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What can an individual do to keep Reform out?

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Thepoliticsofchaos · 09/10/2025 22:45

I have a young friend (a university student) who is getting depressed about the prospect of Reform getting in next election. He thinks that the UK is fucked, basically. He's left-leaning, I assume a Labour voter. I've advised him to get politically engaged (so that in the future he'll at least be able to feel that he did what he could). He's not the most outgoing of people, though is interested in politics. Can anyone suggest how he could become usefully politically engaged to try to reduce the Reform vote? Not just joining a party and turning up to meetings, but actually doing something?

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Leavesfalling · 28/10/2025 12:14

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 11:39

its not a case of disagreeing - your are bullshitting, as you don't know the victims names or who abused them

Ms Reynolds does.

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 12:14

Nice essay. Hope you enjoyed writing it.

Leavesfalling · 28/10/2025 12:19

1dayatatime · 28/10/2025 12:11

The approach by @MikeRafoneand @BIossomtoesis a classic far left "framing the question " tactic.

I find it fascinating to dissect their approach.

So firstly the far left mindset is all
about the oppressor and the oppressed or a victim and a perpetrator. The far left sees themselves as the "champion of the oppressed or victims".

Under this mindset they see Farage and Reform or anyone that disagrees with their views as the "bad guys" and that they are the "good guys".

The fact that a victim of the grooming gangs appeared on stage with Farage causes a contradiction of this mindset, a bit like a computer glitch.

On one hand Farage is a bad guy, yet here is a victim of grooming gangs standing alongside him. To criticise the victim would go against their views of "standing up for the oppressed or victims" plus they recognise that criticising a sex abuse victim would not be a good look.

So how to deal with this contradiction?

@BIossomtoes- took the approach of saying that the sex abuse victim had no agency in her decision to stand with Farage, that somehow she was manipulated or groomed to make this decision. In her view "why else would a victim choose to stand with a bad person ". The answer being of course that she could have taken the decision in her own free will and that maybe she and others don't see Farage as the bad guys.

@MikeRafone- has taken a different approach. Recognising that this "victim manipulation " theory wasn't really holding up, he took a different tactic.

He sought to reform the boundaries of the question by saying well what about other victims of sexual abuse and what about the alleged sex abuse by Prince Andrew. This was clearly an attempt to widen, dilute and divert attention from the specific question of sex abuse grooming gangs.

When called out on this, his response will typically be"
"Are you saying that other sex abuse victims (not from grooming gangs) don't matter" (ie you are a bad person for wanting to stick to the specific topic and "not caring about other sex abuse victims ")
"Are you saying that Prince Andrew should get away with his alleged sex crimes "(ie you are a bad person by wanting to stick to the specific topic and are an implicit supporter of the "Royal family cover up".

Of course the other posters respond or defend themselves on these points all the while helping to divert attention from the original specific question.

I find unpacking the far left mindset really interesting and it's very much like a cult where they are convinced that they are "the good guys " and if anyone disagrees with them or doesn't share their ideology then they are automatically the "bad guys "
or are far right, racists, Nazis, implicit supporters of other sex crimes etc etc.

What is worrying is how widespread and cult like this far left mindset has spread in society and its institutions.

Now I'm sure that they will be along shortly to shoot this view down as ridiculous etc but often the problem with cult like views is that those expressing them don't even realise or believe that they have cult like views.

Spot on. The trouble is their tactics are very transparent and don't actually fool many normal reasonable people. Bizarre behaviour though.

1dayatatime · 28/10/2025 12:19

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 12:14

Nice essay. Hope you enjoyed writing it.

Thank you and I hope you enjoyed reflecting on it, even if just for a moment.

TheNuthatch · 28/10/2025 12:26

1dayatatime · 28/10/2025 12:11

The approach by @MikeRafoneand @BIossomtoesis a classic far left "framing the question " tactic.

I find it fascinating to dissect their approach.

So firstly the far left mindset is all
about the oppressor and the oppressed or a victim and a perpetrator. The far left sees themselves as the "champion of the oppressed or victims".

Under this mindset they see Farage and Reform or anyone that disagrees with their views as the "bad guys" and that they are the "good guys".

The fact that a victim of the grooming gangs appeared on stage with Farage causes a contradiction of this mindset, a bit like a computer glitch.

On one hand Farage is a bad guy, yet here is a victim of grooming gangs standing alongside him. To criticise the victim would go against their views of "standing up for the oppressed or victims" plus they recognise that criticising a sex abuse victim would not be a good look.

So how to deal with this contradiction?

@BIossomtoes- took the approach of saying that the sex abuse victim had no agency in her decision to stand with Farage, that somehow she was manipulated or groomed to make this decision. In her view "why else would a victim choose to stand with a bad person ". The answer being of course that she could have taken the decision in her own free will and that maybe she and others don't see Farage as the bad guys.

