I am conflicted really. I would not and could not punish children or not very bright adults/adults with poor upbringing/adults with low self esteem.
However, we are a very small country and have limited resources. We do need to address the "well I get x amount for housing benefit, X for income support and X child tax credit, well it's not worth me working because I wouldn't be able to earn that".
Well those in that situation need to be able to earn £200 or £300 a week towards their expenses to contribute and the welfare system needs not to penalise them for that.
I am pissed and not articulating myself well, BTW.
We as a country, have a limited pot, we don't need to subsidise big familes, we don't need to expand the population of this small island, but I would rather eat my own tits than deprive or stigmatise the actual children of large or poor families.
We do need the parents of those children, or at least one of them, working towards contributing towards the benefits they may receive.
We are not flush, but ok and grateful to have decent jobs through which we are proud to pay a good amount of tax. For me, it is a good thing to pay tax and contribute to society, but we all need to do that, even if it is only partial.