Hi all - just dropping in to see how you are all getting on. If it is any comfort, DS1 was small throughout pg with short femurs, he was scanned throughout pg and continued to grow on and was born on 9th centile (6lbs femurs stayed looking short at all scans) and now is a very healthy, very normal, leggy 5yo.
DS2, as I have explained before, was also tiny throughout pg and was IUGR, born 4lbs but fine. His femurs were also short, even in comparison to all his other measurements. He is still tiny, but gorgeous and healthy - except today, with a horrid tummy bug - at 14m. All my dopplers were normal from about 28 weeks on. I think that the natural thing to happen with IUGR is for baby's growth to concentrate on the brain and head and then downwards through the body - in order of importance. That is why legs end up lagging behind!
HSmom as I said in my PM a few weeks back, I completely understand your worries about what could be causing the growth problems, but it really is most likely to be placental and I think that while most likely amnio will confirm what is not a problem, will it then stop you worrying about the hundreds of other possibilities that it would not pick up? It didn't for me. Also, before going for the amnio, how would you feel if nothing is wrong, it triggers prem labour? Is it worth the risk? I am pretty sure that the drs, especially prof Nicolaides, would have told you if they thought DS was a likely possibility..there are so many other markers that would have been picked up.
Have posted some pics of DC's on profile for you to see how normal the boys turned out, I am sure your DD will do the same, she has such a great chance at the weight and stage she has reached already, I think she is a fighter, just like ds2.
Gen - good luck, I really feel for you. Things may yet turn around though, it doesn't sound like you should give up hope yet. Keep us posted.
Sh - congratulations!
You will be going home with your little bundle soon and the hospital will be a distant memory. Try and enjoy being looked after by others for a while, even if its not the same as being home. Where are you?