It’s an interesting perspective. I guess how they take my interest is up to them. You see to me, when people aren’t willing to expand on their answers it makes me wonder why. I think that’s a natural response.
And it is a natural response to you, but other people have a limit of how many 'but why' extensions they wish to respond to. You write as if their unwillingness to discuss for as long as you want to / in the way that you want to is hiding something.
You see, if people ask me why repeatedly trying to drill down into my thoughts, I don’t take offence, it’s useful to explore ideas, especially with those who think differently.
I don't think anyone is offended? I'm certainly not. It's more that my interest in a topic might have a natural conclusion / limit and therefore it doesn't interest or benefit me to keep answering 'but why' extensions I guess.
I find the whole concept of “thanks that’s interesting (when it really is not) pointless and boring. That kind of response had its place of course in say the office or school playground with school mums/dads, it has no place on a thread specifically aimed at exploring thoughts, it’s a place for debate. Someone coming on and say “cos there’s no evidence” and then not expecting further questions is pointless, it’s just repeating the obvious over and over why even get involved?
Respectfully (genuinely!) being on the receiving end of your responses and tone can feel exactly like this, that you're repeating the same thing over and over so why would people keep responding if they'll get the same 'but why' type response no matter what they say? It's hard to write this without it sounding accusatory so please know it's in good faith!
I think this is a fundamental issue in society today, people are so afraid of upsetting someone debate is dead. People just think they can state their position and drop the Mike like it’s a be all and end all.
I don't think that is relevant to this thread. Nobody has behaved in a way (on either 'side' of atheism or belief) that is a 'mic drop'. It's not a mic drop to say you believe something and don't have further thoughts on it.
It's important to respect that someone has a limit to how much they want to continue discussing something and appreciate that it may not be because they're offended or upset, it may be just that they have no interest in discussing it further or discussing it in the quite rigid framework of questions you wish to.
And while you dismiss people's responses of 'cos there's no evidence', saying they should expect further questions... why? It's a perfectly valid and natural response to asking why someone doesn't believe in something. You are free to continue to ask why, but the question has been answered and for many people the answer is literally as simple as that.
I don't believe the sky is made of a cotton and linen patchwork quilt. Because I have zero evidence that it is. Responding to me asserting I don't believe it due to lack of evidence with 'but what is the sky' and 'but what do you mean by cotton? And linen?' would be to me a nonsensical response because I've made a statement with a clear reasoning. Lack of evidence.
Anyone who says differently is stupid, or prejudiced, brain washed etc etc. The world would be a much better place if people were challenged more, if people thought more about their position.
I think this is key, that because you believe strongly in a higher power that you think people not believing is a position worth 'challenging'. For many of us who are not believers, it's baffling people wish to encourage us to a 'challenge' or interrogate our lack of belief in a higher power, because it simply isn't a big deal to us.
I don't feel any more need to challenge or interrogate my personal absence of belief in god / higher power than I do my lack of belief in fairies or leprechauns or cotton and linen patchwork sky quilts. They have the same absence of impact on my life personally and to me the same absence of evidence to me personally.