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March 09 - The spring babies have sprung

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jollyjoanne · 18/03/2009 12:17

Thought I'd start us up a post-natal thread for the new mummies of March 09 (or thereabout!)

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Slickbird · 22/04/2009 13:50

Who's?
Whose?
Am too tired to remember how to smell spell.

Slickbird · 22/04/2009 13:57

I missed your post there 3cute. It sounded like I was correcting you regards to pounds and ounces info! As I understand, 16oz in a pound and 14 pounds in a stone? I reckon he'll be a stone by the end of the week!

Jolly That's good going weight gain too for your wee one Yes he looks like a little sandbag. (Feels like one too!) Will post a pic sometime.

God I'm like buses with my posting eh? I'll go away and stop hogging the thread.

3cutedarlings · 22/04/2009 14:33

slick dont be daft lol, take more than a simple correction to ruffel my yorkshire lass feathers , i should have known actually as the last time i got Alex weighed at 3 weeks old he was 7lb 15oz .

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meep · 22/04/2009 15:55

currently at 1.5 hours here fearless

jollyjoanne · 22/04/2009 16:36

I reckon we can get about 45 mins max of awake non-crying Mae she starts to get whingy, either for a feed or to go back to sleep. But she will stay awake for the whole three hours between feeds she just isn't quite so easy when that happens as she can get quite narky and fustrated.

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lilymolly · 23/04/2009 08:38

smug mother alert

OMG Put matthew and dd to bed at 7pm, he woke at 10.30 for a feed, then slept till 3am for a quick 20 min feed then slept till 7am [PSB Emoticon]

Oh my, he is only 3 weeks old, how good is that!!

corgikelly · 23/04/2009 08:50

meep, just out of curiosity, what kind of sling are you using with Rosie? We have a Baby Bjorn, which Rhys doesn?t like (I?m realising that I?m always writing about stuff he dislikes. He?s just a little misanthrope at the mo?) ? he doesn?t like the upright/face against chest position ? can?t even burp him like that. And then I got a Tricot-Slen, one of those two-mile long lengths of jersey that I?m supposed to wrap Houdini-like about myself. I?ve tried a few times and ended up looking like a poorly wrapped Christmas package, and I can?t imagine trusting my efforts to support a real baby!

lily, how frustrating re the antibiotics. Hope the creams work magic.

wheely, laughing at the idea of you upside down in bed. I?d be delighted if Rhys would take a dummy ? he HATES it when we try to give him one (and we did, embarrassingly, do the Baby Whisperer thing and shop for a dummy that bore a distinct resemblance to my nips!)

slick, I am AMAZED by Fat Boab?s prodigious appetite and efficiency at turning intake into chubbiness. I?m taking Rhys to the paediatrician (first appointment with her) today with a long list of concerns (can you tell I?m a first time mother?), including the fact that he?s been feeding around the clock every 45 minutes to an hour for the past week ? doesn?t that seem extreme for a growth spurt? ? and is still long and scrawny. It?s not like he?s doing dilettante feeds ? he gets right down to business and sucks consistently for 20 to 40 minutes at a time, gulping the milk down.

So I?m worried that somehow I?ve got completely non-nutritive milk, and then I?m seriously freaked by his sleep patterns ? he has maximum one nap per 24 hours that lasts 2 hours (and the pram lost its magic as of yesterday). Everything else is in spurts of 30-45 minutes, and there aren?t many of ?em. I?d say he?s currently sleeping 10-11 hours per day, which doesn?t seem nearly enough. He?s got dark circles under his eyes, poor little one. I?m worried about him. And then we add in his complete inability to self-soothe?it?s enough to make me think about co-sleeping, as the only comfort he takes (not consistently, but I?ll take what I can get) is being close to us. If it means he would get more sleep, and would make the hourly night feeds easier?dunno?

V of everyone whose bub can last longer than 15 minutes (Rhys? current personal best) in the awake-and-not-crying category.

And the thought of cold lager/white wine in a garden or on a terrace? Where does one sign up?

And just saw your post, lily -- am BEYOND jealous. Well done, Matthew!

meep · 23/04/2009 09:22

corgi I use one of these - Wheely has one as well. At the moment I use the forward facing position - but I think you can also use it in other positions that Rhys might prefer. Although it is a wrap sling - it is already made up so all you have to do is tighten it.

lily very [envy}. My miraculous sleeping baby has been whisked away and I have a shouuty I will not sleep baby in her place .

