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December 2012: the little monsters continue to surprise us.

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MaMaPo · 25/07/2013 21:16

I for one have a very surprising baby.

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IsThatTrue · 02/08/2013 18:06

willyou they don't baby me but they are great about doing everything for the big ones so I'll only have to worry about ds2 really.

Just me and DS2 now. He's bathed and ready for bed already! Blush he won't let me do any work/housework though so that'll have to wait until he's in bed!

MaMaPo · 02/08/2013 18:52

Spotty, is that for the raised temperature?

Nice napping, babylazza!

So C ate well tonight! I mixed some sweet potato and cheese into the chicken stew I made and which she has turned her nose up at every time I have offered it. And she actually ate it! Opened her mouth! Reached for it! As you can tell this is very rare. I even went and made more, and she had a bit of that too. Then polished off a very large plum and a yoghurt.

Perhaps related to that, she then fed for only 15 minutes (usually at least 30), kept whining and pulling off and then bit my nipple for the first time! She looked a bit confused and then grinned at me when I loudly said 'no!'

Anyway, I've put her down and I think she's gone to sleep. But I do wonder if she'd be able to sleep through without all her milk? I suppose solids are harder/take longer to digest and might see her through?

Having people over for dinner tonight. Cooking a Chinese feast - 5 dishes!

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SpottyTeacakes · 02/08/2013 18:54

No, MaMa it's for his testicle Grin

Poor DS does a little cry after each cough Sad if he wakes up I think I will give him some medicine

ISpyPlumPie · 02/08/2013 19:18

Sorry didn't get the chance to come back on last night. N is a solid little chap but definitely quite chubby too. He has the chunkiest little thighs Grin. He is starting to level off a bit - he had been gaining a pound a month, but put on just under that in five weeks this time. Not sure how many more times I'll take him to be weighed. I do find it reassuring, but there's never been any issue with his weight and it can be a bit of a faff to go. Might try and fit one more in before I'm back at work though.

Seymore - happy anniversary. Sorry DS is poorly though. Hope he's better soon.

Isthat - have fun at your parents'.

Spotty - hope the appointment went well.

Willyou/Lazza - will keep fx that nightime =sleeptime tonight for both of you.

Maryland2013 · 02/08/2013 19:19

Mama I worried ds wouldn't sleep when we took away his dream feed but it was never a problem. Good to hear C enjoying some food. Sweet potato is a massive hit in our house- with carrots, apples, cheese, tomato, butternut squash, lentils. Dh says if I mixed sweet potato and the contents of the dyson ds would still eat it Grin

IsThatTrue · 02/08/2013 19:44

DS is being a pickle. He went down wonderfully at 7, was awake within 5mins, fed for 30 mins and went down okish at 7.30, again awake within 5. Now he's suckling (not feeding though) and playing with his hair. I wonder if its the temperature, I think it really makes his eczema play up. Poor love!

I hope other babies go down well (and stay down) tonight.

I could do with a good nights sleep. Me and DS are off early in the morning to do our first park run together (my second park run). When I did my one alone it took 33.48mins for the 5k run. I wonder how long it will take with him, especially as its a different course (flat rather than woods so I can take the buggy)

PurplePidjin · 03/08/2013 07:40

7:15-4:45 then 5:15-6 :o

IsThat, R twiddles his hair and it wakes him up. I hold his hand, he grabs my thumb, and that sends him off. I might try popping a toy there instead once things settle down :)

SpottyTeacakes · 03/08/2013 07:42

Argh ds will not stop going for dd's toys. Apparently they're more fun than his own Hmm

Good sleep pidj!

Barbeasty · 03/08/2013 07:59

Of course they're better spotty They're smaller, dangerous to chew and they get a reaction! It is making DD marginally tidier though....

I've got a rotten cold, and DH is working so I've got the DC on my own all day.

Not particularly good sleep again, although I was worse than A!

Stacks · 03/08/2013 09:03

Hi again. I've been AWOL for a whole so you all dropped off my threads list. Just struggling with DS and sleep, still. A good night he wakes every 2 hours and goes back down quickly. A bad night can be every hour with 4-5 attempts to put him back in his cot. We've had more bad nights than good recently, and I've really struggled with my temper as a result.

