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Why is Sandi Toksvig so interested in the C of E?

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Sausagenbacon · 28/01/2023 11:15

and why does Justin Welby bother with her?

www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jan/26/sandi-toksvig-laments-untenable-church-of-england-stance-on-gay-marriage

She's not a christian, but feels entitled to have a chummy chat with the Archbishop of Canterbury, who is wet enough to indulge her.

I'm not particularly invested in the subject, and I am an Anglican, but I do think there is something frankly, pitiful about it.

I expect an article in next week's Guardian with a sad-faced Sandy talking about how the local Mosque/Synagogue won't marry her and her partner, and how 'unsafe' she now feels. Or not.

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tribpot · 28/01/2023 12:21

Why does ST feel entitled enough to publicly criticise a religion she doesn't belong to? Would she do it to Islam, Or Judaism?
You could have added Catholicism to this list, OP and the reason would be the same. She's not having a cosy chat with Archbishop Nichols or his oppos in Scotland and Northern Ireland, because the Church of England is the state church. I think we're all pretty much in agreement that it shouldn't be - and as a side benefit it would be able to continue its policies against gay marriage (for as long as a majority of its own members wanted it to) without Sandi turning up to have tea with the Archbishop. Win-win.

Until that happens, she has a right to challenge it.

I expect an article in next week's Guardian with a sad-faced Sandy talking about how the local Mosque/Synagogue won't marry her and her partner, and how 'unsafe' she now feels.
When Toksvig came out, she and her family were subject to death threats (and this was before social media). I strongly doubt the CofE's policy makes her feel unsafe, but she is familiar with dangerous homophobia.

Sausagenbacon · 28/01/2023 12:21

well, you learn something new everyday. I think calling someone 'wet' is pretty mild. I didn't say 'spineless' after all. Which I could have done. Fancy being the head of a worldwide religious institution, and thinking that you're at the beck and call of any celebrity that wants some air time!

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NowDoYouBelieveMe · 28/01/2023 12:23

ditalini · 28/01/2023 12:10

No, he's only Head because Henry VIII wanted a divorce. Archbishop of Canterbury could be Head if they wanted (I'm sure it's a bit more complicated than that).

Divine Right of Kings hasn't got anything to do with CofE and the last English monarch to invoke that got his head chopped off.

Plenty of Catholic countries managed fine without their monarch being the head of the church.

Yes I agree the founding roots of the CoE are quite ridiculous, spiritually speaking. But weren't the French kings also appointed to lead by God, in that Catholic country?

I found Charles's recent swearing in speech by the Clerk of the Counsel quite illuminating re: the monarch's religious significance:

"By the grace of God, of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland, and of his other realms and territories King, head of the Commonwealth, defender of the faith, to whom we do acknowledge all faith and obedience with humble affection, beseeching God, by whom kings and queens do reign, to bless his majesty with long and happy years to reign over us. God save the King!"

Sportswomansrest72 · 28/01/2023 12:24

Sausagenbacon · 28/01/2023 11:15

and why does Justin Welby bother with her?

www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jan/26/sandi-toksvig-laments-untenable-church-of-england-stance-on-gay-marriage

She's not a christian, but feels entitled to have a chummy chat with the Archbishop of Canterbury, who is wet enough to indulge her.

I'm not particularly invested in the subject, and I am an Anglican, but I do think there is something frankly, pitiful about it.

I expect an article in next week's Guardian with a sad-faced Sandy talking about how the local Mosque/Synagogue won't marry her and her partner, and how 'unsafe' she now feels. Or not.

I think it’s terrific that such an intelligent and measured person like Sandy Toksvig is asking all of the hard questions. After all, these are the very same questions that thousands of members of the C of E, and Catholics for that matter, are asking.

Surely any citizen of the uk is entitled to have a chat with the Archbishop of Canterbury in his role as head of the established church, if he deigns to meet with them? Why on earth shouldn’t ST meet with him or are gay people excluded from public debate?

For that matter, if the “greatest of all these is love” why doesn’t that encompass gay people?

The Rev Richard Cole’s has written a very good article on this subject in the Independent.

Why so sneery and defensive op?

Knoblauch · 28/01/2023 12:25

Just say you're a hateful homophobe OP. Everyone can tell anyway.

2bazookas · 28/01/2023 12:30

Maybe she'll let him try to change her mind about being a lesbian.

Equal opportunities for all, Sandy.

Sportswomansrest72 · 28/01/2023 12:31

bellac11 · 28/01/2023 12:07

Yes I dont think the church represents society, I dont know that it claims to, I think it thinks its duty is to instruct or guide society in what it believes.

Surely the Christian church is the representation of Jesus on earth?

And who did Jesus embrace during his time here: the poor, the disabled, the ostracised? All of the elements of society who were rejected by the establishment.

ditalini · 28/01/2023 12:32

NowDoYouBelieveMe · 28/01/2023 12:23

Yes I agree the founding roots of the CoE are quite ridiculous, spiritually speaking. But weren't the French kings also appointed to lead by God, in that Catholic country?

I found Charles's recent swearing in speech by the Clerk of the Counsel quite illuminating re: the monarch's religious significance:

"By the grace of God, of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland, and of his other realms and territories King, head of the Commonwealth, defender of the faith, to whom we do acknowledge all faith and obedience with humble affection, beseeching God, by whom kings and queens do reign, to bless his majesty with long and happy years to reign over us. God save the King!"

