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Any Witches here? Part 20

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speakout · 16/02/2024 12:56

Or Wiccans. or Pagans? Or anyone who is interested in a magical path or feels some magical stirrings.
A place for support, learning, swapping ideas and magical inspiration..
This is the 18th thread- anyone looking for a deep dive into juicy magical topics may like to browse previous threads.....
It is a long list!!
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Hedjwitch · 28/02/2024 15:43

Love the laundrette story. Women are wonderful when they come together as a supportive strength. Indomitable.

Witching has taken a back seat here too as the search for a care home for mother continues. Waiting lists,medical records,social work,selling the house...all exhausting and emotionally exhausting.
My own house could do eith a good clean, but I just dont have the energy. Dhal in the slow cooker and spending an afternoon off from work under my heated throw.

SeaEssence · 01/03/2024 13:50

What a lovely story @speakout. Kindness costs nothing, and makes such a change.

There will forever be those reckless in chasing wealth with little regard for the resources and environment. I too enjoy reading/learning about space exploration, but find the pollution awful. To think the stargazing may turn into Starlink-gazing in our lifetime is sickening. My work is somewhat connected to the industry - there's a lot of space junk, but it's hopeful to see the many startups focusing on collecting it/cleaning, and it seems to be getting financial backing. Hopefully it's not too late.

@queenrollo @Hedjwitch sorry to hear about your struggles. Hope the spring lifts your spirit and the mundane difficulties get resolved.

I'm def feeling increased spring energy lately despite murky weather prolonging the building works. My daffodils are in full flower now, though the day after they came out we had frost so they are a bit droopy. Found this hare statue in Sainsbury's the other day, I like the calm and warmth that comes out of it. I think I'll start slowly building my altar around it.

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Craftycorvid · 01/03/2024 16:15

Afternoon all! It’s a raw cold one here. There’s a magpie gathering twigs for nesting in our garden. The small songbirds are all over the bird feeder. There’s Homity pie for dinner. Sometimes it’s all about the small details. 🙂

Hedjwitch · 01/03/2024 16:44

We have frogspawn.

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speakout · 02/03/2024 07:37

Hedjwitch I hope your cosy afternoon has refreshed you, how exciting to have frogspawn!

It's a bit early for daffodils here SeaEssence- flower buds are still slumbering behind their sepals.
SeaEssence I love your hares. it's also great to find something like that in mainstream shops, and usually not too expensive. I have bought a few similar things from Morrisons and Poundland.

Absolutely about the details Craftycorvid. If we open our heart to joy and accept every tiny drop of beauty, pleasure and smiles then it can add up to a huge ocean.

My DD has had a diagnosis of pneumonia on Thursday, given yet more antiiotics and steroids and told to take complete bed rest. But she had an interview at University yesterday ( which went really well) and is teaching today as they can't find cover. She packs her time so tightly, it is slightly frustrating to watch.

But I think back to my life in my early 20s- and it was grim. Married to a man who inflicted several types of abuse , and my MH so poor, my self esteem so low, that I blamed myself for every act of violence towards me.

Sometimes the deepest healing comes from the darkest places, and I wholly embrace my path of self compassion and self love.

Body Balance today, and a little swing past M&S for some Bircher bowls- they are so scrummy. I could make them myself, but we all need a little treat. By the time I get back home I will be hungry for brunch, and a sit down with my Bircher and some Turkish coffee while I watch birds feeding in my garden.
I want to have a go at making granola with weekend- any recipes would be gratefully received!

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FizzingAda · 02/03/2024 08:58

Lucky you to have frogspawn, Hedjwitch. We put in a wildlife pond three years ago, and still no spawn 😟. We are surrounded by farmland, don't know if that makes them thin on the ground.

SeaEssence · 02/03/2024 13:50

We used to have pond full of frogspawn every year, I even used to take some to DS's school (in retrospect I feel really bad about having interfered). But it disappeared about 2 years ago. We have a lot of newts, and apparently they eat frogspawn so it seems they eradicated frogs from our pond - @FizzingAda any other creatures living in your pond that may be the reason?

I have a similar "problem" with our bird feeder. The neighbours' gardens are constantly full of birds, I keep the feeder full, using quality feed, and securely out of reach of cats and other animals, even tried a few different places to put it, yet the birds very rarely come to it. Every year we have birds nesting under our roof, and see them go feed next door. As long as they don't go hungry I don't mind really, just questioning what do I do wrong...