Daytime naps seem to be coming along better, occasionally 2 hours, usually 45 or 90 minutes. We're doing the trick of putting him down 2 hours after waking up too, though it doesn't seem to work well between his morning and lunch nap and we usually end up with a screaming fit before going down after waiting another hour or so.

Still, DS is in his own room and his own bed all night long now. I've been sleeping in the nursery too, but might try going back to our bed tonight. If it disturbs DH too much I'll move back through, but we really need to spend some time together as I've barely seen him in 7 months!

Weaning is going quite well here. We're 90% BLW so DS rarely gets anything from a spoon. He likes the Ella's kitchen fruit smoothie pouches though - merrily sucks them straight out the packet with no help. However his first try of a savoury one was not a success - it looked like he had a slug on his tongue! Massive shudder and poked out his tongue with the stuff still on. Very funny :)
For breakfast DS self feeds dry Cheerios and Shreddies. He'll occasionally take some porridge or weetabix from a spoon but prefers not to. Also toast, potato scones, and crumpets as finger food. We had some success with porridge fingers early on, but I've not tried him on them recently.

Anyone else finding their LOs are seeming more hungry? DS has been demanding food a lot overnight, though isn't so bad when DH settles him. I've lost loads of weight recently though, and wondering if its DS feeding more. 2kg in 2 weeks...

What can I remember from the read back?
Nutella congratulations!
WillYou I hope DS is all recovered now? How's him sore bum?
Spotty how is DS and his cough?
Lazza I hope the time without your DH isn't too hard. I'm with you on the bad sleeping, but can offer no solutions. I'm reading and trying to implement The No Cry Sleep Solution book, seems quite good so far, and I think has helped a bit. It's a very quick read, maybe try getting it from your local library, or I got it for £3 from eBay.
Seymour good luck with the dummy weaning if you decide to go ahead with it. We never used one as DS refused. Also, happy anniversary.
Beasty sorry to hear about your cold. I hope you feel better soon. Tv day for the DCs?
Pidg I'm glad sleep is improving for you.
IsThat I hope your night improved and DS finally stayed asleep? Good luck with your park run, you're far fitter than I!

SpottyTeacakes · 03/08/2013 10:57

I can't get any cleaning done with dd moaning and ds following me everywhere!

Stacks sorry things haven't greatly improved for you Sad ds's cough is ok at the moment but I'm sure it'll get worse again tonight.

Dp and I are going out to dinner tonight! First time in years Shock I haven't told him either he thinks he's mowing the lawn tonight Smile

IsThatTrue · 03/08/2013 11:47

stacks sorry to hear of poor sleep, it's awful isn't it when you just need some shut eye.

Well after our rather shaky start last night DS slept 8-3, 4-7 he was sleepy feeding between 3-4 and I tried to transfer 4times before I was successful. I didn't bring him into my bed though as now the cots moved he could fall out. even though it was really really really tempting

We managed the parkrun, slower than normal but I've decided I don't like running with the buggy on grass as it bashes poor DS around too much. Thankfully next time I parkrun my DH will be home so I'll be able to leave them in bed. DS did get rewarded for being such a good boy and sleeping for the whole run with some raspberry flapjack at the end. He loved it!

lazzaroo · 03/08/2013 12:56

Usual shenanigans here last night. Settled easily just before 7 but lost track on how many wake ups. Including an hour at 3.30! up for the day at 5.40 but only slept for 40mins....how an two days be so different!! tried getting her to sleep again 2 hours after she woke but she wouldn't have it. Only went back to sleep half an hour ago, so if she doesn't gave nice long sleep now she'll be grumpy!

No what you mean stacks, she does seem very hungry. Has eaten like a pig today! But still seems to need to feed at night....or wants to....that's what I need to decide. Thanks for book suggestion Smile

Hope your day going ok barbeasty

lazzaroo · 03/08/2013 12:59

Oh, and stacks maybe your lo is heading towards the 2,3,4 nap routine? I,e. 2 hours after first wake up, 3 hours after first nap, then 4 hours to bed?

