abayababe, I have made contact with Dr. Hibba and will see her for a second opinion. I've heard of her before, she sounds very knowledgeable.
helenlouisey, thank you for an update on DR. Lower, when sh77 recommended him I did a google search and he does indeed sound to be the man for the job. I would very much appreciate any contact details you can give me as the website only offers an online form whereas I'd like to be able to send through my scan pictures and the doctor's report.
I will be in London the first week of February to try and get a referral but even if he doesn't do NHS work my DH and I have decided to go private. Here in Dubai we have to pay anyway, Germany, too. I'm still on NHS and we pay NI and taxes as registered as expatriates.
I do not know how the referral system works as I had both my previous babies abroad and paid privately. However, now that I'm staring down the barrel of a prem baby, weeks in NICU and complications for myself I don't think we can afford all of this on our own 
Any suggestions?
ariane5: Wow, you managed to go till week 39? I'm impressed, I have been told about bedrest, steroids to ripen the baby's lungs, etc. I hope you don't mind me asking a few more questions: did you have a placenta anterior (under belly button, in front of your tummy basically)? Did you bleed at any point in time? Glad to hear you overcame the problem and went on to have a great 3rd pregnancy!!
TheFowlAndThePussycat: oh no, you must have lost all of your own blood, you poor thing. That is horrible. I cried reading your post, the enormity of the procedures and the risks involved, I think you are very, very lucky to be here. Would you mind if I asked you for the details of the medical team that cared for you? Can I just get in touch with the Rosie and name the doctors you had? Did you do it on the NHS? If yes, how did you get a referral?
I am registered in central London on the NHS, Westminster, Knightsbridge. Not sure if I can request the Rosie... Can really do with a hug now. Thank you. Not hijacking my thread, it's very interesting to hear how people have gone on to have more babies and complications free.
Hope you can find a good consultant to go through things with your DH.
mummyabroad: thank you for sharing your experience. Was it difficult to get back on the NHS for you? Sorry, not sure if you actually went through NHS. I'm still registered with our old surgery and would like to go back there, they normally send you to Westminster&Chelsea Hospital.
Thank you for the link. Very interesting, he has great experience. I would appreciate the contact details for Dr. Lower and Dr. Trew. I will PM you now.
deo357: 5 CS!! Wow!!! I am very impressed, you must have muscles (and nerves) of steel
Thank you for the hospital recommendation, I shall google it straigthaway.
Thank you so much for sharing your stories and giving me your recommendations. I can see a light at the end of the tunnel. With the right care and the right doctor I hope to be able to have my baby.
Please keep on sharing. I am always checking this thread.
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