LovelyLentil how we miss you during your forced exile - I am happy to see you here, however briefly :) It's interesting to hear that your DH has been through it too. I just wish DP would give himself more credit, and also be more decisive (so does he, tbf). He is such an amazing man and has so much to give...he's just scared of taking the plunge into something in case it's not the right path, esp since he feels bound as the provider. But I did point out last night that providing a good life for us means being a happy DP/Daddy/person more than any amount of comfy cosy stuff.
We'll work it out. I am determined!
Am very nervous excited about the wedding too now 
loti I would be in floods at that as well. Sorry to hear of food woes with DD2; DS has been very picky of late, which is unusual for his gannet self.
Had NO chance to MN all day
as was busy busy busy - took DS to allotment, friend came round to photograph the rings, nipped to supermarket as cupboards were bare, and then had two of DS's little mates over to play in a semi-party style. He was an absolute peach at bedtime, good as gold - no tantrums over bath. bed, putting pyjamas on - and super cuddly :) I do love that boy.
Now I am ensconced on the filthy sofa watching Twat Factor and eating crisps.