Ohhh.. you'd be surprised at what they DO give you! I had IV morphine, and I did take codeine home with me and possibly had some other stuff in the hospital too. Second trimester is a good time for drugs - the foetus is developed, but it's not so near the birth that you have to worry about addiction and so on. In fact I had a fab old time with all the drugs, woozily updating Facebook repeating myself over and over in a generally chilled state (note: not wise) to everyone's amusement! Codeine is actually fine in pregnancy right up until near the end, so long as you avoid the usual addiction-related levels which applies whether pregnant or not.
The worst part for me were the prophylactic antibiotics I had to take every six weeks for the rest of the pregnancy (no idea if he still does this). They were strong enough to drop a horse and even at more normal levels would be horrid (erythromycin and metronidazole). I had some horrendous side effects from them.
He is very reassuring and he's right to be. I don't have a lot of faith in doctors I am sad to say, because if I'd listened to half of them without doing my own research, I wouldn't have two of my children right now. But Mr Wales was great - he talks the talk AND has the excellent statistics and skill to back it up unlike so many of them. There's not many doctors I respect but he is one of them and I'm very grateful to him! And he did very neat stitches as well that healed well, I was very impressed.
I have also had two laparoscopic surgeries (investigative, with HSGs) And two c-sections plus the TAC. I can tell you that the c-sections/TAC aren't actually an awful lot worse. It takes a little longer to get back to normal, and of course you have to be more careful over the incision than you would with a lap, but in terms of pain they were fairly comparable to me at least. Both feel like you've been hit by a sack of potatoes. Staying on top of the pain medication is always the best way of course.
Yes, no bedrest
- I almost feel like I'm cheating because of that, as people with regular transvaginal stitches have to have much more monitoring and can often end up on bedrest. I do have a few cervical length checks, I think I had two last pregnancy and two this pregnancy, but compared to the fortnightly ones I had with the rescue TVC stitch I had with DD2 (that tore through at 34 weeks, hence the TAC) it's a hugely different story.
I found the post-op experience at C&W to be one of the better NHS experiences I've had by quite some margin, but then I have been in some pretty crap hospitals too. I'd certainly recommend the place. I delivered at C&W as well - the postnatal ward was fine as NHS postnatal wards go - far better than the other two London hospitals I used for my previous two DC.
Much sympathy on the tube journey though - yes, I would want to be feeling pretty good before attempting a tube commute every day! I found it hard enough with a regular pregnancy with my first.
Very glad you pushed it. Advocating for baby doesn't always bring success but it can hugely improves the outcome in some cases. My family would look very different right now if I hadn't done the same.