Nellieinthebarn · 02/03/2024 17:31

@speakout This is the basic granola I make regularly, I got the recipe from a friend, I don't know where she got it so I cannot give credit to the original author. I add different combinations of fruit and nuts to the basic recipe. I have made it with hazel nut and apricot, dates and walnuts, coconut and dried cranberries, dried apple and sultanas and also by just adding a bag of chopped trail mix.

2 tablespoons of sunflower oil
4 tablespoons of peanut butter
4 tablespoons maple syrup
300g porridge oats

I roast nuts separately and add dried fruit either as they are or chopped a bit after the granola is cooked, because the nuts don't take very long and will burn, and I just prefer raw dried fruit.

First, preheat the oven to 180C.
Melt the peanut butter and maple syrup together with the oil and give it a stir to combine.
Add the oats and mix well to coat them in the oil mixture.
Lightly grease a non stick baking tray, or use oiled baking parchment, and tip the oats onto it, gently flattening down with the back of a spoon to spread to about 1/2 inch thick. Bake in the centre of the oven for 15 minutes.
Remove and allow to cool, add your nuts and fruit ect, keep in an air tight jar.

Hope this helps.

Hedjwitch · 02/03/2024 18:48

That granola sounds yummy. A tough day thanks to fibromyalgia so currently in bed with fairy lights lit and frankincense and myrrh in the burner. Trying to focus on the positives just now: a friend gave me a jar of his honey, I got an email from my boss praising my work, and DS said my " use up the sausages and throw everything in" casserole was delicious. Could be worse

FizzingAda · 02/03/2024 19:51

There were some dragonfly nymphs last spring, they could have eaten any tadpoles I suppose. We had a small pond in my last house, and it heaved with frogs every spring, so large numbers of froglets survived, it was lovely seeing them leave the pond in hordes. This current pond has no fish, there plenty of insects in it, but no newts or frogs, though there was once a toad, but he died. Fingers crossed for this year.

speakout · 03/03/2024 08:05

Nellieinthebarn thank you for the recipe, I will give that a go. I need to scour my shelves and visit Aldi or Lidl for grains, both places have a good inexpensive range.
I made a large tray of chargrilled peppers yesterday- I find that a really good way to eat bigger quantities of this vegetable. I half, de-seed, sprinkle with some olive oil, throw in a few whole unpeeled garlic cloves. Once the skin has started to char, throw the whole lot into a plastic bag with any juices..
Once cool the skins come off easily. I peel and smoosh the garlic between my fingers, slice the peppers, add some salt, black pepper and a glug of balsamic vinegar. They will keep for 3-4 days in the fridge. Great as a sandwich filler, on top of salad, or crostini.
A good way to pack veg into my diet- I can easily eat 2 or 3 peppers in a portion, this way but would struggle to eat that many raw.

I haven't checked for tadpoles this year. I don't have a pond, there is a fast flowing river very close, but a few little side ponds along the bank of calm water- I need no encouragement for a woodland walk.

I try to selectively feed wild birds, the smaller birds are so easily scared by the bigger ones. Unfortunately my mother and OH will throw out large chunks of bread or leftovers onto the grass, and my garden will become a noisy flurry of seagulls, magpies and crows- the small birds take flight.

SeaEssence I have guilt about things I did when I was a child. My father would take my sister and I to the local woods in early spring to gather bird eggs directly from their nests. Once home my father would help us "blow" the eggs, flushing out the eggs contents over a sink to empty the eggs but preserve the shell.
We had books and trays to lay out the eggs, making little labels once identified.
I was mesmerised by the colours, shapes, patterns. But thinking about this now makes me so sad.
In my defence I was only 5 or 6 years old, we stopped when my much older sister lost interest, so I was unaware of the harm and implications of our actions.

I even struggle now with the idea of keeping pets, especially birds or exotic animals.
Keeping animals as "living toys" doesn't seem right to me.
I have done my share of perpetuating the habit, buying hamsters, guinea pigs, owing dogs and cats in the past. But I am becoming much more critical of the idea.

There is no doubt that animals can bring comfort and companionship to many, can ease loneliness, can be useful as working or service animals, but the whole idea of keeping animals doesn't sit with me well.
Many animals become strays, kept in bad situations, allowed to breed without restriction. They contribute to co2 output, and support the meat industry.