@MikeRafone- has taken a different approach. Recognising that this "victim manipulation " theory wasn't really holding up, he took a different tactic.

He sought to reform the boundaries of the question by saying well what about other victims of sexual abuse and what about the alleged sex abuse by Prince Andrew. This was clearly an attempt to widen, dilute and divert attention from the specific question of sex abuse grooming gangs.

When called out on this, his response will typically be"
"Are you saying that other sex abuse victims (not from grooming gangs) don't matter" (ie you are a bad person for wanting to stick to the specific topic and "not caring about other sex abuse victims ")
"Are you saying that Prince Andrew should get away with his alleged sex crimes "(ie you are a bad person by wanting to stick to the specific topic and are an implicit supporter of the "Royal family cover up".

Of course the other posters respond or defend themselves on these points all the while helping to divert attention from the original specific question.

I find unpacking the far left mindset really interesting and it's very much like a cult where they are convinced that they are "the good guys " and if anyone disagrees with them or doesn't share their ideology then they are automatically the "bad guys "
or are far right, racists, Nazis, implicit supporters of other sex crimes etc etc.

What is worrying is how widespread and cult like this far left mindset has spread in society and its institutions.

Now I'm sure that they will be along shortly to shoot this view down as ridiculous etc but often the problem with cult like views is that those expressing them don't even realise or believe that they have cult like views.

Excellent post 🎯
Even the victims of grooming gangs aren't safe from it.

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 13:33

1dayatatime · 28/10/2025 12:19

Thank you and I hope you enjoyed reflecting on it, even if just for a moment.

I thought it was hyperbolic bollocks. You knew that.

Leavesfalling · 28/10/2025 13:39

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 13:33

I thought it was hyperbolic bollocks. You knew that.

I disagree. I think a lot of people will think it was very accurate. You won't of course. You will argue against it by using sophisticated words such as "bollocks". Entirely to be expected.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 28/10/2025 13:54

ForlornLindtBear · 28/10/2025 11:56

No. Farage is a self serving snake who jumps on things that further his own agenda. This is a perfect example. The victim deserves a better untainted platform than his.

That’s not the subject being discussed.

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 14:13

1daya

you, like leav have spectacularly missed the point I made, which where to state NF was manipulating and why this was apparent by his performance at the political press conference

the fact only him and Kenilworth have used vulnerable victims in front of the press
the fact when questioned on Andrew he gave a negative answer

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 14:16

kemi - not Kenilworth

Hellohelga · 28/10/2025 14:39

Reform won’t get in. The French have been worrying that the FN will get into power for decades and it hasn’t happened. Voters will realise their local Reform mp is a thug with a prior dv conviction. People will vote tactically. If necessary parties will coordinate on tactical voting or withdraw candidates.

EasternStandard · 28/10/2025 14:45

Hellohelga · 28/10/2025 14:39

Reform won’t get in. The French have been worrying that the FN will get into power for decades and it hasn’t happened. Voters will realise their local Reform mp is a thug with a prior dv conviction. People will vote tactically. If necessary parties will coordinate on tactical voting or withdraw candidates.

Who do you think will win?

1dayatatime · 28/10/2025 14:59

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 14:13

1daya

you, like leav have spectacularly missed the point I made, which where to state NF was manipulating and why this was apparent by his performance at the political press conference

the fact only him and Kenilworth have used vulnerable victims in front of the press
the fact when questioned on Andrew he gave a negative answer

So you are denying that the grooming victims chose to be on stage with Badinoch or Farage out of their own free will. Instead you insist that they were somehow "manipulated"
to attend.

Out of interest let's assume that these grooming victims did indeed choose to attend completely out of their own free.

How would that sit with you?

You can't bash them as racists or far right neo Nazis because that would conflict with your core belief of "siding with the oppressed ". Plus you recognise that calling sexual abuse victims such slurs is not a good look.

Equally you can't support their decision because well they are siding with the "oppressors" namely Farage or Badinoch.

What would you do?

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 15:44

Whether or not they chose to be there doesn’t alter the fact that they’re cynically being used as political capital.

ForlornLindtBear · 28/10/2025 16:04

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 28/10/2025 13:54

That’s not the subject being discussed.

It is actually.

ForlornLindtBear · 28/10/2025 16:05

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 15:44

Whether or not they chose to be there doesn’t alter the fact that they’re cynically being used as political capital.

Exactly

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 16:09

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 15:44

Whether or not they chose to be there doesn’t alter the fact that they’re cynically being used as political capital.

there is your answer @1dayatatime

again you miss the point

Circularmadness · 28/10/2025 16:35

“Right love” Farage and the majority of the far right don’t give a toss for women or rape gangs. They only want to focus on Pakistani grooming gangs, sidelining all others ( the majority of cases) to fit an anti-immigration narrative. I’ve shared this before here but I think it’s illustrative of the way many on the far right behave. This grooming victim is screamed at, sworn at and manhandled when her experience doesn’t fit the immigrant agenda.

