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JumpJockey · 17/04/2013 21:02

New thread! Hope this is ok :)

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EffiePerine · 23/04/2013 21:54

Breathe, Indith! You're doing great.

McKayz · 23/04/2013 21:58

Thanks for all the birthday wishes. Had a lovely day.

Except for GP who wouldn't give me antibiotics and said to come back in a fortnight if no better. I wanted to cry when she said that. Also told me to take lemsip and when I said I couldn't due to BF, she suggested stopping as DD is old enough to drink cows milk.

Useless woman.

Vagolajahooli · 23/04/2013 22:50

Kayz babe, about the only thing that gets through to breast milk is chemotherapy, your fine with pretty much everything. I used to take codeine for migraine when ds' were feeding. Such a teeny tiny amount gets through to your milk and then of that her digestive system deals with it so next to nothing ends up in her. If your worried give the drug person a call on the BfN website.

So much to read today, now it's night time & I don't have time to respond. I will just say awesome Rubes that the other lady concurred, I'm sure they send it second class.

Yay for dudesboy.

You ok Indith, I remember A&P. When is your first placement.

You ok Jam? I also remember tummy pain, in fact I was taking brufen for period pain before I found I was pregnant with ds2.

Right need my bed chat tomorrow.

ShadyLadyT · 23/04/2013 23:32

Evening ladies. I am typing this at high speed as I still have loads to do before bed - DP is not coming back tonight so am frenziedly trying to make good use of the time...then finish off by trying to catch up on the book for Book Group on Fri - my actual choice! Of course I have read it before, but years ago...(The End of the Affair by Graham Greene). I am also hosting so I have about ten years worth of tidying to do before then (and MIL comes the day after).

I have caught up now and here are some responses - as many as my tired fingers can muster!

Nolda, did you hear about your offer on the house you liked?

The Muppets - I loved them so much. Still do. I used to practically hold my breath before they were on the tv on Sundays at 5.30 in the late 70s. On Youtube, I have shown the girls a couple of Bert & Ernie songs (although they are of course Sesame Street - 'I Sing Myself to Sleep' and 'Rubber Ducky' - both are brilliant.

Jam - so excited for you! I definitely had that period pain thing - with DD1 especially.

Rubes, I am very relieved that things seem more settled about DS's school. And bless DH for being calm about it all, he is such a trouper. I hope his prep is going well. DD1 mentioned your DS tonight Smile Oh, and to clarify, I did have a glass of wine on Friday lunchtime but it was only one and it was only that the good cheese just begged for it Grin

Glad you've had a nice day, Kayz - just really hope you get better quickly.

Vag - shocking news about your friend. It's just so sad, I don't know what to say. But the letters idea sounds amazing. Any trips over here before the end of the year? And what is your routine like these days? I have less time than when the girls were tiny. I am not sure how that is, given we were renovating a house, but it most certainly is.

JJ - how did DH's concert going? And he is still singing - but are you getting any in?

DB - I can only echo the others who have said that your DS will be better when he starts school. The pre-school have mishandled it from the get-go. Just muddle through as best you can for now, that's all you can do. The fact that he's only like it at pre-school is a cause for optimism - the lashing out is not his personality, it's just how he copes in certain situations. Hang in there. As for having a grumpy DH, well, you know I have a grumpy DP...Glad you feel better about the hen do.

Money for going out, though....I feel your pain. I went to see lovely friends in Sheffield at the weekend. I really love them but I haven't been since autumn 2011...Anyway, the trainfare was £80, and with eating out (albeit cheaply) and all the other attendant costs it was a dear weekend. I would love to see people so much more, such as lots of friends in London, but often finding the £30 for the trainfare, taxi money from the station to home, eating out...I just can't afford to do it very often at the mo. Vag, I really understood about the horridness of waiting for your DH to be paid.

Anyway, I mustn't get moany. Arti, are you feeling any better about mat leave? I wish I could come into town to see you more easily. How many weeks to go? That anxiousness you are feeling - it is so so normal for the last stage of pregnancy. It is horrid, though. You mentioned on the last thread about how it was a shame that mere money would put me off a third - well, I guess it's not just money though the fact that I would ideally want another private birth is a big problem (I am so scared of not having the nice experiences that I had with DD1 and DD2). I still have other reservations...compelling in both directions. So we'll see...I am on Season 2 of Breaking Bad. I think it's very good but I do find it depressing and not very 'enjoyable' in the classic sense.

Oooh, Beans, what are you having done on your house? I love hearing about that sort of stuff. Oh - the stammering - DD1 had that a lot and grew out of it. DD2 gets it sometimes and I suspect the same will happen.

Whilst I am pleased that DD1 has got a place at the village school I feel a bit sad that she will soon be on the treadmill and, if I am honest, out of my zone of influence. I am not a control freak really (I don't think) but once they are at school, they start to move away from you. And it doesn't seem five mins since they were all our little babies!

Keep on with the swotting, Indith. It must be hard but it will be so worth it.

Oh and Sybs - of course I will sponsor you. xx.

Spot - how are the boys? Lovely that DP had his first paid shoot. How's his state of mind?

ZJ - will you be coming into London a lot more over the coming year?

I am flagging so I probably need to go to bed. Wednesday again tomorrow and have I even looked at my Italian? Nope. And we have a test!

