tmi alert! sorry but im worried :/

[mumt1]

Ok I'm sorry this will be into errm a lot of detail!! I'm 17wks and I've just been in the bath, when I go in the bath I always thoroughly clean 'myself down there' basically, what happened is I was cleaning inside me, n I touched my cervix n suddenly felt so much pain, on my cervix, n now iv gt bad pains. Only gt out 10 mins ago, but I've had complications as it is with this baby, bled from 6-10wks, with severe cramping, eased off for about a week 15-16th week. And has come bk again. Baby has also been moving a lot the past 2 days, even waking me up like its been having a disco day AND night! No idea when it sleeps... Is it normal to have this pain when I wash? Not had sex in a long time! Was planning on tonight but think it may be out window! All the pains have made me convince myself something will go wrong as can't be normal. So maybe I'm more aware of everything that happens like I'm just waiting.

yes, and that could have been explained nicely and perhaps with some concern for how she is feeling right now rather than a "thought you would have known that" type reply.

there's a real person sat in front of the pc, worrying about their baby, in pain... let's have a little compassion shall we?

by all means point out that washing internally is not necessary. but that wasn't really the main point of the post was it

Don't be such a drama llama. :)

Thankyou thisisyesterday I was feeling slightly intimidated, even tho I know they didn't mean any harm.I'm only 21 so got a lot to learn still

and let's be honest here, even if cleaning the vagina isn't a great idea, it shouldn't really cause intense pain simply from touching the cervix should it?

mumt1, i would call your midwife in the morning and see what she says.