After my post at 3.55pm yesterday, Rosie was amostly awake until 7.30pm! So that was 5 hours. She had a couple of 10-30 minute "sleeps" but other than that she was awake. So I gave her a bath, gave her more milk and she evtually settled after much rocking and pacing. So you are not alone corgi!

And just as I was going to bed dd1 started howling for me - dh was out so I had to deal with her before I could get to bed - agggghhh!

corgikelly · 23/04/2009 10:01

thanks, meep -- I'm foreseeing an online shopping binge coming on, as I'd also quite like to get one of those Miracle Blankets for swaddling. And...

Erm, has anyone used those wedge positioners to help their babies sleep safely on their sides?

I've started feeding a couple times per day lying down, and have noticed that (a) Rhys will actually fall asleep better lying on his side, and (b) his startle reflex seems to decrease significantly, helping him stay asleep longer.

But I would still freak out about cot death as a result of him not being on his back. And is it bad for their spines, being on their sides?

meep · 23/04/2009 10:10

corgi my dd1 had a squint head and her head turned to the left all the time when she was born. The physio didn't quite recommend sleeping her on her side - but just to prop one side up (to let her head fall to the right) - she suggested just using a rolled up towel under the sheet of her moses basket. I was also terrified of cot death so probably didn't do it as much as I should have (though I am happy to say that as a toddler dd1 is not in the slightest bit squint now!)

I don't think it is bad for their pines - my Mum put me to sleep on my side as that was what was recommended in eth dark ages !

I bought a miracle swaddling balnket for Rosie - and guess what - she doesn't like being swaddled - typical!

First day with dd1 & 2 on my own - going okay so far - Rosie has crashed out in her bouncy seat (have worked out that just before she crashes out she has a wee shout - anyone elses baby do that?) and dd1 is playing with her Aquadraw. Is this just the calm before the storm...............

laumiere · 23/04/2009 10:55

I am a terrible mother clearly! Not only do I let my son cry and let him sleep on his tummy (both of my boys prefer it), but am seriously considering giving Gabriel some baby rice at 8w!

It does run in the family, I was on solids at 10w, DH at TEN DAYS, we were both hungry babies....

Oh and I give DS1 Fruit Shoot H2Os too, I am the Mumsnet AntiChrist .

Gabe stays awake (barring 1-2 10 min naps) from 8 am to 9 pm, but last night did manage 6 hours sleep from 9 to 2 and then 1 more feed. He does feed roughly every 30 min in the day though.

lelait · 23/04/2009 11:03

Ohh I hope Im not too late for the beer in the beer garden - what a great dream!
The more realistic dream would be that Sam gets better - he's got a really nasty cough and has horrible coughing fits that make you feel really sorry for him - and he wakes up about every hour in the night to have a good cough too (phuff)

For the different positions, the pead we saw at the hospital told me it was good to vary how they sleep (on side etc) when you're around so they're not always in same position...

laweaselmys · 23/04/2009 12:01

On the basis that generations of babies were not massacred by SIDS after sleeping on their front or sides I let Mols sleep whichever way she wants to. So mostly on her back - but if she has a lot of hiccups on her side, or when she has a lot of wind on her belly.

Mols is sleeping really well at night now, she goes four hour stretches of maybe a tiny bit of whinging but otherwise all sleep. I am pleased but at the same time I reckon it will bite me in the bum and she'll be a terror later on!

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laumiere · 23/04/2009 14:11

fearless, I wish! He's happy as long as he's either being the centre of attention or being held by someone or being fed, so pretty labour-intensive!

It was a bit of a shock as DS1 was very independent from day 1 and would amuse himself.

Oh and Gabriel just rolled over! (Back to front).

Wheelybug · 23/04/2009 16:23

Hi All ! Gosh haven't been on for a couple of days and so much to catch up with.

Slick thats an amazing weight gain ! Well done Fat Boab ! Corgi - I too have a long and scrawny lean one. In fact, the doctor at my 6 week check today (more of which later -betcha can't wait) made a throwaway comment about her looking small < cue paniced mother> but I should remember my babies are small because - er- I am and DH is longish and scrawny lean and the girls seem to have taken after him. I then saw someone with a 3 week old that was twice the size of Lara . She will be weighed next wednesday so guess we'll find out more then.

On the subject of slings I have both the close (have bought one now off a mner) and a wilkinet. LAra hated the wilkinet (quite fiddly to get her into) and is happier in the close but does need to be sleepy to go in it. If not she howls. Meep when you say forward facing do you mean in towards you or is she looking out ?

Lara also seems happier sleeping on her side but I am too paranoid to leave her like that at night. She has a couple of times flipped herself onto her side in the day and then I leave her like it.

