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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 26/04/2014 20:20

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.

There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.

MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos/
Another invaluable website is:
www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/
If you need help in obtaining medication, this phone number is
brilliant:
024 7638 2020

Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
cks.nice.org.uk/nauseavomiting-in-pregnancy#!prescribinginfosub

I would like to thank Everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.

Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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mrsnec · 28/04/2014 11:21

October 1st for me apparently. I'm not on October thread either.

I started to see the early morning bile runs as a good sign. I noticed a pattern that I don't puke mid morning if I've had a bile run before breakfast. Broke that rule yesterday when I had both.

tak1ngchances · 28/04/2014 11:21

Here's the link!
Clicky link

starrynight123 · 28/04/2014 11:28

meerka thank you very, very much for the information. I was worrying and too scared to over-Google in case I found a bunch of information that might stop me taking a medication that is actually helping me a bit.

I will give the PSS a call and see what they say. My GP is on leave until towards end of May, so it would be good to have some information to take with me when I see/speak to her. She hasn't had much experience with hg, so it feels as though we are learning and moving forward together!

Meerka · 28/04/2014 11:32

sigh, my body is still far from ready.

no mention of a C-section; plan is still to take it day by day. The nausea is still getting worse, though not upchucking that often. At least I got some sleep last night, the pethedine injections are so wonderful when they will allow me to have one.

God grant me patience and pleeeeeease hurry up!

Oklahoma · 28/04/2014 11:36

Oh Meerka you poor thing

Hugs and sympathy

mrsb87 · 28/04/2014 11:40

Oh meerka I'm so sorry, I can't Imagine how miserable this is for you. You've made it too comfy for your little parasite to leave!! Sending you lots of sympathy, hopefully it will be over sooner rather than later xxx

LucindaE · 28/04/2014 12:52

Just dashing on to welcome tak1ingchances. So sorry you're suffering.
How are the liquids staying down? Can you bear flat coke, I found that a life saver? Don't bother about healthy stuff, just anything you can eat or drink that you can bear. I don't think I can improve on others' advice.
Meerka Oh dear, I do feel for you. You are being brilliant encouraging others at this time.
Okla Poor you about relapse.
xx

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PunkStar · 28/04/2014 13:40

Meerka
Can't believe you are still waiting....you may have been better off if they hadn't promised a 38 week induction in the first place :-(
You get all psychologically prepared for when it's going to end and when it doesn't I think it makes it so much harder. It's like our magic due dates, very few babes are born on them...I can't cope with the thought of 42 weeks....hope things get a move on soon.

Tak1ng sorry you are feeling so rotten.
I had HG in my first pregnancy and convincedy myself this time that if I was just a bit tougher and 'pulled myself together' I wouldn't get HG again! It's horrible how mean we are to ourselves. You really cannot 'get on with it' in fact it makes it worse. Rest is the best thing you can do. I am as guilty as anyone though of having unrealistic expectations of what I can currently achieve (I can only manage to work one day a week; I'm 34 weeks!)
Please look after yourself :-)

Get my CS date next week, feels like a major milestone will be achieved

Meerka · 28/04/2014 14:00

I am a bit better mentally now, sadly the serious lack of sleep and the second disappointment over the induction plus the nausea seem to have been just too much last week. I wasnt really surprised when they said that I wasnt ready today so ye, handling it a bit better. .

Honestly, think that I am going to be preg forever. Don't think that the baby will ever come. I'll be a giant walrus for the rest of my life ...

starrynight123 · 28/04/2014 17:07

meerka can you request a caesarean given that the inductions aren't working and you are feeling so rough? You might not want a caesarean - fair enough!! - but could it help you have the baby faster and stop the sickness?

I really, really feel for you and am sending out as much strength as I can. The fact that you took the time to help with information about my medication at such a stressful and difficult time is just phenomenal and I'm so grateful.

Much strength to you.

