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October 06 - Happy Slappy Toddlers

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taffy101 · 25/01/2008 19:29

Heehee thought I'd start the new thread. there seemed to be a recurring theme from everyone's recent posts - hence the title.

Hope everyone's well and that you found us without too much trouble

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Rumpel · 05/05/2009 10:36

OOOOOOOOWWWW BABY!!!!! Good luck for the wedding and hope your Hen night goes/went well. How exciting can't wait to see the pics.

SAMSMAM - how is your prep coming along? I start pole dancing classes on wednesday in my never ending quest for weight loss
Did them after having Amber and they are really hard but great for toning up.

babyducky · 10/05/2009 22:06

Hey everyone, I am now a married woman!

We had a lovely day, it was perfect, there are some pics on facebook, I'll also put some on here tomorrow.

your turn next samsmam!!!

Hope your all ok, I am so tired am off to bed, will catch up with you all soon xxxx

Rumpel · 12/05/2009 11:03

Oh well done BABY! Glad you had a lovely day and the weather was fab for you. Can't wait to see your pics.

babyducky · 14/05/2009 19:02

Hi, here is the link to our wedding pics

www.sjwilsonphotography.co.uk/clientgalleries/rebeccaandduane/index.html

the log in details are

090509
cammock2009

speak to you all soon xxxxxxx

taffy101 · 30/05/2009 22:53

Congrats babyducky - have looked at the gorgeous photos on fb. Looks like it was a perfect day x

Too busy for computer lately. I have been making my sister a scrapbook for her 40th, with loads of old photos and family tree and stuff- took forever! She was over the moon with it though and we are planning the other sister's for next year - at least I'll have some help this time! I also 'need' to do one for my pils golden wedding anniversary in sept.

great weather here today, nice for kids to be thoroughly entertained by simply playing in the garden, rather than having to go on some excursion!

Owen feeling the heat, he still got that dratted pressure garment on (22 months now - grr), but I guess that means there is still room for improvement. He now has a new cream called kelo-cote which is supposed to work miracles. His arm is ok really, it is almost back to normal colour but it looks a bit bumpy and melted.

Rumpel - how's your creche campaign going - I am tempted to email but you posted it in March and I don't want to rant at them if its already in hand!

My childminder is quitting due to ofsted pressure and loads of paperwork. She finishes next week. I have found a new one who lives near to me but Owen is so happy with the current one though and I hope the change doesn't upset him too much. I feel like writing to ofsted to complain about all the hoops they are making these childminders jump through but I can't find anything online in black and white about all their ridiculous stipulations. They have totally missed the point about parents wanting an informal environment for their kids and making these people do observations and assessments on their mindees. Anyone else use a childminder, are they feeling the pressure too?

gotta go, glad the thread still exists - i thought it might have died! x

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Rumpel · 05/06/2009 21:15

Hi all,

Baby/Samsmam - just managed a quick peek at your pics - don't get much time for FB. You all looked amazing and so glad you enjoyed it.

Taffy - yep still campaigning - really need to print out a petition and go door to door. I still haven't even visited the place yet - job for this week!

hope you are all well and take care.xx

taffy101 · 21/07/2009 20:48

40,000 childminders have quit in the last year. This coincides with the introduction of the Early Years Foundation Stage (EYFS).

EYFS has been introduced to streamline learning and development requirements in all Early Years settings. This means that childminders
are subject to the same paperwork, assessments and observations as nurseries and pre-schools. This is obviously too much to expect of
a single self-employed person.

Childminders' homes are not educational establishments, therefore there should be no need for the childminder to make assessments on
children's learning and development. Until a child attends school it should be their parents job to assess them.

The government's ten year childcare strategy has the slogan 'Choice for parents, the best start for children'. Within the framework of
EYFS, it states the need for consistency between early years settings. This defies such a slogan and actually removes parent
choice.

People tend to choose childminders rather than nurseries because they want a relaxed, informal enviroment for their children - the
requirements of this legislation directly opposes this.

Of course, childminders need regulations and assessments but this current system is really too much to expect of them. As long as a child is
safe and happy surely that is enough.
Many childminders are becoming frustrated becaused they cannot keep up with the paperwork and are leaving in their droves. The knock on
effect of this is that children are losing their beloved carers. They grow attached to their childminders and to have to change carer multiple
times is surely not an ideal situation.

Take 30 seconds out of your day to sign a petition to make childminders exempt from EYFS
petitions.number10.gov.uk/anti-EYFS/

It is completely confidential (OFSTED will not be given your name!). You will receive an email from the no.10 website to confirm your
'signature', but don't worry Gordon Brown will not start spamming you!

T H A N K Y O U !

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taffy101 · 21/07/2009 20:48

Hey, if you agree my previous message copy and paste it to email and circulate it to anyone! Thanks

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Rumpel · 27/07/2009 11:36

Hey Taffy - you are so right.

How is everyone - thread has died a death . We are all fine - bit bored of the monotony of housework now - seems never ending and pointless sometimes. Have been for a few job interviews but nowt as yet. I'm hoping my time will be January
Started calorie counting to lose the extra 1 and half stones still carrying but Dh said he would rather have me chubby and nice bear with sore head due to cake withdrawal LOL!

Put some updated pics on profile if you fancy a gander.

BABY and SAMS - hope you are enjoying married life.

xxxxx

taffy101 · 31/07/2009 21:25

Hey, Rumpel just me and thee on here now!
Your photos are great. Little one looks soo big now.
I dig the decor in their room - did you paint it yourself. My dd would love a jungle room, she is mad for animals!

