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Fantastic 40+ Mum to be - part 2

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Hpbp · 08/10/2012 07:42

Let's keep on chatting !
Awaiting to hear from you all.
Midget, how are you feeling after the sweep ?
Exexe, are you happy with the new kitchen ? Very glad to see you back on here.
Warm welcome to the only Dad we have on the thread, sorry I could not remember your name as I write this.
Have a lovely Monday. Pouring rain in Paris today.

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Midgetm · 29/10/2012 19:03

Rest VQ. I am still in my PJ's. Lazy arsed midget. I have to make myself leave the house as I can feel the blues creeping in. Not like me at all. Ate we cluttering up this thread with baby talk now? Should we move to a grads thread? I looked for one but a bit challenged in the brain department and couldn't find it. Until I do I will keep coming back here and talking shite Grin

eagleray · 29/10/2012 19:16

Here y'are - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/parenting/1584834-Fantastic-40-Mums

But please don't go - it's so nice hearing how you are all getting on with the babies!

Hpbp · 29/10/2012 19:20

Eagleray, there is no way I am leaving this thread and you are welcome to join the grads one too. Another 2 months and you will be a graduate too !

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ValiumQueen · 29/10/2012 19:27

I have not found it either. Perhaps someone less knackered could link again please ?

DH has told me off for doing too much but he growls at me if I ask him to do anything.

DD2 is coughing a lot so I pray she does not get ill. No temp at all.

ValiumQueen · 29/10/2012 19:28

Thank you eagle for link and invite to stay. I do not want to leave either.

somewherebecomingrain · 30/10/2012 06:55

I was talking about the father my DP! Oh no ...

knottyhair · 30/10/2012 07:44

Morning! My DS is 8 and when he & his mates all go in the paddling pool etc in the summer, it's a standing joke that his willy is bigger than all his friends Blush. Bless him. DP is certainly not lacking. My friends joke that it's the Italian bit of him (DP is half Italian so DS is a quarter, which he's very proud of Smile).
Had blood taken again yesterday to check thyroid function and iron levels - she had a real job getting any out and it was quite painful! MW on Thursday when I should get the results re: iron, hope the supplements are doing their job.

Lovely to hear about all the babies!!

eagleray · 30/10/2012 09:58

Good morning and greetings from GTT purgatory! Arrived at surgery this morning minus notes, and then got an even bigger bollocking from nurse for not arriving with a glucose drink (no one said I was meant to turn up with one, thought they would supply it!)

Am now in the 2 hour wait and frustratingly my house is in the same street but been told I am absolutely not allowed to go home so am sulking in the corner and trying to ignore the fact that the gloop keeps repeating on me

Seem to have a knottyhair vein today - painful and reluctant to part with any blood

Got whole day off so have crammed lots of things in for later - lunch out, hairdressers, pilates and trip to pool - gosh aren't there ladies out there who do this stuff every day?

Midgetm · 30/10/2012 12:05

eagle I am blowing raspberries at the Midwifes for you.

eagleray · 30/10/2012 12:37

Thanks midget! Am slumped in cafe now, awaiting a ton of food and drink to arrive at my table.

ValiumQueen · 30/10/2012 12:50

Just popping to say back to hospital as lost 11% of weight. Grr. May be kept in.

Midgetm · 30/10/2012 12:59

They did that to us too vq but let us out straight away. Hope the same happens to you.

knickyknocks · 30/10/2012 13:24

eagleray I've got the joy of GDD mid December. Reaaalllly not looking forward to it. Err, sorry you have to bring your own glucose gloop? I too am imagining they supply it, but will take a lucozade just in case. Oh bloody hell - and you had to stay? I too was hoping to slope off home whilst waiting for those 2 hours to pass. Looks like I'll need to be prepared to stay. Enjoy that food and drink - suspect I'll be hoovering up an enormous meal after mine (and might have to make it MacDs as that's close by to the hospital.....)
knotty ouch poor you! I hate blood tests. I've got one tomorrow too for my thyroid (an old problem which just needs to be kept an eye on during pregnancy).

VQ and midget stay for a bit longer! It's lovely hearing how you're getting on!

