Beans, I think all Sybs said is right but I also think in addition to alerting school/nursery, just make general chatty overtures to the Mum. Whatever her situation, she sounds shy and lonely, and potentially isolated. It could be something as simple as her kid accidentally biffing her - DD2 clocked me with a Barbie - not on purpose - and Barbie's sodding plastic stiletto cut and bruised my forehead. But better to be safe than sorry. I think one should never, ever just ignore (not that you were going to).
Rubes, I think potting petunias sounds absolutely lovely! Sorry you got yourself all upset. Kids are very funny about discord between their parents. I gave DP a hug the other day and DD1 said so wistfully "I love it when that happens..." as if it hardly ever did (which is sadly true). What things bugged me on holiday? Me trying to cram a lot in, him just wanting to lie down at virtually every opportunity...me automatically being responsible for the kids, and everything to do with them, at all time. Doncher just hate it (and it happens to me a lot) when they say, or maybe it's just around here, "Where's x's sunhat/lotion/my sunglasses?" In a shocked/annoyed voice? Every time we so much as walk down the street I appear to be responsible for 4 people's essential requirements. I don't mind for the girls (OF COURSE) although it would be nice if DP thought to consider what they might need as well, as I do occasionally forget stuff.
ANYWAY, Arti, how was the HV? (I wonder if they all know that they inspire a collective, national groan from Motherkind?) I think you are right with your point about younger children - it is a point DP and I have both often made. He is a classic elder child, I am a classic younger child and both of our sisters also fit the same mould. I remember reading that psychologists place a lot of store on your position in the family, in terms of whether you are a first born, a middle child etc. DP is very hot on following rules, obeying authority etc. Er......I am so much the reverse it's not true. Although I blame my mother Even now she's always yelling "Question everything!"
I had DD1's Early Years Foundation Report today. I can hardly make head nor tail of it. The written bits are self-explanatory but the staging/banding is a bit of a mystery. She had her second taster afternoon at school today, which she seemed to like. I do worry about her though, she's quite quiet and I don't want her to get lost amongst the bolshy little varmints more outgoing children.
Well, after biting Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday we are so far bite and indeed violence-free with DD2 today.