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December 2012: Sunshine, saliva & sleeping more...we hope!

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WeeJo08 · 06/05/2013 20:25

New thread ladies Grin

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ISpyPlumPie · 20/05/2013 20:38

Sounds like he's absoultely thriving Pidge.

He keeps biting me. It really hurts. I don't want to get to the stage of dreading each feed again Sad.

WLmum · 20/05/2013 21:17

Really interested to see what his gain is pidj

WLmum · 20/05/2013 22:08

DH has got man flu. I'm such a horribly unsympathetic wife! It's just that when I'm I'll, I don't get a day off, or even a night off for that matter. Scroogey type emoticon!

IsThatTrue · 20/05/2013 23:16

1st wake up although it doesn't really count as I haven't made it to bed yet. I did get some work done and the dishwasher, washing machine and bread maker are all on. I've said goodbye to my mum so I shouldn't have her distracting me anymore! Lol. I think DS will miss her though he's become quite attached.

Ispy the biting sounds shit. DS has only done it once so far although he does randomly beat his free arm against my boobs Hmm which can hurt quite a lot.

I think DS must be growing because today he has mainly fed and slept, although he is doing major developmental stuff too. He's learnt how to push the buttons on two different toys to get them to make noises. He's now rolling back to front without a second thought. He also shimmies round in circles on his belly to get to toys. He's starting to do crawling movements although at the moment the only add up to a small amount of backward wiggling as he's not coordinated it all together yet. No signs of sitting yet as he doesn't sit still enough so overbalances really quickly. ( while reaching for toys etc). Where's my baby gone?!

Am I the only one not weaning yet? DS is 23.5 weeks.

2blessed · 20/05/2013 23:18

Not been able to keep up with you lot Grin. Seems a lot of LO's teeth are beginning to make their appearance. Hope they're not causing too much discomfort.
DS is still getting over his cold and he has stopped sleeping through which means I'm now constantly knackered. Hoping this is just a passing phase or connected to the cold.

I know what you mean WL I felt really rotten a couple of weeks ago and I just had to carry on.

Secondsop · 20/05/2013 23:49

Why will this child not sleep? He's laughing and wanting to play!

SpottyTeacakes · 21/05/2013 00:02

Five hours to first wake up Grin

halestone · 21/05/2013 01:47

Yay well done Spotty.

WL i totally sympathise, i don't think most men actually get it and if we did nothing when we were ill. They wouldn't know what had hit them.

utopian99 · 21/05/2013 03:19

Well done spotty!

Ds has been ill today; not crying or fussing but very snuffly and hugely sick even compared to his normal standard. Poor little crumb.
He's also just pooed through his nappy and vest and baby gro, so full change and back for more milk. I have little smiley dark eyes looking up at me but I don't want to respond too much and wake him further. Horrid unresponsive mummy.

We're just starting on finger food as he's only just coming up to 5 months. Am going to be BLW so using his nap time to swot up, when I should really be working. Have a new project in the early stages so when ds falls asleep it's straight to work, housework as become a bit cursory at the moment, but I don't want to do it at weekends because that's our time with dh. Slummy mummy.

FriendofDorothy · 21/05/2013 03:43

We're not weaning yer either. Boy wonder is 5 months or so. Will start when we get back from holiday c

SpottyTeacakes · 21/05/2013 03:51

Second wake up Grin this is out best night in over two months!

Poor ds utopian Sad

If I was ill dp would take the day off work to look after the dc, he did before when we just had dd and I had an ear infection. It's really rare either of us are ill and I think we've both had one day off work in six years so if I ask for help he knows I need it!

halestone · 21/05/2013 04:24

Hope DS is better soon Utopian. I think housework does take a 2nd step i'm going to ask my mum to come round and watch H while i tidy even if i just do my bedroom i'll be happy. I also give H alot of finger foods today she took some asparagus off my plate and happily played with it. I would say she ate about 1/3 of it and yesterday she ate 2 strawberries Grin

WillYouDoTheFandango · 21/05/2013 05:06

We've not started weaning yet, J's 22.5 w. I'm going to BLW too. I have already had lots of Head shaking when I say this and everyone seems to think I'm super PFB because I've not started shovelling baby rice in him yet.

DP doesn't get ill much and gives zero sympathy when you are. It's all from his DM who never ever let him have a day off sick; she wouldn't believe him when he broke his wrist and still sent him to school. I like sympathy when I'm ill Grin and am very sympathetic to others. I feel a battle coming in the future when DS is ill.

