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Bright red blood loss, 13 weeks, please hold my hand

107 replies

TeaJunky · 29/05/2012 23:58

I don't know where to begin, and even
As I type this I have tears of sadness and exhaustion welling up in my eyes.

I started bleeding yesterday morning. Im 13 weeks.
I went in to hospital today who have given me a scan for thursday. The doctor said its likely to be a miscarriage.
Oh it's been a stressful pregnancy to say the least. Everyone told me to take it easy, and I thought I was invincible.
Now look what I've gone and done.

This baby was supposed to be a bouncing, happy healthy little babe. DD thinks she's
Getting a baby brother or sister when the
snow comes. Oh it will break her little heart.

Just looking for a hand to hold to get me through this horrid night.

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TeaJunky · 31/05/2012 09:11

I'm in the waiting room.

Everyone's well wishes brought tears to my tired eyes.

I will focus on the ceiling.

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Notmyselfatall · 31/05/2012 09:12

Aww tea Sad just look at the ceiling, praying for you and baba xxx

ShowOfHands · 31/05/2012 09:15

Oh I've sat in that waiting room. Probably not that waiting room but one very similar I imagine. Probably the hum of a computer, ringing phones and people talking quietly and you sit very, very still because you're wound that tightly you think if you move you might snap or scream or sob.

I'm thinking of you too.

Newtothisstuff · 31/05/2012 09:17

Good luck xxx

Pickles77 · 31/05/2012 09:20

I've got everything crossed for you tea, good luck x

sillymillyb · 31/05/2012 09:24

Another hand to hold here, am thinking of you x

Flickstar · 31/05/2012 09:25

Good luck. Thinking of you and hoping for good news xxx

bebemoojem · 31/05/2012 09:25

I had a very large bleed at 11 weeks and was absolutely positive it was a miscarriage I cried and cried and avoided going to the doc for lots of reasons... she's 9m old now...
Doctor said that very often bleeds (even big ones) can be caused by the uterus expanding and blood vessels breaking.

Hopefully the scan finds all is well for you. lots of hugs one way or another from a complete stranger xx

ScrambledSmegs · 31/05/2012 09:33

Good luck Tea. I've only just seen your thread, wanted to offer another hand to hold.

I've been in a similar waiting room too, as I'm sure others on here have too. I can't add a happy story in my case, but there are good outcomes so fx for you.

CharltonHairstyle · 31/05/2012 09:33

I've just read your thread too.

I do hope all is well, Tea. Smile

JugglingWithTangentialOranges · 31/05/2012 09:34

Thinking of you today x

EddieIzzardIsMine · 31/05/2012 09:37

Thinking of you today Tea

All my fingers crossed xx

lauraloo09 · 31/05/2012 09:58

tea I've been lurking meant to post I have everything crossed and praying for you today xxxx

TeaJunky · 31/05/2012 10:52

SmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmileSmile

I've just had the scan and all was well! The baby was bouncing around with it's arms
On its head, and it's legs crossed Grin .... Grin

They said we can't find the cause of the bleeding, everything Seemed fine !

I just came home and showed DD the scan pictures, and she was amazed Grin

Thank you to everyone who sent me huge and well wishes and held my hand. What lovely people xxxx

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ScrambledSmegs · 31/05/2012 10:55

Wonderful news! Thanks Smile

Pickles77 · 31/05/2012 11:02

Tea that's amazing news. I'm so so so happy for you. Now make sure you enjoy a nice chilled stress free day hun! Keep us all posted. Really chuffed for u all x

welliesandpyjamas · 31/05/2012 11:06

Hoorayyyyyyyyy!!!! Ever so pleased for you! :)

Exactly what happened to me. I then spent a few days floating in a state of disbelief Grin

Enjoy, rest, and relax lots now!

jetstar · 31/05/2012 11:06

Another lurker delurking to say so glad to hear your good news :) take it easy and fingers crossed for an uneventful pregnancy from now on!

CharltonHairstyle · 31/05/2012 11:06

Wow!! GrinGrinGrin

That is brilliant news!

Happy, happy, joy, joy! Smile

JugglingWithTangentialOranges · 31/05/2012 11:06

Oh, that's great news Smile

Hope all will be well Thanks

TeaJunky · 31/05/2012 11:12

Grin thank you everyone ! Grin

I'm just kind of sat here with DD, all dazed Grin

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CurrySpice · 31/05/2012 11:22

Well that is quite quite MARVELLOUS! Grin

hairylemon · 31/05/2012 11:34

Hi Tea, I saw this thread late last night and was keeping my fingers crossed for you today. I had a bleed with DS1 and it was a long wait to see if all was ok, Im so happy that all is well xxx

Notmyselfatall · 31/05/2012 11:35

Aww tea Smile soooo happy for you Grin fantastic news!!!!!! Enjoy Grin

Midgetm · 31/05/2012 11:43

happy happy. Smashing. Can't understand why a dr would say you were probably MC if they hadn't even checked your cervix so grrrr to that but otherwise Grin Grin Grin