Ginger - I felt very like you when I was expecting DS and was desperate for induction to work so that all would be as 'normal' (haha) as possible.
For me, induction simply did not work. Absolutely nothing happened at all. My cervix was so closed that they couldn't even give me a sweep and the pessaries over 2 days did absolutely nothing.
So I ended up with my worst case scenario of a cs. However I want to stress that this was in no way traumatic, it was pretty 'easy' for me and DS suffered absolutely no ill effects. It's such a truism but when you have dc in your arms who cares?? My main fear had been him being taken away from me due to being hypo - but his bg were perfect at all 6 readings they took in his first 24 hours.
The other thing to bear in mind is that ,for some, induction can be the start of a series of interventions. So you have a pessary, then have waters broken, then a drip and the stats are much higher then for an instrumental delivery. Not great either. In an ideal world we diabetics would just be allowed to go into labour naturally with our non giant babies and get on with but sadly that's not the case.
FYI I would have been ready to leave hosp after 2 days but DS lost a bit of weight so we stayed. For me, the hardest thing about the section was that my milk took 4, nearly 5 days, to come in. Thankfully I had banked colostrum to give him which I would highly recommend.
Anyway I hope some of this helps! 