Little T had some slight nappy rash. A very thin layer of benpanthen (or something like that) has cleared it up in a few days. MW told me a thick layer of cream gets onto the nappy and stops it from absorbing the poo/wee. The rash is caused by ammonia from the poo and wee mixing - so the lack of absorption could be making it worse. Also second advice for time with nappy off.
Are you using wipes or water for cleaning bums? We're still on water, but I just bought reusable wipes (brand I got was Cheeky Wipes) they come with a natural essential oil to use, then you just add water. Easier than cotton wool, and cheaper and less chemicals than wipes.
Pidg, I'd also be interested in som FB groups, and any recommendations you have for real nappies. I really want to use them but we're in disposables as I've no idea what nappy to choose! T is 9lb now, so too small for the council 'trial pack' we can get here (£14 to borrow 8 nappy types and all the accessories for 3 weeks) as that starts at 10lb. We've spent £25 on disposables in 2 weeks though, so I want to move over ASAP.
HV came yesterday. I got a referral to a baby massage lady who'll come to our house to teach us some colic relief massage. There's nhs classes too, but they start at 4w and T is only 2w. He was weighed too and is up to 9lb 1oz from birthweight of 8lb 8oz. Knowing that had really helped with my anxiety over breastfeeding problems and his latch. As long as its only my pain I have to deal with, and not starving him, I can manage (though ofc I'm still going to sort out the pain and latch!).
Ikea group was ok, lots of older babies and everyone already knew each other. However, HV there showed me a new latch and was nice and easy to talk to. Will go back next week and make an effort to talk to people.