SpottyTeacakes · 21/05/2013 06:13

Oh WillYou I'm like your dh!

Ds is 26 weeks/six months on Monday. I really wanted to wait until then to wean but it was do it now or lose the will to live Grin

The co sleeping article isn't in the news yet... this is it though

SpottyTeacakes · 21/05/2013 06:29

So I haven't fed from my left side since midnight. I'm trying to e press from it (usually get 3-4oz) and I'm hardly getting anything Sad

SpottyTeacakes · 21/05/2013 06:30

Oh here you go www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-22594587

IsThatTrue · 21/05/2013 08:01

From the article it says x number of the cot deaths could have been prevented by not bed sharing ?! How can they say this when the cause of cot death is unknown. If it was caused by bed sharing surely that would be suffocation or similar?

If also doesn't have any details on wether the parents were practising safe co-sleeping or not.

Bloody media hysteria if you ask me, proper education is what is needed, not scaremongering.

SpottyTeacakes · 21/05/2013 08:07

It's a peer review of a study from the nineties Hmm it doesn't take info account obesity or prescription meds or, like you say, safe bed sharing. It's also done by the london school of tropical diseases or something Confused

WLmum · 21/05/2013 08:09

Ouch! Oddly I feel that I'm more at risk of suffocating her now than I did when she was new - not sure if that's because I'm more used to her so less aware or because I hang onto her more so she doesn't roll. Anyway, I'm glad that we're pretty much past the bed sharing stage.

We're not weaning yet, holding off for another couple of weeks until 6 months.

WLmum · 21/05/2013 08:10

Excellent points isthat and spotty.

halestone · 21/05/2013 08:20

WL i don't bed share for the same reason, shes a roller now. But when she was younger it was a case of throw her in our bed to feed so i can try and get some sleep.

Barbeasty · 21/05/2013 08:22

Good sleep, spotty.

We've not started weaning yet, despite A's best attempts. I had DD and A in my knee last week. DD had a plate with cake on it and I suddenly realised there was a 3rd hand holding it. Then a quick swipe and a fist full if cake vanished. I prised it back off him! No interest in veg though..

I don't know whether to start soon. He'll start at about 24/25 weeks anyway, as that's when he goes to nursery.

Barbeasty · 21/05/2013 08:32

Yes, and why do people co-sleep. There seem to be 2 camps: those who have always intended to do it because it fits their patenting "ethos", and those who fall into it as the only way baby or parents can sleep.

I'd be interested to see how those two groups compare and whether the 2nd have some as yet unidentified risk factor which causes sleeping problems.

And is there a difference between sleeping with just one parent or both.

How about what sort of birth (ie level of trauma)

What time of year? Is it safer in the (cold) winter?

And who were the other 4500 and how were they selected?

How frequently do people co-sleep? If you perhaps do it if they're ill or teething or if you're staying away but at no other time, would you say you co-sleep or would you say you didn't?

Stacks · 21/05/2013 09:26

DS has woken a few times in the past couple of days with real crying. He's not been startled awake or disturbed so I face to guess its teething or reflux. He's most often really happy when he wakes, or sometimes just really quiet and sleepy. I wasn't sure if it was common for them to sometimes wake crying, like a bad dream or something?

We're not weaning yet, though I feel quite pressured to do so. Everyone around us and in my family weaned a bit early and seem to want me to do the same. Either for my benefit (to mauve help with sleep or reflux) or perhaps because they want validation. Sometimes DS does seem 'ready' as he gets very intent on grabbing whatever I'm eating and trying to get it into his mouth. However, he's at the stage where he's grabbing everything and mouthing it, so it may not be food he's really wanting though he took a massive bite out of a napkin when I wasn't watching the other day.

Grats on the awesome sleep Spotty. We didn't have a great night.

Whoever was asking about biting - DS has started chomping down really hard recently. He's also fighting and straining lots though, punching, kicking and grabbing handfuls of flesh. I wonder if he's doing it in response to teething pain? It's like his whole body tenses up, and his hands and mouth clamp shut at the same time. I'm trying the delatch and say no method, but I'm not sure it's entirely voluntary. I hope it stops soon either way.

SpottyTeacakes · 21/05/2013 09:31

I find ds hits me in the face more, when feeding, when he's tired.

It's all kicking off on the chat thread about this bed sharing report...

Stacks how old is your ds? You need to do what's right for you and your ds. It's likely weaning will help with the reflux but it's not a given.