Age? Closest to 13m, 13.5m or 14m?
13m
Walking?
Yes altho still prefers to crawl
Talking?
Not much really, F was talking lots more at this age. She says dada, mmmmama (occasionally), hello/hiya, ta and cat. the rest of it is just babbling and shrieking etc.
Says please and thank you (or words to that effect)?
She can say ta but is going thru an ill-mannered phase where she can't be arsed most of the time 
Naps - when/how many?
1 from 11 til 1
Eating with a fork and/or spoon?
Yes, with a spoon on her own for a couple of months. haven't really bothered with a fork but she has used one now and again.
Responds to simple commands or questions such as 'give me that please' or 'where's your head?'
Yes, she'll pat her head when asked, the rest of it is more hit and miss. she'll start to play peekaboo the moment you say 'where's rella?'
Copying others?
Yes, she 'brrrrums' cars and trains back and forth like F does 
. She's always cramping his style by swaying next to him joining in with whatever he's doing.
Points at objects?
Yes, especially the cat or if she wants her water.
Waves goodbye?
Yes, often slightly prematurely as if to say 'enough with the goodbyes, just bugger off now please'
Participates with nursery rhymes and songs?
Yes, she LOVES songs. Her fave is 'the skeleton dance' and 'if you're happy and you know it' she does the cutest dances to them and gets super-excited when she recognises the beginning of them.
Plays social games such as pat-a-cake, peek-a-boo?
yes, far too much stamina for peek-a-boo
Babbles 2 or 3 words repeatedly?
yes but not as much as F did, she makes lots of noise but it's more shrieks and grunts and old man 'urrghh's
Cooperates with dressing?
i wouldn't call it cooperating
Milk feeds (number and times)?
bedtime bf at 7.15pm, dreamfeed bf at 11.30pm, morning bf at 7amish
Meals/snacks (average amounts and types)?
9am 1 slice of toast and humous, half a banana, 2 breadsticks with humous. diluted fruit juice or water.
1pmish something like a bowl of stirfried noodles, peas/beans, veg, sesame seeds and teriyaki sauce, fruit or dried fruit bar. water.
4pm a few goodies crisps, raisins and a cracker. water.
5.30pm/6pm something like a plateful of veggie spag bol or veggie korma with rice. fruit puree or mashed banana with natural yoghurt. water.
Sleeping through? she has been known to but isn't again now teething. sigh...
Specialist skills or funny traits?
she's very excitable and does a crazy arms and legs freak-out at the slightest provocation - such as me pushing the pram out of the front door.
gives the best, squeeziest hugs especially when we collect her from nursery when she'll also smother us with noisy kisses 'mwah, mwah'
tbh, she is just lovely