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so f*ing annoyed and upset

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MerlinsBeard · 30/05/2006 14:35

Am about 9 weeks pregnant and have been bleeding since sunday night. Lightly, thats why not yet been to A & E. Spoke to MW y'day and no one at EPU was available with it being bank holiday, rung them this morning and as i have already had bloods taken at booking in they were going to chase those down to get exact EDD to work out what to do next. This was at 9 o clock this morning. was told a midwife would ring back. Just rung as all i have been doing all day is waiting, only to be told that the EPU closes at 2 and i have to ring back in the morning SadAngry i just want to know either way whats going on

sorry, just needed a rant and DP working

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spinach · 01/06/2006 20:30

sorry you havent had more definative news... I had a scan at almost 6 weeks and they couldnt see anything either, friend had same.... we're both very pregnant... it may be too early to see. Did they take any bloods to measure your Hcg levels? They did with me... if your levels double (ish) every 48 hours, its a sign of a normal pregnancy... if they rise slowly or decline then it indicates a problem. They could do this for you I'm sure... a two week wait will be really hard for you. If the epu won't do it ask your GP... the stress and worry wont help if there is a perfectly healthy baby. xxx

Elibean · 01/06/2006 22:25

Good point, spinach - why didn't I think of that?!? Blood hcg would be a good (though not infallible) indicator...

SHHHH · 02/06/2006 09:14

I agree with spinach. When we were expecting dd (as hsd x2 mc's) we went privatly and our consultant did hcg test with me.
It was so reasurring as I had blood taken less than 48 hours apart (should be 48 like spinach said) and my levels had nearly trippled.!! As sign to us that baby was trying to grow..!!! good luck.

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MerlinsBeard · 02/06/2006 13:07

Thank you for your lovely messages but we have definatly lost this baby :( no doubt in our mind now

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Elibean · 02/06/2006 14:17

((MoM)) I'm so sorry Sad

spinach · 02/06/2006 18:45

oh, I'm so sorry, has something further happened... dont tell if you dont want to, but here for you if you do. xxxx

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MerlinsBeard · 02/06/2006 21:12

Spinach, i started heavy bleeding on thursday night and then lost what can only be described as "tissue" which i can only assume was the sac and anything else(i didn't want to look) (sorry if tmi), also in lots of pain now

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Slink · 02/06/2006 21:32

mumof monsters, so so sorry to hear your news, has it all been confirmed???

take care xxxslink

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MerlinsBeard · 02/06/2006 21:47

slink, i have another scan in 2 weeks and she said that would confirm m/c

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Slink · 02/06/2006 21:52

sorry, bit lost as to what else to say, apart from be thinking if you xxxx

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MerlinsBeard · 02/06/2006 21:55

its ok slink, thank you for comments x

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lusciouslynda · 02/06/2006 22:26

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been through it myself several times. I know how very hard this is.

Take care of each other!!

MitchMatch · 02/06/2006 22:33

Oh MOM, I am so sorry to hear your news. I was on the Jan07 thread with you and suffered a mc over the long weekend.

The first few days can be really hard so make sure that you have someone supportive to talk to about it all.

I'm sending you a big cyber hug and hope that you're ok.

spinach · 04/06/2006 20:50

I'm so sorry, i hope you're okay, I can only imagne how horrid this is.... I've had several scares during pregnancies and that was bad enough. try and take care of yourself, I wish you good luck for the future. So sorry. xxx

MumRum · 04/06/2006 20:57

I've been away all week and just seen your thread.. sorry your going through this... hugs

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MerlinsBeard · 04/06/2006 21:15

Thanks for posting, Mitch sorry that ur going thru it too. Just feeling so empty and....odd/. don';t know how to describe it really.

Thanks for posts xx

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MitchMatch · 04/06/2006 22:34

Mom I know that this is a really difficult time and I've found the best thing is to talk about it with dh and friends as often as I need to. I have a really good friend who has had multiple mc's and talking to her really helped me to come to terms with things and move forward. Have you got someone close to you that you can talk to?

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MerlinsBeard · 05/06/2006 11:17

Mitch, not many people knew about the pregnancy anyway and i am not close to my once very close friend anymore. Finding it hard to talk about in RL at mo anyway.
Glad that u have good support and thank you fpr being so helpful to me, its really kind of you x

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MitchMatch · 06/06/2006 16:11

Hi MoM, how are things today?

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