MC @ 10 weeks. Worst day of my life.

[sjd114]

Hi everyone.

Just looking for a little support, went in for an early scan today, as been having some brown blood for over a week now, and went in and they gave me the " I'm sorry, its bad news " - Instantly killed me. :(

Ive been told to let it run its cause naturally; as it's the best. :( I'm just VERY unsure as to what I'm to expect, I was told to prepare for clots, but im just so so scared. :(

Anyone have any advice?

xx

Well talking about blood I had full on red blood, for probably 4-5 hours. NHS was absolutely crap, booked a scan for the following week so went private and confirmed baby was ok

OP, never give u hope! xxx

For what it's worth sjd, I had the same symptoms as you in early pregnancy (around 6 weeks) and was told by the EPU doctor that I was having a miscarriage after not being able to see anything on the scan but they took bloods to monitor HCG levels to make sure it wasn't an ectopic. I was really devastated and almost went home and demolished a bottle of wine to ease the pain but something told me not to until I'd had the HCG results. Well, to cut a long story short it turned out to be a viable pregnancy (HCG levels increased, then scanned for ectopic and finally went back for a scan a week later to see a heartbeat), and my LO is now 12 weeks old.

I'm keeping everything crossed for you and hoping you have a positive outcome after such a roller coaster xx

I just went for a wee - and there was pink blood when I wiped, oh Dafodil I don't think it's gonna turn out like yours. :( x

How are you doing??you ok?

Hi AnotherTime . Ahhh. Not sure, the pinky/red blood has stopped (I think) But gone back to brown. Ahh this week is the longest week ever. :(

just keep taking it one minute at a time SJD. Still hopeful x

The waiting and not knowing is awful and painful
Take care of yourself.

It's killing me if I'm honest. :( my heart is saying just to go with the first thing they said - miscarriage. . And then anything that DOES come of it.. is a miracle. :( xx

for you sjd. It's horrible as you feel so helpless. I had blood and brown discharge a couple of times each week up until my 12 week scan and then it completely stopped, so it may not necessary spell bad news. When is your next scan again?x

Well fingers crossed! Sorry for tmi but I also read that it can happen sometimes when you go for a poop.. (which I'd not been for 3 days as scared to push!:( ) & I'd had the internal scan that day, & was just trauma down there, I don't know! But fingers crossed. I have another scan on the 28th! So long to wait! :( xx

Thinking of you, sjd.

Keep the faith xxx

Thanks ladies.

I mc at 10 weeks too.we are all different but I bled alot and had severe pain.I didn't know what to expect either and was shocked when it came out in the sack.a bit of a blur tbh.
When I was pregnant with my ds I bled at 6, 12,13 and 16 weeks. Quite alot actually at 12 weeks with pain and I was convinced I was mc again but he came out absolutely perfect and healthy. So bleeding is not always the end.
Good luck for the scan next week.

Hope ur OK sjd xx

Just adding my best wishes for you.

My MC's were all different and we were some times given the wrong advice, I wouldn't do anything differently now I have my family but I did rely on the hospital to tell me to have erpc every time I miscarried and the only time I refused - I was at the end of my tether and really couldn't donit all again - it turned out they were wrong and DD2 is now 11.

Take time for you.

On the off chance that MN goes down again, wanted you to know I'm crossing my fingers for you! X

Will be thinking of you tomorrow sjd and keeping everything crossed for you x

Fingers and toes crossed for tomorrow for you sjd try and sleep tonight no matter how stressed you are

Fingers crossed for tomorrow. How have you been feeling? Hope you rest tonight