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Beans33 · 01/02/2011 21:14

Here we are x

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vagolaJahooli · 19/02/2011 20:22

JB I've only posted the question on the cat threads. I have to admit I fear getting lambasted by scary cat people (I mean people own cats not a strange mutated race of half cat humans) for taking on two cats at once.

Also JB i meant to say, I wouldnt want my boys to be born on the day my dad died. I don't hmuch left of him but my memories so those significant days, his birthday and the day we lost him are what we do still have. I'd want to keep that day our day to remember if. IYSWIM.

LadyThompson · 20/02/2011 01:13

Lovely ladies - been so hectic that I have no real time now except to say love to you all! I will miss you and check in when I can. See you all in (over) a fortnight. Ok, just a smidge more -

JB - I totally get where you are coming from re: the anniversary. I felt like that when registering DD2's birth on the same date that I registered DH's death. But...I think I managed to convince myself it was extra special in the end Smile Good luck if you deliver before I'm back. Thinking of you.

I hear on the FB grapevine that Spot's DS2 is out - hurrah!

Vag - you sent me gifts today for the girls and they were laaaavley, thank you SO much.

Have a good time in Scotland, DB! And a very warm welcome back to Mom! Cheerio for now...

zoejeanne · 20/02/2011 09:00

Double ouch Vag that is a bummer about it being across the knuckle, especially when you've so much to do in the next week or so. Could you splint it? I know it sounds OTT, but it would remind you not to bend your knuckle!

Mom that is super brave, wanting to deliver a breech baby. I like to think I'd make that choice but in reality I'm such a wimp I wouldn't get anywhere to delivery before demanding a CS

I'm really interested in the views on sharing anniversaries of loved ones deaths. I'm fortunate enough to have only lost my granddads, a couple of pets and some neighbours, so have very little experience of dealing with death. In my head a newbie being born on a sad occasion makes the day a little happier, but actually I now see that is important to treasure every memory, not just the happy ones

DD went back into her bed fine again yesterday, she did ask for her cot at naptime but I talked her round. Vag you're spot on, it is just the loss of a threat that is a problem (which is why we'd left it there anyway). And at least we know she'll be fine in her travel cot next weekend at friends. BTW why does my phone keep correcting cot to fit? V annoying!

It's my turn for a lie in today, as DH slept til 10 yesterday (remember the days when that was normal?!). Except I'm awake so I'm in the bath with a facepack - quite a treat

zoejeanne · 20/02/2011 09:05

Oh, happy hols ladyT and Deids, have a great time both of you. How were your two in the same room last night Deids

LadyThompson · 20/02/2011 09:56

Morning Zoe! Have mentioned Mom and Jolly but big hug to WG also in case the, er, stork opens his beak whilst I'm away. Can't wait to hear! And Katie is on Tuesday I know. Nearly at airport. Throat still bad and glands up but better than I was. Au revoir!

vagolaJahooli · 20/02/2011 10:24

Lady, see if you can get a whisky on the plane and if you can teach a nice Egyptian barman to make you a hot toddy one of those (or three) each day will sort you at, really it will. That is my best medical advice. I can't believe you got the parcel already I only sent it last Tuesday. I felt a bit silly that I'd taken so long to send it then sent it just as you were leaving on a 2 week holiday. Sorry it had no card, I left it until I got to the post office to get a card then found they were decorating the interior and only had postal services no shop. I'm sure you could work out which present was which. The little purse is actually old signs and advertising for the dutch supermarket chain Albert Heijn.

Zj its funny you say that about the splints I was thinking while we are out today I might run into a coffee shop and try to get one of those thin wooden stirers to break in half and wrap into the bandage as a splint. I would have thought it a little over the top until yesterdays gush. Also its amazing how much we use our pinky finger. I didn't realise what a job it did until now.

