Polls Sitting in front of fire good. Don't worry about tidying rooms, you daft cow! As long as I can force the door open against all the piles of crap, and clamber over the piles to reach the futon, that will be fine - luxury even.
In fact, even if there's piles of random crap on the futon I will probably still sleep OK, given that most nights I share a bed with two giant snoring lumps.
Also I should mention I have Friday off work to clean my tip of a car in preparation for LadyG's journey in it get the food organised, so please send me a shopping list for any other stuff needed we've not yet talked about (milk, bread, butter?). You are doing too much. Share the load, my lovely.
alps What can I say? As you know, I have experience of work mistreatment while pregnant (understatement). You have to focus on protecting yourself and your pregnancy. But for me, that included knowing that I wasn't going to be able to calm down and let it go until I got the bastards in front of a judge writing a bloody enormous cheque with my name on it!
Foolish maybe, given my condition? You have to judge for yourself whether it's worth fighting or not. In your case, you have every right to keep taking the money, refuse to travel on obvious grounds, and sit at home planning a bloody fabulous happy wedding. And don't feel guilty at all. They don't care a jot about you or your unborn child, I can tell you that for sure.
Enjoy the wedding planning. White dress is compulsory of course. Can I ask, instead of bridesmaids, are you having miniature ponies covered in hot pink accessories made of glitter and fur? Oh, and when's the ESH-hen party?
curls There's about 1000 empty cardboard boxes on our front steps you can pick up any time you like.