Sorry ladies.
Sooo Judge scared the bejesus out of me the first day of the trial. Lot's of questions while in the witness box. He blatantly LIED throughout. It was horrific. I could not believe it!
Came away thinking we needed a miracle. Resingned myself to the fact i was going to have to enforce some kind of contact on the twins and therefore going to prison as there was no way i was going to do that.
Went back the next day to a Judge who had clearly made some serious notes that day before, She was going to set a new trial date and call all the people that would show him up to be the liar he is. He was also going to have to answer some very difficult questions. The woman had done her research 
ANyway. He cried and said he wanted to withdraw his application. I was mad as he just walks away while we have had the grief and expense. The upshot is he is GONE.
No way he will darken our doorsteps again as it will mean a trial to discuss the same points!
We are FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
I am, of course, now having a melt down
Headaches and weird skin, so tired. I think i put my stress on hold to get through it and am now being a bit crap. How very annoying.
Took them to the cinema today, well the big 5. Walked round with the babies while they were in. Thank goodness Gun Wharf have a giant sandpit out still.
How are the rest of you?