I hope you're feeling better this morning Chasing. When you're settled in with your job then you could renegotiate your access arrangements to keep O e.g. on the first weekend of every month.
No chance BigPig, DH hates quiche and J is allergic!
DH was going to give J a bottle of cow's milk last night
he's such an idiot I wish he would pay attention. When it's his parents or siblings that are ill then he spends loads of time getting information for them but when it's his children he doesn't bother. He told me J didn't have an egg intolerance because it takes five hours for the symptoms to show up and he thinks they would show up right away.
I'm also cross with him because I keep having to take coins, screws, pens and packets of tablet away from J which usually results in much screaming. I have no idea why DH leaves such a trail of discarded objects behind him.