I'm doing OK, back at work and feeling overwhelmed with the amount of work they're expecting me to do. Feeling a bit anxious about tomorrow too - the 20 week scan is tomorrow. Firstly, hoping that everything is as it should be, but second, finding out if it's a boy or girl. I've been having some hefty kicks today so think everything should be fine, but won't feel restful until I know for sure. Got a physio appointment on Friday too for the SPD. It's actually OK at the mo, just a few twinges here and there, but religiously doing my pelvic floors daily as it's supposed to help.

knickyknocks · 30/10/2012 13:25

VQ crossed posts. Keeping my fingers crossed too that the stay in hospital will be short xxx

somewherebecomingrain · 30/10/2012 14:16

good luck knicky i'm sure everything will be fine! the chance of trouble at this stage are really tiny.

are you going to find out the gender? i know what you mean about it being anxiety-inducing - we can't help having strong feelings about it.

are you hoping for a particular gender?

VQ so sorry you are back in hosp. keep us posted, hope Jacob is putting on weight soon. do they know why weight has been lost?

eagle what a nightmare! it must be over by now. why wouldn't they let you go home if you live on the same street? ridiculous.

i've just had the most delicious salami, pecorino and baby plum tomato sandwich, i think it calls for an encore.

tonight gonna make 'turkish flats with feta and salad' from 15 minute meals.

knickyknocks · 30/10/2012 16:07

somewhere that sandwich sounds delicious - really strangely I'm loving baby plum tomatoes and raw carrots at the mo. Great for the diet! Plus, have now bought Jamie's 15 minute meals on the pretence of buying it for hubby for Christmas - I'm going to have to leaf through to that turkish flat recipe when I get home. I love feta too!

Yes, I'll be finding out the gender tomorrow if I can. It's more to do with the ever growing number of bin bags filled with DD's old clothes in the loft - it's either going to be a case of getting them down from the loft and giving them a wash, or taking them down the charity shop if I'm expecting a boy.

I rather suspect it might be a boy. As somewhere will know from the conception 40+ thread, there wasn't much I didn't know about my cycle. So I know when I ovulated and when I conceived and I suspect that the egg was probably nearing the end of my tube when the sperm got it. I'm figuring it can only have been the fast boy sperm to have done that. I'll soon find out if I'm right tomorrow! I haven't got a preference for either boy or girl - though financially it'll be better for us to be a girl (no need for new toys or clothes really), but know that hubby would really love a girl - and apparently DD would too - she told me on Saturday that she would like a baby brother called Harry. We'll have to see what we can do...... Wink

somewherebecomingrain · 30/10/2012 16:33

knicky fresh is great - i'm going through a tropical fruit salad phase also feta salad with a whole packet of parsley!

you will not regret 15 minutes - it's what every pregnant woman needs. forget about this Xmas present idea.

timing sounds like it might be a boy. conversely i'm thinking a girl is poss cause we did it on the run up to and on the day of the OPK positive, then stopped, which means the slow girl sperm might have had a chance to get to the egg!

have you come across the'nub theory'? if you look at a 13-week sideways scan pic, if the genitals are flat its a girl and if they point up its a boy. according to this mine is about 70% probably a girl (it's sort of flat but not totally).

so anyway still v open-minded.

anyway you don't need this hocus pocus - you'll find out tomorrow - good luck!

xx

knottyhair · 30/10/2012 16:47

VQ, hope everything is OK and you can come home soon.
I've just got 15 min Meals as well, although haven't tried anything yet. We're taking DS out for a Thai meal tonight, his favourite, and I'm not sure when we'll get to do it again!

eagleray · 30/10/2012 18:37

VQ - that sucks re the weight loss - good luck and hope all is resolved soon.

Just home now after an epic day of appointments - post test slap-up lunch, then hairdressers, shopping, pilates, more shopping and just home! Just realised I look like a crash test dummy as my arms are covered in those little round plasters (found 4 so far) as had so many tests and vaccinations.

Knicky - re the gloop, I think what is supposed to happen (well certainly at my surgery) is that when the midwife issues you with a prescription for gloop when she asks you to make the appointment. Stupid thing is that it is cheaper to buy over the counter at the pharmacy anyway if you pay for prescriptions, so all they needed to do was tell me in advance to go and buy it! Stupid thing is that no one told me anything about this bit - I just assumed it was something they had in the surgery! To make things worse, when I had scuttled back from the pharmacy with the gloop, Angry Nurse tipped it into a jug so it looked like someone had taken a piss - vile.