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/17Jcb41LPu/

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1dayatatime · 28/10/2025 17:22

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 15:44

Whether or not they chose to be there doesn’t alter the fact that they’re cynically being used as political capital.

So let's get this right, regardless of whether they choose to be there or not then you believe that they are being used politically.

You could extend this argument to any non politician appearing alongside any politician on any political topic.

The reality is that both the non politician and politician are using each other to advance their own objectives or towards a common goal and this has always been the case.

Why do you think that the grooming victims chose to stand alongside Farage - just to be on telly? No they chose to stand alongside Farage because they believe that the current enquiry is not addressing their concerns or is in some way biased. By standing alongside Farage they get publicity and someone that will put political rhetoric behind those concerns.

Both the grooming victims and Reform have a common goal or if you prefer are using each other.

This is how politics has always been and is really not difficult to understand.

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 18:03

1dayatatime · 28/10/2025 17:22

So let's get this right, regardless of whether they choose to be there or not then you believe that they are being used politically.

You could extend this argument to any non politician appearing alongside any politician on any political topic.

The reality is that both the non politician and politician are using each other to advance their own objectives or towards a common goal and this has always been the case.

Why do you think that the grooming victims chose to stand alongside Farage - just to be on telly? No they chose to stand alongside Farage because they believe that the current enquiry is not addressing their concerns or is in some way biased. By standing alongside Farage they get publicity and someone that will put political rhetoric behind those concerns.

Both the grooming victims and Reform have a common goal or if you prefer are using each other.

This is how politics has always been and is really not difficult to understand.

The survivors of the grooming gangs is being used for political gain by Farage, thus the question by the journalist concerning Andrew. This is a loaded question as it shows the difference, there is no political gain for him to want Andrew investigated.

last week Farage went on strike and sat in the spectators gallery, disrespecting the speaker. All because he couldn’t have his own way. This week he wants to go to the speaker with his great idea of all political parties using parliament to come together. The coming together for something that is already in motion

Leavesfalling · 28/10/2025 18:06

BIossomtoes · 28/10/2025 15:44

Whether or not they chose to be there doesn’t alter the fact that they’re cynically being used as political capital.

Thus completely devaluing anything a survivor might say due to some people's inability to distinguish between a survivor and Nigel Farage.

Leavesfalling · 28/10/2025 18:10

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 18:03

The survivors of the grooming gangs is being used for political gain by Farage, thus the question by the journalist concerning Andrew. This is a loaded question as it shows the difference, there is no political gain for him to want Andrew investigated.

last week Farage went on strike and sat in the spectators gallery, disrespecting the speaker. All because he couldn’t have his own way. This week he wants to go to the speaker with his great idea of all political parties using parliament to come together. The coming together for something that is already in motion

Would you say the same if she was sitting next to Kemi B out of genuine interest?

The way I see it is that Ms Reynolds is after as much publicity of why she took the decision she did. And she's got it in spades. As she said was her intention. Good on her.

And she probably doesn't need to persuade the extreme left anyway.as they.wont be able to get over the racial element to these crimes. So it doesn't matter if her message got through to them. But there are an awful lot of normal people which it will have got through to. Good on her.

Leavesfalling · 28/10/2025 18:12

MikeRafone · 28/10/2025 18:03

The survivors of the grooming gangs is being used for political gain by Farage, thus the question by the journalist concerning Andrew. This is a loaded question as it shows the difference, there is no political gain for him to want Andrew investigated.

last week Farage went on strike and sat in the spectators gallery, disrespecting the speaker. All because he couldn’t have his own way. This week he wants to go to the speaker with his great idea of all political parties using parliament to come together. The coming together for something that is already in motion

Prince Andrew affects a microscopic amount of girls compared to the national rape gangs. There's only so much Nigel Farage can do to save the UK. Give him a chance...he can't do everything the country needs at once!

ForlornLindtBear · 28/10/2025 18:14

It’s not difficult to distinguish the two and the poster has clearly done that multiple times. I’m not sure why you can’t seem to grasp that.

Leavesfalling · 28/10/2025 18:14

Circularmadness · 28/10/2025 16:35

“Right love” Farage and the majority of the far right don’t give a toss for women or rape gangs. They only want to focus on Pakistani grooming gangs, sidelining all others ( the majority of cases) to fit an anti-immigration narrative. I’ve shared this before here but I think it’s illustrative of the way many on the far right behave. This grooming victim is screamed at, sworn at and manhandled when her experience doesn’t fit the immigrant agenda.

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/17Jcb41LPu/

Oh I loved the "right love". He is so funny at teasing the pompous press. Mishal Husan (son went to Eton) takes herself so seriously and wouldn't let him speak. Good on him.

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