Yes, it's one of those things that makes me a republican.

I go through my life not thinking about it for the vast majority of the time and then hear something like that, or the National Anthem, and actually listen to the words...

...and cringe.

YukoandHiro · 28/01/2023 12:35

Fine. So let's take religion right out of government and the state altogether. Can't come quickly enough. Sick of all the bloody moralising you hear in the lords and that this is c of e situation is even a discussion. Leave bigots to themselves (I also realise the majority of Christians are not in step with the c of e either)

user8545 · 28/01/2023 12:39

Are they expected to change these views because one part of the church, in very recent times, has become Liberal?

No, they should because it's not the fucking year 1300 any more.

tribpot · 28/01/2023 12:39

Fancy being the head of a worldwide religious institution, and thinking that you're at the beck and call of any celebrity that wants some air time!
I'd imagine that Welby is acutely aware that he has (at minimum) an optics problem on this issue, and that ignoring Toksvig's request would just have made things worse.

However, you can presumably make your views known via your own vicar that you don't think he should have met with her?

NowDoYouBelieveMe · 28/01/2023 12:41

ditalini · 28/01/2023 12:32

Yes, it's one of those things that makes me a republican.

I go through my life not thinking about it for the vast majority of the time and then hear something like that, or the National Anthem, and actually listen to the words...

...and cringe.

Yep, same here. Hard to believe this is how the State operates in 21st century Britain.

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/01/2023 12:42

Knoblauch · Today 12:25
Just say you're a hateful homophobe OP. Everyone can tell anyway“

Quite. I know only two Christians. Awful, hateful, judgemental people, both of them.

watchfulwishes · 28/01/2023 12:42

Sausagenbacon · 28/01/2023 12:21

well, you learn something new everyday. I think calling someone 'wet' is pretty mild. I didn't say 'spineless' after all. Which I could have done. Fancy being the head of a worldwide religious institution, and thinking that you're at the beck and call of any celebrity that wants some air time!

Are you really this silly or just being goady?

Welby doesn't think he is at anyone's beck and call. Welby wanted to do this interview because it aligns with the plans currently in place to communicate the thoughts of the head of the CofE.

CraneBoysMysteries · 28/01/2023 12:44

Whether you like it or not, the Anglican Church is founded on the Bible, which had certain views on this. Are they expected to change these views because one part of the church,

The church has long reviewed and changed its views and how much it is 'founded on the bible'. Divorce? Tattoos? I'm sure I remember there being something about shellfish?

Why should it's views on same sex relationships be any different?

Underanothersky · 28/01/2023 12:46

faretheewell · 28/01/2023 11:41

Sandy said this,

"From our very calm and considered conversation yesterday, it is very clear that the state’s Church of England and the society it purports to represent are not remotely in step."

But does the C of E really purport to represent society? That's like equating society with God. Church supposed to be about finding relationship with God not a representation of society. So whatever any particular church does the aim is to strengthen relationship with God rather than represent society.

This isn't a comment on gay marriage, by the way. It's just a comment concerning the purpose of church.

Jesus was very big on his followers working to make society a more equal place for everyone

faretheewell · 28/01/2023 12:59

Jesus was very big on his followers working to make society a more equal place for everyone

He didn't attempt to do this through politics or attempting to physically overthrow the rulers of the time, though.

bellac11 · 28/01/2023 13:09

Sportswomansrest72 · 28/01/2023 12:31

Surely the Christian church is the representation of Jesus on earth?

And who did Jesus embrace during his time here: the poor, the disabled, the ostracised? All of the elements of society who were rejected by the establishment.

Im atheist so obviously biased but I suspect that the loving lovely, hippy Jesus was nothing of the sort.

Sportswomansrest72 · 28/01/2023 13:10

faretheewell · 28/01/2023 12:59

Jesus was very big on his followers working to make society a more equal place for everyone

He didn't attempt to do this through politics or attempting to physically overthrow the rulers of the time, though.

What? Jesus was a highly pitical
figure. He rejected both the Roman authorities and the Jewish leaders of the time. He didn’t use the political
system to achieve his life’s mission, but nonetheless his teachings carried with them highly political implications which is why his life ended in a political execution.

Sportswomansrest72 · 28/01/2023 13:11

political figure

Abhannmor · 28/01/2023 13:14

faretheewell · 28/01/2023 11:55

Where does that leave the King though, as he's head of that religion and apparently appointed by God to lead the country and church?

Who is qualified to lead?

The Puritans were very devout Christians. If they thought the king was appointed by God they wouldn't have beheaded him.

faretheewell · 28/01/2023 13:24

@Sportswomansrest72**

He didn’t use the political
system to achieve his life’s mission, but nonetheless his teachings carried with them highly political implications which is why his life ended in a political execution.

I agree with this. Not using the political system I correlate with not being political. Nonetheless there absolutely were political implications and I wouldn't, indeed don't, deny this.

PennyRa · 28/01/2023 13:25

Maybe just keep your homophobia to yourself 🙄

faretheewell · 28/01/2023 13:25

The Puritans were very devout Christians. If they thought the king was appointed by God they wouldn't have beheaded him.

@Abhannmor indeed.

Sausagenbacon · 28/01/2023 13:32

Fwiw I fail to see how questioning whether a self-appointed non-Christian celebrity has a role is deciding Anglican policy is homophobic. But do carry on.

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