LucindaE · 28/04/2014 18:05

Starry I so agree!
mrsb87& Silly me about the way I messed up that piece of typing- the thrity-six weeks bit was meant for 'petitelapin the 'you need some time off' for you!
xx

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Lottiedoubtie · 28/04/2014 19:07

Hi everyone hope you're all bearing up.

I managed a full day at work!

Only cried twice Blush once when the head and deputy cornered me to express concern after the staff meeting and once when talking to the Chaplain to ask him to pray (or retrospective fire bombing as DH put it... Hmm )

Other than that I was quite proffesional managed to attend boring meetings, trainings and even standardise some coursework!

Feeling ok nausea 3/10 but exhausted so have just climbed into bed!

tak1ngchances · 28/04/2014 19:20

I think you are all amazing. Congrats to the people who have had a puke-free day!

PunkStar · 28/04/2014 19:25

Know the feeling...time feels like it's moving backwards and I'll be in this preggo state forever.
Will join you with flipper clapping ;-)
Come on baby Meerka, get ready!

Meerka · 28/04/2014 19:27

I have requested a c-section .... god, being penned up here 2 more weeks would be quite hard work. But they absolutely hate doing them so its probably not that likely.

Congrts o the work day * I can jsut imagine the horrified look on your buttoned up manager's face. Used to work for one like that, he was soooo victorian. Here's hoping the retrospective fire bombing works =)

Oklahoma · 28/04/2014 20:14

Lottie congratulations!! I can't believe you're back at work. Is this full time again?

I'm starting at 3 afternoons a week from this week so will see how it goes.

Booboostoo · 28/04/2014 20:42

tak1ng welcome! Tiredness makes my nausea a lot worse as well, so try to rest as much as possible.

Meerka fingers crossed for a CS for you. I had an ELCS with DD and it was a very pleasant experience.

starrynight123 · 28/04/2014 21:36

booboo how do you mean 'pleasant' re: ELCS? I ask because I'm going to be requesting one of those from my consultant and am really nervous about having one. To hear that it is pleasant has sort of boosted my confidence about it!!

Lottiedoubtie · 29/04/2014 01:22

No, not full time thankfully. I'm going to go in for part of each day, just teaching two year groups (instead of the usual 5).

Hospital in the morning. I was exhausted after work so I've already had four hours sleep. Wide awake again now...

livingzuid · 29/04/2014 04:00

lottie thinking of you today. Hope all goes well Thanks

tak sorry you are feeling so rough. Angry about your mum's comments why are they so insensitive? Mine is a nightmare as well. Do go to your gp and ask for medication. Don't suffer, there is help available :)

My mum is here at the moment. I'm exhausted. Yesterday I managed a boat ride (funnily enough they make me feel better not worse) and walking around a bit. Just complete lack of understanding that right now there is only so much I can eat. Even dh very forcefully said 'she can't eat very much right now' at dinner on Sunday. It was like talking to a brick wall. I got a lecture yesterday and I said I can't cook I can't stand the smells for too long.

Do they think we choose to be like this?!

I got my revenge last night though when she discovered my tattoos that I had done years ago which she didn't seem to know about and nearly had a meltdown Grin Speeches about what I can and can't do with my body, be it hg or inking I am impervious to.

Only today and tomorrow morning to get through before she leaves and I can finally put my feet up and start maternity leave properly. I go at midday today as I am at hospital getting some tests done in the morning. Th end I have some other touristy things planned which involve sitting and doing not much and fortunately dh has swung it so he also has the day off and can drive us around.

As an aside, how have others found driving? I can do it in short bursts and prefer to be driver rather than passenger but anything longer than 20 mins or so becomes a real struggle to feel not sick.

We went last night to an information evening at the hospital for the birth and it was good, particularly for dh, but the room was so hot and stifling I thought I was going to be sick and pass out. Had to keep going to sit outside.

Apparently no gas and air available because of the way they administer it can't be turned off so it would affect everyone in the room and not good to have giggling staff!

