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I need to have a cervix stitch, can anyone share experiences?

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namos14 · 26/02/2014 16:25

I am 9+w pg and I will need to have a stitch done on w 12. I was considering going private but have no idea who to turn to?

Can anyone share their experiences and/or recommend a private consultant in London?

Thanks!

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alita7 · 04/03/2014 15:07

Do they routinely check your cervix is looking competent or do you only know you need a stitch if the problem previously caused you to loose a baby?

CrispyFB · 04/03/2014 18:51

time2deal - I don't know unfortunately! Probably not, but who knows? They didn't when I was there three years ago and a lot can change in that time. I think you can get very clunky and crap "internet" from the bedside "TVs" but it was touchscreen so very annoying to use. Worth investing in a dongle maybe?

Ah yes, the annoying beeps. Sadly that is par for the course. That and the snoring. It is why earplugs are very useful unfortunately. You'll probably be okay the first night due to all the drugs though!

You have every reason to feel positive! So long as baby is otherwise okay, the TAC is an amazing operation that is extremely successful. Doctors advise against it because it's major surgery, but so are c-sections and they seem quite happy to hand out those. I know just what you mean about bonding though - I was afraid to until after the surgery with DC3.

alita7 - Most NHS trusts don't check the cervical length unless there is a medically indicated reason. Some do, but even so, it's not until the 20 week scan which is too late for a lot of babies. It would have been for mine with DC2, but I happened to be in the US at the time and had an earlier anatomy scan and the clinic checked cervical length as a matter of course there. I was only 18 weeks and apparently less than two days from delivering - thankfully one of the doctors there happened to be one of the very best for rescue stitches and he saved DC2's life. Sheer luck.

The vast majority of women don't know until they lose their first Sad but the reason they don't check routinely is because it IS very rare without any sort of prior indication such as surgery on the cervix.

Like Moomins, I had a fine first delivery almost at term, and had no reason to suspect. However I also had a few ERPCs and a HSG which dilates the cervix, plus I pushed against a cervical lip for an hour with DC1 so any one of those things could have caused the weakness with my second. Most people it wouldn't cause an issue though, I was just unlucky. And then lucky it was caught!

MoominsYonisAreScary · 04/03/2014 22:21

I had 2 erpcs, sergery to remove retained placenta where the cervix needed to be dilated and a cord prolapse with ds3 where they had to manually push the cord back into my womb which put pressure on the cervix.

Unfortunatly when I realised my cervix was failing my consultant was off and the one a saw was awful, by the time my consultant was back the next morning I was 6cm dialated so we knew the rescue stitch was a long shot

time2deal · 13/03/2014 18:51

Hey fellow stitch'ees. Had a scan today (10 weeks) as part of the Harmony test, and all looking good. Cervical length is very short though, only 2cm, so I'm sooo pleased that I already have the cerclage booked.

2 weeks to operation, and then I will feel safer about the whole thing. I just want them to lock the baby in!

namos14 · 15/03/2014 18:35

212smj thanks for sharing your experience and I hope all continue to go well with you!

thewalrus Thank you so much for your message. I had an appointment with Patrick O'Brien today and I was indeed very pleased and confident in him. I have my procedure schedule at UCH on Thu and fingers crossed all will go well. Do you remember which type of stitch did you have?

They will do a McDonald on me and are giving me the option of general or spinal anaesthetic and assured me that both are fine for the baby. So I am probably going to go for the general. Any opinions/ experiences welcomed!

time2deal, gosh I am sorry to hear about the trans abdominal, but really glad that you discover with plenty of time to have the procedure done! when is it going to be? By the sounds of it C&W and your consultant are great! good luck and keep us informed.

MoominsYonisAreScary I am glad to hear you had a McDonald! Where do you have it and which anaesthetic?

Thanks girls for all the support and for sharing your stories

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time2deal · 31/03/2014 19:56

Hey ladies,

Thought I would update to say that I had the TAC placed on Friday last week. I found it all quite painful actually! They gave me morphine after the surgery, but I stopped it the next day. I had some codeine, but have gone to just paracetamol now as I had terrible trouble getting the old bowels moving again and codeine is terrible for that.

I am struggling a little with pain though, so I might give myself some codeine when I go to bed. I was 3 nights in hospital, just out today. Nick said it was a difficult surgery as I have a fibroid right in the way of where they wanted to put the stitch, and it was quite deep inside as I have an retroverted uterus, and (which I had to push them to say) as I'm a bit overweight there was just more to cut through! Meh... what can I do.

But, most important the baby is fine. I had the 12 weeks scan the day before with the Harmony results, and everything looks perfect. At the hospital they scanned before and after, and on Sunday the consultant made a real effort and got me into the EPU for another reassurance scan. I was bloated like a whale, and all swollen inside so they had to do an internal, but found the bub playing away in there.

Now for some time to recover! Thanks for the support, especially CrispyFB, it was great getting your experience and reassurance.

namos14 · 09/04/2014 15:40

time2deal, thanks for sharing. It was great to hear you had the TAC and all is going well.

I had a McDonald stitch put on nearly three weeks ago and had my check up this week and all seems well. I also started taking the progesterone suppositories, which I was advised to continue until the end of the pregnancy.

Anyway, I am still a bit apprehensive, but feeling more positive and confident.

Thank you all for the support and for sharing your experience!!

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Motherhood123 · 24/12/2018 15:23

recently had a medical miscarriage at 17 weeks due to cervix opening randomly without warning and the sack just fell out. Luckily i was on the toilet and was able to catch the sack. When it burst in hospital the baby was not in there and the scan showed baby was still inside me but without fluid so he was struggling to breathe even though he had a heartbeat at the same time it was causing me an infection so had to start labour medically. This is a common occurrence with all my mum and dad sisters and they have had stitch or cervical cerclage put in by NHS after miscarriage. I reckon its genetic issue but midwife and doctors didnt want to confirm that as there is not much research on it. But now we are trying to get pregnant again and i will be demanding a stitch as i cant risk my cervix opening again and causing me an infection. How likely is it that they will allow me to have the stitch and when will it be put in?

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