It’s hard enough when you are in our position (immigrant married to national, minor children who cannot be taken out of the country without permission) without adding extra stress.
Go take a look at my first post, and then the update plus image I posted later on. Hopefully that will reassure you that you don’t need to worry about Reform. Because despite what the former chairman is saying, Reform is Nigel, and No Nigel means Reform shrinks even as a pressure party.
I had an emotionally hard time when the Brexit results came in and I watched my legal right to remain dissolve before my eyes. Very unexpectedly because all the polling and opinion had seemed so sure Remain would win. It was years before the Italian Government (of the day, cos we changed government at least one, possibly twice during the process) finally decided what our status was and how it would be processed.
Neither of us deserve that stress based on a far fetched, highly unlikely, Nigel throwing spaghetti at the wall as a distraction from his recent loss, “maybe”.
We need all the emotional reserves we have for managing a life of two halves, being an immigrant, having bicultural + bilingual kids and any rule changes that are real rather than imaginary.
Massive hug.