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I'm bleeding someone please talk to me :(

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teameric · 31/07/2010 16:41

Not quite sure how many weeks pg I am for sure but yesterday started bleeding (not loads, more like a light period) and have had period like cramps too. Went hospital today and had scan but nurse said it's too early too see anything properly, I had blood tests to see how high my hormone levels are and might have to go back monday. This is my 3rd pregnancy and is all new to me as I never had any problems with my first 2.

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sassy34264 · 09/08/2010 17:36

So sorry teameric. Best wishes to you and any future plans. xxx

me23 · 09/08/2010 17:41

so sorry best wishes for the future.

wakarimasen · 09/08/2010 17:51

Hi teameric,

So sorry to hear your news.

I had a terrible weekend away and have had heavy bleeding like you. Got my scan tomorrow but I know its over.

I know how you feel and we seem to be going through the same things and the same time. I have been really upset too. I think we will take a break from TTC as I feel like I've been though an emotional rollercoaster.

Hope you are ok and coping well. Fingers crossed for next ime Smile

justabit · 09/08/2010 18:02

very very sorry to hear this news. am still hoping for you wakarimasen.

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teameric · 09/08/2010 18:03

wakarimasen so sorry to hear that Sad, try and keep an open mind about your scan tomorrow, although I think we know our own bodies don't we and go by our instincts, I am ok and taking comfort in the fact that I am very lucky to already have 2 great DC's, I don't know if I will TTC again, me and DH are going to talk about it later.
Let us know how your scan goes tomorrow, I will be thinking of you Smile x

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DetectivePotato · 09/08/2010 19:05

Really sorry to hear that teameric was really hoping for better news. Sad

MissCKitty · 09/08/2010 19:54

I am so sorry for your loss tea Thinking of you xx

goodmorning · 10/08/2010 08:28

teameric
i'm so very sorry to hear that.I was thinking about you yesterday and really hoping to hear good news.Hope that you are ok and that you have some support around you x
wakarimasen good luck today for the scan x

wakarimasen · 10/08/2010 12:02

I had my scan and its not good. There's just a little bit of the sac left. I passed what looked like most of the sack last night. It was horrible at the EPU with all the normal pregnant people around. This is killing me and I feel like I've been hit by a bus. I dont think I will ever stop crying

am988 · 10/08/2010 12:24

Hi all, hope everyone is well. I'm abt 10wks and I've seen brownish thick discharge about twice - got me v worried. I had a myomectomy earlier this year in March so I do hope everything is going on ok in there. How can you convince the GP/midwife for an early scan if you are worried? I'm 34 and this is my first pregnancy so I have no idea how things work so I'm hoping the midwife/GP know what they are doing. Having said that, no one checked a urine sample.

I'm waiting for the first 12week one, and so far it seems it is just not true except from the horrible symptoms of nausea, heartburn, super exhaustion and feeling so sad at times that I'm not my usual me with a fair amount of energy.

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teameric · 10/08/2010 12:44

wakarimasen I'm so sorry for you Sad I have been thinking of you all day hoping you would have good news.
It is horrible, I hate having to go to the toilet IYKWIM, try to get as much rest as possible. Do you have good support around you at the moment?
Remember my lovely you are not on your own here x

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cluckyduck · 10/08/2010 13:25

Teameric and Waki, I'm so sorry Sad

Madasajarofwasps · 10/08/2010 14:09

am988 why not try and phone your hospital's EPAU (early pregnancy assessment unit) I did this when worried in my first pregnancy and they made me an appt for an early scan. I didn't bother with my GP. I don't know what a myomectomy is sorry, but if you feel it might affect your pregnancy it seems a good enough reason for a scan to me. I hope you get to put your mind at rest soon.

So sorry teameric and Waki I really hope the pain eases soon and you have lots f support. It's tough, please be kind to yourselves and give yourselves time to come to terms with your loss.

goodmorning · 10/08/2010 16:35

wakarimasen
i am very sorry to hear your news x

MassiveBumperlicious · 10/08/2010 17:10

Sorry for your sad news both of you.

alliwantissleep · 10/08/2010 19:12

So sorry for you both. My thoughts and prayers are with you bith.

wakarimasen · 11/08/2010 09:13

Thanks for all the messages. Still feelpretty rotten. The actual pain of the miscarriage has been Ok - just like a bad period but I feel like my heart is breaking. This is my first pregnancy so just feel sad that the excitement of having a baby is gone Sad

Am also starting to analyse why this happened and cant help but feel that the fact I always have brown spotting 2 days before my period might have something to do with it.

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teameric · 11/08/2010 09:27

wakarimasen I didn't realise this was your first pregnancy Sad.
Try not to over analyse on the "why", thats not going to get you anywhere and will make you feel worse.
I think you need to give yourself time to grieve, will you ttc again? My doc said that there is no reason to wait, just to have a normal period first.
My DH has decided he doesn't want to try anymore, not quite sure how I feel about that tbh.

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wakarimasen · 11/08/2010 09:51

Yes this was my first pregnancy. I'm pretty sure we'll try again but I will never be able to relax and enjoy pregnancy - especially after this experience. It only took 3 cycles to get pregnant but my cycles are short at only 23 days and I usually get spotting only 9DPO. The GP was going to test my hormone levels but I got pregnant that month. I might ask her if I can still go ahead with that test just to ease my mind....

Maybe your husband will feel differntly after he has had time to get over the loss of this pregnancy. I have similar feelings aabout doing it again myself!

justabit · 11/08/2010 09:53

so very sorry. I am three weeks down this road now and starting to feel like myself again. I know everyone says this but try to take space to mourn (I didn't do this very well.

zeusdemi · 11/05/2012 16:02

hiya ppl i had a m/c last year dating 10th sept 2011 i was devastated so to all the women out there who have lost im so sorry its awful to go through i am curently 9 weeks pregnant and last week i started to spot i wasnt worried as spotting runs in my family and it was a brown colour but yesterday i started to bleed heavier so i went to A&E and they more or less did nothing exsept explain to me yet again that there was nothing they could do if i was having another m/c they have sceduled a scan for me this tue but its the waiting thats killing me i would rather know now wether my baby is going to make it or not wether there is a chance at a healthy pregancy im currently on bed rest i get cramps not bad just the usual i have also had stringy like clots sorry if tmi twice it seems to happen each morning if i lie down with in afternoon the bleeding subsides a little i dont seem to fill a pad its more just wen i wipe on tolite do you think there is a chance i may have a healthy baby out of this has anyone else exsperinced this with the clots too i know the clots are not my baby as i have been through a m/c before and my last was big and roundish and quite hard thank you for taking time to read this x

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