"Hey, we agree ! Men should be careful, careful to get consent"
And do you think women should get consent before they screw a guy for 18 years worth of child support?
"careful to put a condom on"
Agree. But what about the women who WANT to be single Mothers and get state benefits and DON'T want him to put a condom on?
"careful to look after a life they created"
Only if they BOTH agree they WANT to. If the woman wants an abortion, well, that's fine isn't it, even if he doesn't. But, yes, she carries it, so she gets all the choices. He gets the crappy end of the stick. But you don't care and I don't suppose you ever will.
"careful they don't pass on any nasty little diseases"
Strange, I thought women could pass on these little nasties. Are you telling me that only men pass them on? Perhaps you should google the stats.