WillYouDoTheFandango · 03/08/2013 13:28

Sorry about all the shit nights. I was with you. We only had 1 wakeup, but it was at 3:00 and lasted until 5:15. It was utterly soul destroying, he wasn't hungry, he did poo eventually but that wasn't what woke him, he just wanted to play. When it became apparent I did not want to play he screamed the bloody house down.

DP is getting on my nerves too. He keeps saying everyone at work's babies always slept through for 12 hours. Why doesn't J? X, Y and Z said just put whiskey in his last bottle and he'll sleep. My reply is always all baby's are different, your workmates are fucking liars remembering it wrong or left them to CIO all night and if they gave their baby whiskey to make them sleep they're arseholes (workmates are recent parents so should know better).

MaMaPo · 03/08/2013 14:31

Willyou, what a stupid thing for your husband to say. I'd be tempted to reply, 'I don't know why can't sleep 12 hours. Why can't you run a marathon?' NB this only works if he doesn't run marathons.

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WillYouDoTheFandango · 03/08/2013 15:28

The stupid thing is Mama, that other than this week when he's been poorly, he had started to wake himself at 11pm for a bottle and then sleep until 7:30/8am. That's awesome sleep! I'd much rather that than him sleep 12 hours 6-6 as I don't do early mornings.

There's also no way that everyone at his work had babies who slept through every night. They've just forgotten all the wakeful nights and remember the good times. I may introduce DP to the sleep boards so he can see how good we have it!

SpottyTeacakes · 03/08/2013 18:10

Dp hasn't been home long I've managed to get him to have a bath and I'm secretly doing my make up. We're leaving in 50 minutes and I need to make sure both dc are in bed before then! Might have to tell dp soon...

Barbeasty · 03/08/2013 18:19

One of DH's colleagues is the same. As is SIL. But luckily DH ignores it.

Today was ok. Trip to the farmer's market got a bit soggy. But DD found the lost library book which I've been searching for for the last 2.5 weeks! I managed to return it before it was due on Monday.

This afternoon we went to the toy shop to buy a few nieces & nephews birthday presents for next month, and got both DC something.

So all good. Then I went for a wee and asked DD to keep A away from her fiddly little playmobil bits. Instead she went and squirted one spray of bathroom cleaner on her face/ tongue Angry Lots of rinsing later and she's fine, but I'm waiting for DH to get home then I need a drink!

Luckily all A managed was to get himself stuck under a coffee table.

SpottyTeacakes · 03/08/2013 18:37

I've just heard that someone I barely know has called their baby tyddyn. How does one pronounce this?!

Goodness Barbeasty. Glad dd is ok!

FriendofDorothy · 03/08/2013 19:17

I was bathing my 7 1/2 month old tonight and noticed that his right nipple looks red and it feels like there is a lump underneath it. Has anyone else had this? He is perfectly well otherwise, no temperature or anything else to be concerned about.

I will take him to the GP on Monday but just wondered if it is very unusual.

Barbeasty · 03/08/2013 19:40

If it's welsh then I'd guess something like tuthun, but I don't really know. Can you google or ask on the baby names board.

DD is apologetic! But she's since bitten her tongue twice and banged her knee jumping onto.her bed.

Deciding what Indian to order. Maybe chilli will shift this cold.

Stacks · 03/08/2013 19:48

Spotty are they welsh? "dd" is pronounced as a sort of "th". So tie-then or ti-then maybe. Hope you have a great dinner out and get to keep it secret as long as possible :)

Never heard of that FoD, sorry.

Beasty, sounds like a great day... Except for the bathroom cleaner incident. What did she think she was doing? I remember trying to eat apple shampoo as a kid, but in my defense it did smell lovely and tasty. Hmm

Willyou, men can be annoying. They'll do things their mate told them works, but not what you say.. Sigh.

WillYouDoTheFandango · 03/08/2013 20:07

Ha sorry Barbeasty but your DD sounds hilarious (obviously not when trying to poison herself). Have a big fat Indian like I just did to smoke that cold out.

Exactly Stacks. Hmm

No help here FoD, maybe pop over to children's health?

Have a lovely dinner spotty, report back what you have!

Barbeasty · 03/08/2013 20:07

FoD- there isn't a spot or insect bite right by it that sort of melds in and looks like part of the nipple? I don't particularly know of what it could be.