jiggle glad DH has stepped up to give you some rest and hope freya feels better soon.
honey amazing growth of your parenting group, that sounds like you're plugging a serious gap in the market and good luck with the sling library!!
We are still back carrying with the boba 3G and loving it. DS hasn't insisted on wearing something odd but he certainly carries weird things around with him sometimes (he will hug the dustpan and brush, he dropped a buddha figurine into the bath, he wailed when DH tried to separate him from my iphone charger...)
I think DH is doing something mysterious and magical to DS's brain while he is SAHDing. This morning, he displayed the fruits of yesterday's labours:
- DS can now sort of count up to ten. Ok, three and four are a little totally garbled and he doesn't know what the numbers actually mean, but still - he knows what sound comes after what.
- He can also finish the ends of lines of some nursery rhymes like twinkle twinkle and three blind mice. This morning DH sang "one two three four..." and DS said "faiii...."
once I caught a fish..."awaiii"
six seven eight nine..."den"
then I let him go..."agnnn"
The best thing is he does it all with this little knowing smile, like he's thinking, "ok, so I am their puppet and jump through their little hoops now. But patience, my friends, 'tis one step closer to freedom...mwahahaha...."
But then he has a meltdown over the fact that we won't let him chew electrical cables, and it's back to square one!