When I was 8 months pg with ds1, dp expected me to hire a van, drive to his parents' house 150 miles away, pick up a washing machine and drive it back to London. By myself, on my day off. His day off would be spent drinking with his mate as he "needed time to relax". He would probably have had me unloading and installing the damned thing too had his mum not bllcked him soundly and organised a friend to deliver it to us.
When pg with ds2 I was working full time and had a round trip of 50 miles with ds1 in tow. He got home from work 30 mins before us, but would go straight to the pub, so ds1 and I would come home at 7pm on cold winter nights to an empty house with no lights or heating on, as he refused to set the timer to come on before we got home ("waste of money"). He also refused to do anything other than watch TV and play PS games, claiming that he was "too tired" after being at work to do any household stuff.
Fortunately his ideas have now changed somewhat, as have mine as I wouldn't put up with that cr*p anymore.