I have two cats myself- they are rescue animals and have been neutered. Any animal already here deserves a good quality of life, but I have mixed feelings about pet "ownership" in general.

Sorry for the mini rant!

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headache · 05/03/2024 21:32

Hello can I join again please? I was reading and popping in last year then my MH fell apart and my tentative witchy steps fell by the wayside. I have had a horrible, horrible year surrounded my negative people.

I’ve just recently started to see the little shoots of Spring and feel like they’ve been calling to me that things will turn the corner and will get better again. I was looking at my lovely little dwarf daffodils today in full bloom in the garden and they are so pretty, it’s lovely to see Spring again it’s truly my favourite season. I want to do more in the garden this year my plan is to build a little herb garden I already have lots of pots of lavender my favourite flower but want to start an actual proper herb garden. We have rescue bunnies so I’ll have to try and keep them away.

speakout · 06/03/2024 07:02

headache of course you are welcome. Good to hear from you again.
I am sorry things have been tough.
Many of us on this thread know of mental health issues, emotional challenges, and support each other on our healing magical journeys.
Signs of spring make me glad too. New shoots and buds popping up, brighter skies, reminders of renewal and possibilities after dark days.

My pear tree is in full bloom, my magnolia about to flower, birds are very busy.

My morning rituals are underway, yoga class then work, hopefully time for magical pottering too.

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Craftycorvid · 06/03/2024 07:59

Morning all! And hello @headache and welcome.

Have put my back out by…dunno! Reached across the bed for something and it hurt. Now spasming. Mr C’s physio’ had to get me upright when she called yesterday instead of sorting out Mr C. I have emergency acupuncture booked for this morning. I suspect a tired body has just told me firmly to rest. Never had back pain before and am one of those people who can sleep wherever.

speakout · 07/03/2024 11:19

I hope your back has improved Craftycorvid.
Can be a killer, especially when muscles join in the party and go into spasm.
Short term medication can help, especially anything containing codeine, as it is a muscle relaxant.
I have suffered back pain for decades ( not any longer thankfully), and have even been prescribed a short course of diazepam to relax my muscles.

It's a bright spring day here, I am very tempted to hang out my laundry which is just finishing. Lots of lack clouds around too though, so I suspect rain is likely.
It is lovely to think of the warmer days and hanging clothes, I get disproportionately excited about small things!

I am having a deeply caring self love week. Eating very nutritious food, yoga, journalling, deep Tarot, lots of sleep, magical rituals.
I know that some people benefit from practicing gratitude, but that doesn't sit well with me.
In my mind gratitude implies we need to be grateful "to" something or someone- correct me if I have that view wrong!

I do however think of the abundance I have in my life- a day never passes when I recognise all the good things, simple things that we may take for granted.

I have clean drinking water, a warm home, food to eat, safety, and the love of my family and friends.

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Craftycorvid · 07/03/2024 17:26

Thanks, @speakout - the back is now merely aching as opposed to spasming! I’ve been lucky enough to have a good friend as on-call acupuncturist. I’ve also used painkillers and Moxa balm plus heat lamp.

Today has dragged a bit, but I did get my hair done (it needed it!)

In terms of abundance, we’re doing all right. Life could definitely be easier but we have enough and some left over. 🙂

ISaySteadyOn · 07/03/2024 18:09

@speakout clean laundry hanging out in the sunshine is one of my favourite sights. Especially now I have washed the windows.

I had a baking success today. DD2 told me it looked professional. It's a honey cake.

It tasted pretty good too 😁.

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queenrollo · 07/03/2024 19:07

I think the whole gratitude thing has been hijacked a bit by the wellness influencers. It's become a buzzword. I can see how it helps in some ways, I used to live with a very negative mindset and actively shutting those thoughts down and turning them into kindness has really helped me.

I sometimes find my house a bit much to handle, the end of winter sees me tired of tending the Rayburn. I find myself suddenly feeling so blessed - I guess a gratutide - that we have this beautiful home and garden to live in. My DH and I worked hard and still do, to be in a position to live here.
I don't think the gratitude particularly has to be 'to' anyone or anything.

My Rayburn is hard work but I am very grateful for it when our electric only village has a power cut and I still have heat and can cook. I can provide hot water for my neighbours to fill a flask.

