The whole "it's not fair" thing doesn't wash either. YOU are the one responsible for your own body. YOU are the one who should've made sure birth control was used.

Do not bring a child into this world until you grow the fuck up enough to take care of yourself first.

OP, you are the one who decided that sleeping with 3 men in quick succession without contraception was a good idea. Nobody is judging you for the 3 men, but it's the unprotected sex not once, not twice but three times throughout your cycle which people find irresponsible. That is how most of us have gone about getting pregnant. Had it been one guy, it wouldn't make a difference, you have still been incredibly risky. You have just upped the risk of STDs by making it three men. But it is only you who can judge yourself, but if you are happy with your decision and its consequences, then that's all that matters.

The men are equally irresponsible bc regardless of pregnancy, they could have caught anything from you and so also need to get tested.

Assume there is not father for support and work out if you can grow up quickly enough to have this baby. Do you have somewhere to live? Can you afford the initial outlay for baby stuff? (Cot, pushchair, car seat, nappies, clothes, bottles?) can you afford to support yourself once baby arrives?

Most importantly, do you want to give up your life as you know it?

Talk to someone. Your Mum? A close friend? You need to not rely on the fathers for support and look elsewhere.

What a p !!!

@nmp1990 why have you posted on a two year old thread?