When she said about having to stay for 2 hours, I pulled a face and said I lived nearby and she said definitely not allowed home (due to risk of reacting badly to gloop). And that she might call me back in for my vaccinations at any point, just in case I was thinking about making a bit for freedom. So I had to sit there for the hours - if they had supplied a chaise longue it may not have been so bad...

Something really weird happened while I was sat there though - was reading a news article on my phone about a woman who has had a baby recently (she comes from a vaguely newsworthy family) and a few minutes later she walked in with her baby! I did a double take and asked if it was her, and then we had a nice chat about her baby and other stuff. She has had a fairly hideous time - serious lifelong medical condition, IVF, pre-eclampsia, premature delivery, small for dates and so on, but baby was lovely (and really tiny). An interesting reminder too that it's not just older mums who have all these potential issues to contend with as she's 10 years younger than me.

Oh, and good luck with the scan Knicky - I was just recalling mine and recall that I wasn't overly worried at time (went on my own) as had had so many scans leading up to it due to amnio etc, and already knew the sex from the amnio as well. However, I would have been worried if it had been more of an 'unknown' as these things do get to you don't they? I'm sure everything will be fine though! Good luck also for the physio - I have had some SPD-stylee twinges on and off and went through all this at my pilates 1 to 1 today - she emphasised the need to keep as much symmetry as possible and has given me some exercises to do which focus a lot on pelvic floor (and even recorded a commentary on my phone for me so I don't forget how to do them)

Somewhere - all this nice food commentary is making me very hungry - just glad you weren't at it while I was in the 2 hour glucose purgatory/confinement. I have made several tons of mixed bean chilli and am off to heat up a serving of it now, with sour cream and guacamole on top.

ValiumQueen · 30/10/2012 18:43

Back home. All fine. Will catch up later x

MrsWooster · 30/10/2012 20:14

Another from GTT land. I had the test on Friday and also had to wait in the hosp for the two hours - apparently if you gallivant about it can affect the way the glucose behaves in your body (check out the medical knowledge...) so you have to be inert - or fall asleep in my case. Anyway, got the results yesterday and levels are high so have to go the diabetes clinic tomorrow. Not surprised, really - am old and portly and have been as thirsty as a snake and exhausted for weeks so it's a relief in a way to know what's actually wrong. It's also early - I am only 18 weeks so should be able to make any changes before any effects on the baby and hopefully a bit of a review of my diet might stand me in good stead for being in better nick afterwards.

Feel free to remind me of all this when I am bitching and whining about having to live on awful wholemeal brown food...

somewherebecomingrain · 31/10/2012 09:27

just fyi i made the 'turkish flats' from 15 minute meals and the feedback from my DP was as follows:

"triffic!"
"amazing!"
"a keeper"
"if you think you're putting any of that in a tupperware pot for lunch tomorrow you're mistaken!"

sadly we had a row this morning so not like a perfect advertising family any more.

eagleray chilli with guacamole and sour cream - mmmm. DP doesn't like beans so i don't get to have them much.

btw getting the feeling you might be quite glam if you are in a surgery near celebs and you do photography as a sideline?

xx

somewherebecomingrain · 31/10/2012 09:28

ps mrswooster sorry you have the GD, but glad you have an explanation for your symptoms and hope you can find some lovely wholesome low gi foods to eat. happy to discuss!

Velo · 31/10/2012 16:03

Hi ladies - having turned 40 in June I just qualified for this group! Wanted to let you know that I had little Max in October. The only age-related issue I had was that he measured small for his gestational age - born 2.3 kg and 38 weeks, probably due to my placenta not functioning as well as it should. The doctor realised that he was going to come early and put me on magnesium to 1) calm down early contractions and 2) to help prevent cerebral palsy which can occur in low-weight babies. Apart from that - everything went fine.

Good luck with your pregnancies -

xx

scarecrow22 · 31/10/2012 21:48

Been lurking for days, too tired and uninteresting to post ;) Just wanted to say hello to new mums and we are all rooting for a probably a little envying you ;) Also a supportive word and wave to the GTT/GD...ladies: totally confused by acronyms but get the gist, and hope you can move on soon. Good luck and goodnight all