WG, where are you, you do realise unless you check in we are going to consider that you are bearing a child.

vagolaJahooli · 20/02/2011 10:26

Oh and is anyone contemplating the emptiness of the thread with Rubes, DB and Lady away? Will we be ok?

sybilfaulty · 20/02/2011 10:48

Vag, I am on half term this week but I am wireless so am contemplating a fair old bit of MN as part of my relaxation. Not that I'll be any substitute for Rubes, LadyT and Deids of course.

Welcome back MOM, good to hear things are going well.

Where is Beans? SHe is usually on here a lot, but not seen her for most of last week. Might send a text.

Happy Sunday everyone.

JamInMyWellies · 20/02/2011 12:18

Morning everyone.

Just off for our for lunch. DH ran 21 miles this morning! Mental man. Grin

Lady have a fab holiday make sure you take plenty ibuprofen and paracetemol for your throat. We want pics of all the notorious peeps hanging out in Sharm.

Are we still on for Wed? Effie & Arti anyone else fancy it, SYbs did I just see you are off this wk?

Veg hope your finger is a bit less painful today.

Nice to see you MOM.

Right roast dinner and yorkshire puds beckons.

waitinggirl · 20/02/2011 13:52

vg - i am not bearing a child. am having a nap. will let you know if anything exciting happens

DeidreBarlow · 20/02/2011 15:36

JB we are in Port Patrick. It's lovely very quiet and remote but also very relaxing.

Sadly DS has woke up today and thrown up everywhere. He's still being sick now. Dh has gone for a walk with dd while I look after sick boy! Thankfully I have found a nice trashy thriller on the bookcase. And I have you guys via my phone. Maybe time for a Wine too. I just hope we don't all get it.

Vag how's the finger?

Jam your DH is a loon.

EffiePerine · 21/02/2011 08:08

Morning all :). DB: hope the vomiting settled down and you had a peaceful night. And best wishes to LadyT for her Egypt trip.

JB: when's your appt?

Mom: lovely to hear from you :). Hooray for mat leave - let's hope the baby keeps quiet and lets you have a good rest.

WG: not long to go!

DH and I have finally booked our weekend away - MIL has decided she'd prefer to come down here to babysit, so we're off to the Norfolk Broads via a nice adult lunch at the St Peters Brewery in Suffolk. Can't wait!

EffiePerine · 21/02/2011 08:09

Jam: I am around on Wed if anyone is free :).

sybilfaulty · 21/02/2011 08:16

Hello everyone

I am indeed on half term this week, but we are fairly booked up already, what with seeing parents, 2 sets of non school friends and extra ballet classes for this wretched exam. I am afraid the kids are off to hol club on Wed, so I won't be able to do the meet up I am afraid.

Deids, are you less vomitous now? HOpe you didn't get it.

Effie, when is your weekend away? Am super envious.

Thinking of you Jolly, as well, have just realised I owe you an email, will sort this asap.

We are off to Battersea today to do a bit of light shopping. I did mention soft play a week or 2 ago but happily everyone has forgotten so I am off the hook! Children been a bit rubbish at going to bed etc so I am going to walk them miles today. Tee hee!

Beans33 · 21/02/2011 11:13

Hi All

Just back from weekend at parents' and haven't read anything at all. Just popping on before I lose the thread! Was a lovely weekend and am v depressed to be home with no company. Woe is me.

Will have a quick read and catch up.

Both DDs full of snot. DH insisted on taking them for a walk on each day of the weekend as we were in the country. Can understand as it's nice to be there, but it was freezing and drizzly and both are worse than when we arrived. As am I. Yick cough been going on for ages and now my sciatic nerve going into spasm. Joy of joys.

Will be more chirpy soon, promise!

xxx

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vagolaJahooli · 21/02/2011 11:39

Oh Beans poor you. DH has had the same thing extended cough etc. It is so bloody cold def indoors weather. Just rode over to a friends house this morning for coffee. Both DS2 and I were frozen solid on the return cycle, and only and 10 minute ride.