McKayz · 24/04/2013 06:35

Morning,

Vag, I didn't think you could take decongestants. It can lower milk supply or something. That's according to BF networks drug sheet.

I've either got a stomach bug or food poisioning. I've been up almost all night with stomach cramps. Which have luckily subsided now and I've had an hours sleep. I just hope no one else is ill.

Indith · 24/04/2013 06:36

while it is true lots if things can be taken while bf lemsip not one if them. the decongestants affect milk supply as they inhibit all body fluid production not just snot.

Vagolajahooli · 24/04/2013 10:11

Argh I just lost a whole post! I don't have time to write it again I've procrastinated enough this morning. Jam I am the worst at procrastinating.

Artichook · 24/04/2013 10:35

Hello pre-eclampsia my old friend. Stuck in maternity assessment ward on nicest day of the year. Please all cross your fingers for a speedy discharge as I am FAR from ready for this baby.

ShadyLadyT · 24/04/2013 10:40

Oh Arti :-( How many weeks are you? Hope you get out soon (and that you've got something to read whilst you're waiting...) Keep us posted. xxx.

JamInMyWellies · 24/04/2013 10:45

Oh arti bugger. Keep us posted.

McKayz · 24/04/2013 11:06

Oh Arti, I hope it settles down for you.

Nolda · 24/04/2013 11:07

Fingers crossed for you Arti!

Artichook · 24/04/2013 11:18

Thanks all. I am 36 weeks so the baby would probably be fine if he had to be induced, it's just I am not ready in either a practical or psychological sense. Hopefully the blood tests they've just done will show my kidneys and liver are coping OK and in that case I can go home and come back on Monday. If the bloods are bad I have to stay in. I hate hospitals, I want to go home. Also DH in meetings so I can't get hold if him, not that he can do anything anyway.

Artichook · 24/04/2013 11:41

Oh and I forgot to bring a book or even a decent newspaper. That was a rookie error. I've eeked out all the amusement that can be had from a nine month old copy of OK!.

EffiePerine · 24/04/2013 13:20

Oh Arti I'm sorry you're stuck, but it's good that they are keeping a close eye on you. Is there no way of contacting DH? I am just down the road (if he's where I think he is) and could always try matching in to haul him out. I'd have to get the right chap though.

EffiePerine · 24/04/2013 13:20

Marching not matching.

EffiePerine · 24/04/2013 13:22

Re books do you have the Kindle app? I am reading a very non-taxing fantasy series set in Pictish Scotland at the mo, which is as far away from libraries and moves and staff issues as I can manage.

ShadyLadyT · 24/04/2013 13:47

Yes, I was trying to think of ways to get books/mags over to Arti...any news?

Pictish Scotland? Wowzers! Interesting period of history. I am just reading a history of Britain at the mo (I am still quite near the beginning...)

Artichook · 24/04/2013 14:27

Thanks so much ladies. Still awaiting results but have been given a copy of "Gone Girl" which is apparently the current no. 1 best seller about the world's most dysfunctional marriage. Cheery stuff! I've not yet got a car seat, cot or packed my hospital bag. I'm half way through painting our stairwell before moving on to the downstairs loo, and I've got a garden furniture order arriving on Friday. I need to be home!

EffiePerine · 24/04/2013 14:36

LadyT: Juliet Marillier if you are interested. Literary value doubtful, escapist rating high. I have even been reduced to reading wampire books recently so I suppose this is a step up.

ShadyLadyT · 24/04/2013 14:36

I have heard that book is quite good. Now listen - car seat and cot can be ordered at the click of a mouse (or phone!) Bag - start writing your list now, in case you have to give instructions to DH to get things for tonight. The painting can wait....and as for the garden furniture, surely there is at least one friend you can persuade to come round to accept the delivery? It will all be fine...maybe not quite as you'd planned, but totally fine.

I think if they let you out today, pack your hospital bag and buy your carseat etc at the weekend so if this happens again, you'll be all set.

ShadyLadyT · 24/04/2013 14:38

Escapist is good sometimes Grin Gosh, what's a wampire? It's sounds like a rather weedy vampire. Speaking of which, DD1 said to me this morning "X at pre-school told me that vampires drink your blood. Is that true? And if it is, what shape are they?" Groan.

EffiePerine · 24/04/2013 14:40

Also you are unlikely to be let out with baby immediately so plenty of time to get stuff even if baby arrives sooner than planned. Which hospital are you in again? Honestly, if you need me to drop anything off let me know.

EffiePerine · 24/04/2013 14:42

Sorry that was me mocking myself - I find the whole vampire tv/fiction thing a bit silly.

Artichook · 24/04/2013 14:46

Gosh that is young to be talking about vampires. Did DD1 sound worried LadyT? I'm not sure if I mentioned but DD2 listened to me read DD1 'When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit' and now incessantly asks about Hitler. It's not an easy subject to broach with a 4 year old. She keeps asking who I'd ask to adopt her if my choices were Ms Hannigan (from Annie), Bill Skykes (from her adapted Oliver Twist) or Hitler...

The great think about this hospital is there is a Daunt Books opposition. They've said I can have an hour out while we await the results. So Daunt Books here I come. Any recommendations for good reads (I've taken not of yours Effie!)? I think I need something relatively cheery right now, and something with a gripping and distracting story line.