Now, I am about to jinx myself. After the spate of terrible nights we had Lara suddenly seems more settled - both during the day, sleeping a lot more (she was going most of the day without any sleep) but relatively routinely (as in, she seems to sleep in the morning) and then be happy-ish for a bit when not sleeping and has spent some time under the baby gym without moaning. She then

Slickbird · 23/04/2009 16:27

Laumiere rolled over?? How old is your LO?!

Corgi I'm sure your little one will be fine and be gaining in no time at all. As it's been said many times, they're all different and develop at different rates. I am actually now thinking I have to make sure that FB doesn't get overweight! Although there's no real history of it in our family, mostly fast metabolisms, but you never know. He looked outraged at lunch time today when he finished 6 oz an that was the lot. So I had to give him another 2 to shut him up. He can be awake for a long time quite happily as long as he's fed so that's one good thing. I'm trying to see if I can spread his feeds to every 4 hours now so that we can hopefully go longer at night as the bags under my eyes take some believing.

DD2 is in a right belligerent mood today as she seems to have a cold so is pushing every maternal button and screaming indecipherable profanities to whomever passes. At lunch time they were both screaming the house down for food and I was saying; 'Look, you two! I have only got one pair of hands...' They didn't seem to care and clearly thought the service was crap.

Interesting re: sleeping on front debate that whilst I would always put them on their back at this early stage, that as soon as most babies are able, they immediately sleep on their front, knees drawn up and bum in the air. My cousins LO was really still struggling to sleep through the night before she was able to roll over herself and my auntie put her on her front and she immediately started sleeping through the night. She just wasn't comfy on her back.

Anyway, better go make tea.

Hope everyone's ok. xx

Wheelybug · 23/04/2009 16:29

BTW - when i say she's more settled thst doesn't stop her evening feedathon but if that helps at night its fine by me !

laumiere · 23/04/2009 20:46

Wheely he was 8 weeks on Saturday :-) He is about the size of a four-month old though!

jollyjoanne · 23/04/2009 20:55

Been to my first baby massage class today, sadly as Mae was asleep I wasn't allowed to massage her so I have been practicing on a dolly.

Mae doesn't actually seem to like being on her belly she cries a lot in this position.

I also have a baby sling thing but Mae will only put up with it if I am the one carrying her and she isn't entirely enclosed in the sling, so it is still a bit limiting as I have to keep an eye on her head.

Very jealous of those who are getting some decent sleep at night! I can't wait for Mae to sleep 7 hours!

I don't really think it is that worth worrying about weight etc at the moment - for example at a little over 6 weeks Mae still weighs less than Loli's baby did at birth and if I remember right I think she had also mentioned that her LO was very long/tall too. Whereas Mae has only just outgrown her newborn babygros.

Also in shock at laumiere LO's rolling over - not sure if I want Mae to be doing this or not as once she can roll she can fall off things and may start making feeding even harder, the constant stretching is already a pain!

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meep · 24/04/2009 09:17

More illness in the meep household - dd1 threw up in her cot last night but failed to cry out or shout for us so DH opened the door to a foul smelling room this morning - I have no idea how she slept in it all night - yuck!

Rosie was so unsettled from 4am that I popped her on my chest and she slept and slept (and I think I drifted off too for a bit - eek!)

Laumiere wow at the rolling over! No leaving Gabriel on his own then?!

wheely by forward facing I mean facing into me. I also always seem to have her wee legs tucked into the fabric - so it doesn't look like the pictures with their legs out.

Sorry to hearabout your wound. I have a feeling mine might still be infected as there is still a smell about it. So like you ai will be insisting they check it out at Rosie's 6 weeks check. Hope yours gets sorted soon.

Slickbird · 24/04/2009 10:54

Bleurgh! Meep

Our DD2 was also ill last night but with a streaming cold and er, trapped wind, which had her going radio rental and convulsing in pain for a while. All very distressing. Not to mention exhausting, between her and FB. Although, despite his restlessness and grunting, in theory he did actually go 6 hours between feeds - but there was no sleeping right through for anyone. Apart from 8 year old DD who would sleep through (and does) anything. Lucky little swine.

laumiere · 24/04/2009 14:33

meep nope, too scared he'll dive-bomb now!

slick poor you, Gabriel is a grunter too....

We got this mobile for Gabriel, it's great for getting him to drop off at night (and the lights make me quite sleepy too!)

www.dooyoo.co.uk/nursery-furniture/fisher-price-sparkling-symphony-mobile/