DS2 is a bit grizzly today and funny poos. I'm not sure if its teeth or a gastro bug. His nappies are very liquid and a little smelly but no vomit.

DH rang his mum this morning, still no word on the date for the wedding but his mum is up in arms. Her other son, the youngest, his girlfriend, a taiwanese girl who I think I've met once is one of a twin. Her parents didn't have any boys so have stipulated that when she marries the husband has to sign a prenup, saying that their first born son will take the wife's surname. My MIL isn't particularly bothered about the family name as she is divorced from my FIL but I think she is a bit miffed about the other family stating this all now when they are not even engaged and also my BIL has made quite a name for himself in Brisbane, he's a very good dentist and won a young Australian of he year award. So my MIL believes there is more advantage to the child having his name. I also believe she is thinking, and this is the main thing, and I also think it, that's what's bloody wrong with having a girl.

Artichokes · 21/02/2011 13:57

Shhh. DH away and I'm starting to feel ropey. Why do I always get ill when he's away? Maybe it's psychosomatic. I get very panicked at the idea of being ill while in charge of the kids. Pathetic really as mothers across the world do it all the time.

Can I ask whether I am being pathetic about something else? We move just after DH returns so I am packing and sorting this week. I put our nursery furniture and our Phil and Teds on Gumtree and have had lots of interest but most people want to view them. For some reason I am getting nervous about having strangers off Gumtree come into my house while DH is away. I can't believe it's bothering me but it is. Would others worry? The potential buyers all come across as Gumtree professionals angling to buy low and sell on at a higher price, rather than young local families as I had imagined.

Beans - sorry about the colds and coughs. How did your dad seem this weekend?

Sybs - about to email you re Brighton. Have also stuck something in the post today. Sorry for delay.

Vegerola - how odd of your BILs potential on laws. Why is their name so important to them? And what will they do if their pre-nupped daughter has no kids, or has all girls???

Jam/Effie - I am up for Wednesday. What were you thinking would be fun? I feel bad you two are travelling in when you both live in Essex. Do you want me to come your way?

Artichokes · 21/02/2011 13:58

That post was supposed to start "Urghhh" not "shhhh". My predictive text clearly wishes to silence the world.

spotofcheerfulness · 21/02/2011 14:32

Hello lovely people, so sorry for extended absence, am supposed to be hoovering while DS2 sleeps upright in Arti's lovely chair but wanted to come on and reconnect.

For those who haven't been already bored senseless by my FB updates (could only get FB not MN on phone in hossie) - we got out on Saturday after 2 whole weeks! They admitted they should have run the PH test (which showed he has sever reflux) when we came in, rather than trying other things, involving ENT because of his floppy larynx, then after being on the meds for 10 days, taking him off them again in order to do the test they were 99% sure about in the first place! At least they decided to give him a mega strength Omeprizole rather than the cocktail of gaviscon, domperidone, ranitidine and Omeprozole he was first on. Maybe as they got to know ne they realised I wasn't capable of dealing with the timings of so many different drugs.

Anyhow, T is pleased I'm home (I won't even go into DP, tis too long and depressing a story). But I shall not be missing the bright lights and microwave dinners and enforced passivity of the hospital environment. But if I was to draw any pluses from it, it gave me the opportunity to spend one on one time with DS2 that I simply wouldn't have had at home - not to mention the lack of housework!

He was prescribed Nutramigen (which T was on at this age) but he hates it, is barely taking in half of his feeds and finds it impossible to bring up wind, so am going back to the old one. I know the dietician will be pissed off, but how will he thrive if he's not getting his required calorie intake?

Purely in response to this page as I don't have the time to go back any further - Arti if you're feeling uncomfortable about having strangers in the house maybe you could have a friend come to stay - or put the sale off until next week when DH is home?