For those asking long suffering meerka about th c-section they aren't elective here, only done in emergencies. I would have hoped she could class as that but nope. What I was surprised about was you could choose to go general or local. I thought they'd only do local unless there was something dire that needed a general?

meerka they talked about pethidine last night, it's my preferred pain relief but by God they are reluctant to give anything at all. Epidural is the preferred one over pethidine and the clicky iv one but I have already refused an epidural unless it's a medical emergency ie cesarean. I've gone for the other two first if I need it.

Netherlands has 30% usage of epidurals in pregnancy, the lowest in Europe. To give you an idea. Next door Germany apparently is 90% which I thought sounded astonishingly high so need to check what I heard with dh!

There was also some crap presentation from a lady about breastfeeding who started by saying 'well we won't be judgemental but your baby will be so much more intelligent / happy / healthy / balanced if you breastfeed' which dh didn't translate for me till afterwards but I got the gist from her useless slides which had twenty on the marvels of breastfeeding and one on bottle feeding. So insensitive to those of us that don't have an option! Mood I'm in right now I might make a complaint!

Aside from that, insomnia and nausea here even though I'm knackered. I enjoyed some calamari yesterday which surprised me!

meerka sigh. No words, just sympathy and commiserations over the rubbish attitudes to c section here.

oklahoma noooo to jet lag how awful. It's the tired that does it. Terrible for hg.

Jealous that punk will know when it is all over soon! Although I'm definitely getting Braxton Hicks now so hopefully that's a good sign. 36 weeks on Friday so any day after that this baby wants to appear is fine by me!

Sorry if I missed anyone.

Booboostoo · 29/04/2014 07:14

starry I think when everything goes as planned a birth is a very positive experience, when you encounter any difficulties or situations that feel out of control it can be a bit scary. For me my ELCS was calm, pain-free, my DP was in the room, DD arrived very quickly and was fine, I got skin to skin cuddles for the rest of the operation, recovery was straight forward and I actually felt much better after the ELCS than during the HG pregnancy!

Meerka · 29/04/2014 07:49

Apparently no gas and air available because of the way they administer it can't be turned off so it would affect everyone in the room and not good to have giggling staff! This reduced me to internal hysterical giggles, I had such an impression of one or two of the more po-faced medical staff getting gas-and-air drunk :D

well done for surviving your mother so far, it sounds quite a stress :s as if anyone would choose to have HG!! I hope today is good.

starry I only just saw your post about the googling .. sorry. You're very welcome. All the reports seem to be consistent - meto is good but there is this admittedly small risk to the mother. Small, but if it happened, most unpleasant. Good luck with PSS and yoru doctor :) so nice that she is open minded!

okla best of luck with work, do say how it goes? please don't expec ttoo much of yoruself, 3 afternoons sounds a lot .. .

living I would complain about that breastfeeding presentation as well. The NL are STUPIDLY obsessed with natural. They don't exactly have the best record of neo-natal health in europe either, so I dont know why they won't open their minds a bit more. And fgs, not everyone can breastfeed. It's shit to make people feel bad for it :s

Was the birthing room nice though?

boo your ELCS sounds WONDEFUL!!

Oklahoma · 29/04/2014 09:20

Living totally agree on the car. Transport of any description makes me feel awful!

LucindaE · 29/04/2014 09:38

Lottie Thinking of you and Okla I think you and all the others actually facing work deserve medals. mrsb87 Did you have a good rest?
Boo That sounds like a lovely birth experience., not quite like my hellish induction.
Meerka Oh dear, I had to laugh at such a ridiculous image, too. I am just urging this laid back baby to decide to make his long delayed entrance naturally and very soon.
livingzuid I've done it again - scrawled a message for you and can't read my awful handwriting.
Tak1Starry Mrsnec and Everyone how are things going?
xx

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LucindaE · 29/04/2014 09:46

Livinzuid That's it, I wanted to offer sympathy and hugs over mother being so insensitive about eating- also, she may not like tatoos, but you're an adult. Mothers can be impossible, but it's hard to deal with when you feel ill. Mine is always commenting in a disapproving way on my big breasts Hmm.
xx

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