I am spamming loads of CMs with a link to the petition at the moment. I set myself a short deadline of 2 months, now I need to do the legwork!
My CM had her ofsted inspection last week and got 'outstanding' - she still wants rid of eyfs though. I don't blame her, just hope she carries on CMing!

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Rumpel · 03/08/2009 18:53

Hi Taffy - yep did it myslef. Amber has a fairy theme on one wall in her room and I am currently working on calvin's room - space theme on one wall with proper constellations and a seascape on the other. Bit more difficult to find the time and peace with 2 though!

Are you on facebook?xx

taffy101 · 17/08/2009 22:20

yeah, i am on fb. i am friends with babyducky and samsmam on there - are you? If so, look at their friend lists and I am near the bottom - initials SJ - profile pic is me with hubby and 2 kids [paranoid emoticon]

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taffy101 · 17/08/2009 22:21

of course i'm friends with ginge too...

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Rumpel · 07/09/2009 10:53

Looks like this wee thread has died a death .

Mellin · 07/09/2009 14:43

Hi Rumpel!
I rediscovered this thread today, after coming back onto Mumsnet after many moons away.

I a now the proud owner of a 4 week old DS called Liam. I must admit that I am finding the re-adjustment to having a newborn in the house a bit of a struggle, but at least this time I know it gets easier!

Anyway I know have more time to MN as I am sat on the couch bf most of the day

Hope you and the other Oct 06 ladies are all well.

Rumpel · 07/09/2009 16:11

Hi Mellin - great to hear from you and very well done on Liam . SAMSMAM/BABYDUCKY/TAFFY/GINGEME - were the only ones left on here but are on facebook quite alot - are you on FB?

Can't remember when you were last on but some of the others have other bubbas too now. I have DS Calvin who turned 1 in July and Amber will be 3 on Oct 4th!!!
We are going to Centerparcs at the end of this month for 4 nights so really looking forward to it.

Mellin · 08/09/2009 19:47

Hi,
yes on FB

I know, I can't believe my DD is turning 3 next month . She has been brilliant with the baby so far, very affectionate and helpful. It's just the newborn stage with DS that I find so tiring, after 3 years I'd forgotten how hard this stage is!

Sounds like you are having a well deserved break at the end of the month, hope you all enjoy it. We haven't been on holidays for ages, except for a trip to Australia at Xmas which was a mammoth effort with a two year old.

Is your DD going to nursery or preschool?

samandsophsmam · 20/09/2009 13:37

Do you all know what I haven't been able to find this thread for well......... since the last time I posted on here. Not because I didn't want to but when they changed the layout I couldn't work out how to! Be nice to get this thread going again. I am probably hoping too late though!

Well I am pregnant again. Only 6 weeks so am not announcing it in the real world of facebook just yet as there are lots of people that don't know yet.

This is definitely third and final time. Must be mad but I always wanted three children.

Rumpel · 21/09/2009 12:04

Wow Samsmam - again? well done. yeah i always wanted 3 too but Amber is just being such a brat at the mo' and DH is studying a BSc and working FT so feel it would be too much to cope with. I go between broody to argg!!!

There are 4 mummies on Calvin's thread who are pg again. My big boy is 14 months now xxx

babyducky · 26/09/2009 22:39

Hello everyone, hope you're all well,

samsmam!!
congratulations, so pleased for you! x

Yeah I agree, lets try & keep this thread going!

I'm still catching up with all the posts, havent been on here for a while!

congrats on the little boy mellin
I will add you on facebook if you dont mind.

Cant believe we are coming up to the 3rd birthdays!
Has anyone got anything nice planned?
We are having a halloween party this year.

Will catch up properly tomorrow, take care all xxx

bronze · 06/10/2009 00:26

thought I would say hello and have a very long catchup

gist for me is I was due oct 06. I used to post on here in the antenatal days but dd was born 3 months prem in the august so has already turned 3 and Ive had her school application through.

Did you all post on here in those days?

Mellin · 06/10/2009 14:10

Hi all,

samandsophsmam big congratulations!! I am one of three (3 sisters actually) and it is a good balance I reckon. I can quite confidently say however that we will be stopping at 2! I am really struggling with the baby stage second time around and don't think I could do it again. Quite a few mums on my Aug 09 thread have three.

babyducky good to see you on FB. I hade a nosey at your photos - your DS is a cutie. Lovely wedding pics too.

Hi *bronze, I only joined the Oct 06 action on the post-natal threads. Didn't know about mumsnet in my pregnancy days.Can't believe you have to think about school applications already - they still seem so little...,.

purpleflower · 06/10/2009 14:16

Hiya, I posted a couple of times here when DS was teeny.

I can't believe he was 3 last friday Time has just flown by. I have a DD now too she was born 03.10.08 to go with DS 02.10.06 lol. I do like that week

I hope all the little ones are doing well, DS starts preschool in January!

bronze · 06/10/2009 14:32

Purple makes you wonder what event occurs 9 months before that.

I also have another since then ds 15/04/09. The fourth and final one.

DD is currenlty in hospital with dh waiting to have an op to remove a lump on their neck. Shes suddenly gone from seeming like my big girl to my little baby again

purpleflower · 07/10/2009 17:12

Christmas and new year bronze DS was due the 25/9 and DD the 26/9, Christmas is now cancelled in my house

I hope DD is ok DS had an op 18m ago to seperate webbed toes, I remember how hard it is {{hug}}