Life continues to be challenging here, transitions all round. A difficult night with my 11 year old and this morning as he cried into his breakfast I decided to sack off school. We went to the beach instead. Our timing was perfect, we got to see a seal from a local sanctuary released back into the wild and they were so good with DS, answering all his questions.

Craftycorvid · 07/03/2024 22:26

@queenrollo A Rayburn is a lovely thing.

So glad you took your boy to the beach instead of sending him to school. Some days are just too much.

speakout · 08/03/2024 07:19

queenrollo I agree, you speak wise words. Having an internal mindset off negative thoughts can have an impact. I also question the idea of forgiveness, I know that is fashionable too. I have people from my past that I don't care to forgive, but that doesn't mean I hold onto resentment. I have dealt with the wounds and these people occupy no headspace- they rarely enter my thoughts.
You sound a lovely mum queenrollo, realising what your DS needs, he will feel so supported and acknowledged and actions like this will deepen your relationship, now and in the future.
Your Rayburn sounds lovely, I have never had such an appliance.
I don't have an open fire or log burner either, and I yearn for a fireplace.
There is no chimney in my house, and no place for a flue, so I am stuck.
I feel houses always have some compromise- but I live in such a beautiful area, safe, quiet, surrounded by woodland. My home is a good size, and I am a 3 minute walk to a beautiful river, 15 minute drive to the beach and mountains.
Perhaps in the future if we downsize I may get a fireplace.

ISaySteadyOn that cake looks amazing. Do you have a recipe? I don't have much confidence when it comes to baking, my few attempts haven't turned out so well. I consider myself a competent cook, I make most things from scratch, love exotic ingredients and flavours, but baking has bypassed me. My mother was a truly dreadful cook and didn't bake either.
If the honey cake is not too difficult I would love to give it a go!
Off to start my morning rituals.
I have been using some lovely incense from Oxfam, part of their fair trade selection- new items. It's called The Mother's India Fragrances. Small packs, inexpensive and short sticks. I find many incense sticks too overpowering and strong, but this one is a delicate fragrance - comes in 4 or 5 varieties.
So now also part of my morning rituals.
Have a wonderful day magical sisters.

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ISaySteadyOn · 08/03/2024 07:40

It was very easy to make, but due to how much honey is in it, I plan to make it a rare treat and for PTA bake sales at school fetes. Here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/honeycake_67599

I made it because I needed some harmony in my house. I feel a sort of affinity with the Greek pantheon so I asked Hestia and made the honey cake for her and my family. It worked.

Honey cake recipe

Honey cake recipe

Try James Martin's super easy honey cake recipe for a bee-autiful afternoon tea. The honey you use will have quite an impact on the flavour of the cake.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/honeycake_67599

VioletCharlotte · 09/03/2024 10:42

CraftyCorvid I hope your back is ok. Backache is miserable as it affects everything, it's hard to sleep, exercise or even get comfortable in a chair. I've had Bowen therapy a couple of times in the past when mine got really bad and found it really effective.

@ISaySteadyOn the cake looks great! Thank you for sharing the recipe. I've been feeling a pull to do some baking, but I think I'll be going for chocolate cake as that mine and DS's favourite!

I think people get confused with the concept of gratitude and it's sometimes use to put people down for being aspirational or not wanting to accept life being a race to the bottom. For me, it's more about counting my blessings and reminding myself of the positive things in my life that make me happy, rather than swelling on the negatives. Today I'm feeling grateful that the sun is shining as it gives me a lift to be able to take my dog for a walk and feel a little warmth.

SeaEssence · 10/03/2024 10:24

Good morning and Happy Mothers Day!

@ISaySteadyOn that cake looks divine, I may give it a try later.

I'm pleased to report the wild garlic season is in full swing here, so I'm processing, freezing and above all making heaps of garlic butter - the house (and I) stinks, and we keep having to nap all the time as it lowers the blood pressure 😂
As the school situation concluded I had huge weight lifted off my chest, and the sunny weather helped me recharge over the last week, so I'm bouncing with abundance of positive energy now - I'll light a candle at 8pm today to share it with the group 😊

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Hedjwitch · 14/03/2024 19:58

Been ill for days with severe chest infection. On second course of antibiotics. Mother moves into a care home next week. Room came available unexpectedly....complete panic stations to try and meet the deadline with funding etc. Home of 40 odd years needs to be cleared and sold. Mountain of paperwork to do. Its all just too much

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