oh my god I'm pregnant........

[meggy69]

I found out Friday after a doctor's appointment due to stomach pain, I'm 28 weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How Could I not have known. I feel like such an idiot. I am in total shock. I am 40, have three kids already (16,11,and 3. My husband and I decided two years ago we would have no more. I had accepted this and started to move on.
I am now expecting a baby so so soon!
I feel like a complete fool, the doctor actually laughed.

I have cried all weekend and realised I will now have to tell the dc?
I am so worried what they will be like.
My mother was so unsympathetic, she just kept saying I can't understand how you couldn't have known. I was on the pill and I thought it was early menopause as this is common in my family.

My dh husband is so pleased, I am just so shocked.
Ahhhhhhhhhhh!

Congratulations OP :)

Hopefully, once the shock wears off it'll be a lovely suprise after what sounds like a hard year x

Just told the kids! They took it very well! My three year old is excited but she has insisted it will be a sister. My DS 11, was surprisingly very excited (I think he wants a brother as he has two sisters).
And my very, darling sweet eldest daughter just gave me a big hug and said
'Everything will be fine now mum, and this time I can give you loads of help, and this baby will be the luckiest to have you as a mum"

I now have to start getting organised!

ahh that brings a tear to my eye, all the best to the 6 of you!

Fantastic children you have there . Congratulations.

How is your husband now?

Oh bless, your daughter has made me well up! Am also 27 weeks.

Congrats and enjoy!

CarGirl:- Thank you!!!

JennyHanvier- Thank you!!
After two months of radiotherapy it looks like he's in the clear, he's back at work and seems much better in himself, and this has put a very big smile on his face!

JustOneMorePlease- Congratulations too! when are you due? Do you know if its a boy or girl?

Such good news about your hubbie too, not surprised you lost track of yourself under all that worry and stress.

That is brilliant news meggy

God, I wish I could miss the first 28 weeks of pregnancy. Sounds ideal!

Sorry, rather flippant. Congratulations!

Meggy, that is a lovely way of finding out (glad it wasn't me lol but you know what I mean), and I am so thrilled for you that everyone in the family is happy.

Esp your eldest child, she sounds FAB, a real credit to you.

Thats lovely and I am so glad to hear that your husband is doing so well.

Yipeeeeee! A baby!

Congralutations!! It sounds like you have three wonderful children already, I am crying slightly at your eldest daughters reaction!

Good luck with everything. It will all work out and it must have been meant to be

Congratulations!

I am though, I wish this would happen to me!

Congratulations. Your eldest daughter has made women all over the world cry. What a sweetie.

Glad that your husband's treatment went well.

Hark at us all wishing we could get secretly pregnant

Awww, congratulations! It sounds as through this baby will be very lucky from what your DD said.

Wow!!!! So many congratulations!!! Gosh I bet your in total shock. Get booked at your hospital quick and off to the mw ASAP!! x

HUGE congrats to you and your lovely family. Your eldest daughter sounds so sweet

ah fab! your family sounds lovely...your eldest dd sounds like a star. this is a new beginning for you all - i wish you, your dh and your dcs happiness and health

Congratulations your family sound lovely :)

Congratulations - what wonderful news after a rubbish time for you - am sobbing at the thought of your dd hugging you - bless her

wow what a shock! congratulations am glad things are looking good for you husband too

also welling up here! Best of luck for all of you, enjoy your new little one!!

Ah, what lovely children you have