Beans, sorry for your snotty troubles, i hope your girls are able to fight off their colds. I always think the whole "building their immune system" is just a positive spin on the annoyance of being low level ill - not enough to want to stay stuck to the sofa watching CBeebies but grumpy and not able to do everything as normal.
Poor you and your sciatic nerve - is there anything yu can do about it other than copious amounts of voltarol or similar?

Effie big Grin for your weekend away - how exciting!

DB bugger on the vomming, that is rotten timing. I hope you manage to box and cox so you get out a bit yourself and that it's just a non contagious 24 hour thing.

WG can you not nap and bear a child simultaneously? That is very poor multitasking I must say.

Lady I hope you have a fabulous time and come back all rested and tanned and feeling fannnhne.

Vaggie Sad for the coffee related injury but Smile for the moggy news. How are the kids taking to it? Am v Envy.

Hello to Mom and JB you sound very calm all things considered. How are you feeling about it all today?

Sybs, hope you tolerated enjoyed soft play today. You are a strong, brave woman, and i hope you didn't find any turds lurking beneath the plastic balls .

Must go now but I will be back on now more often, I promise. And will be tucking into the lovely bottle of cheerfulness tonight with gusto Wine.

Beans33 · 21/02/2011 14:34

Arti - I'd feel similarly to you - how long is DH away for? If I were you, I'd postpone the buyers til he gets back.

I STILL haven't read up - sorry sorry! I will though. Have been in bed for an hour as am distinctly under par!

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JamInMyWellies · 21/02/2011 16:02

Sorry all you poorly gals.

Deeply entrenched in glitter and muddy dogs here. Tis only day 1 of half term I will be a raving loony by Fri.

Arti defo cool to come to London. I think the aquarium might be a good bet easy to get to for me anyway. How about you guys?

SPot huzzah for being home. Enjoy the Wine

RIght must go bathe the dog and children wonder if I could put them in the bath together?? I think the mud would be overwhelming.

Beans33 · 21/02/2011 18:13

Ooh, that sounds quite fun.

DD2 is getting another tooth and has a temp of 38.8. Poor little mite is tucked up in bed now. Her hands and feet are really cold - and kind of purpley colour - is that normal? I'm rather worried.

DD1 did a poo in the bath.

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vagolaJahooli · 21/02/2011 19:26

Yes that's ok Beans, but that's quite a high temp is it responding to calpol?

Bugger poos bum I've got a sore throat. I don't have time for a virus.

Cat glad your home but they did muff up royally with your DS2's admission, why did they wait until week 2 for an SLT review????? Blardy hill!!!!!

Arti I would not feel comfortable seeing people alone, esp from Gumtree. It's a good place to sell stuff but is well known for attracting scammers and dodgy dealers. On a safety front I would not be able to do, but also I'd easily be lead into a cheap sale by some scammer. You can advertise on MN threads you know. Mners are obviously pillars of the community Grin. How are you getting on? When we moved from London DH was away for a week so I had to pack, clean and repair the place ready for our first tenants, it is not fun.

Hello, Sybs you sound busy love. Wish I could meet up with you.

Oh and yuk yuk on the bath poo and soft play poo!!!

vagolaJahooli · 21/02/2011 19:29

Oh and Cat, on the Quincy the mog. She is settling in and enjoying exploring but has already scratched poor DS1 twice and took a run at DS2 that scared the poor little mite and made him cry. I'm sure she will settle down, though a little concerned about introducing DF2.

Beans33 · 21/02/2011 20:37

Spot! I totally missed your post. I'm so sorry. You really are an inspiration. So totally brave and wonderful. You have endured so much.

Vag - it is quite high isn't it? I didn't give her calpol initially as she just wanted to sleep. Have just given her 5oz of cold milk, which she gulped down. And 5ml of calpol, which she also necked. She still feels hot but hands and feet back to normal. Hoping calpol sorts her out.

I am boring. She is just ill. I have a nasty feeling this is going to happen whenever she's teething!!

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